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AngelaK

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I'm 45 and looking for a smart, witty, friend in the lifestyle. Women should have sassy mouths and a swing in their steps. Men shouldn't be intimidated by smart, confident women. Mental stability, optimistic outlook and sense of humor are not negotiable.
#1 If BDSM doesn't include a lot of joy and laughter in your play I'm not the partner for you. #2 I'm a masochistic with a cruel streak, not a submissive. Yes indeed, I'm a switch! Let's hear it for flexibility. #3 I'm not a "Yes, Ma'am" "No, Sir" kind of person and have been known to fight back during a scene. If you're kind of playmate is docile and obedient, keep looking.

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5/30/2010 11:29:07 AM
I wonder why women never view me. LOL Maybe it's because it seems that men are supposed to do the pursuing. What a load of crap.

I am amazed at the people who either don't read my profile or just don't care that I'm turned off by domination. Hello? Pain slut! Sadist! Not into giving or receiving humiliation or (shudder) lactation or being called girl. But I have talked to some very nice, smart people.

Thank you to the people who can put an intelligent sentence together, to those of you who've read my blog, to those of you who respect my definition of MY kink. And if my definition doesn't match yours, I wish you the best of luck in your search.

5/6/2010 4:55:03 PM
Much better. These pics were taken in May '10.

5/6/2010 9:13:12 AM
I need a more updated photo. My hair is lighter and I have bangs now. All the better to hide my "reclining forehead." By the way, if you want to strike up a pleasant conversation, commenting on my huge expanse of forehead (as did the tool who called it "reclining") probably isn't the best way to go.

5/5/2010 3:51:56 PM
I have admirers! How cool is that? Hello. I have an almost irresistible urge to ask why but that seems as if I'd be fishing for compliments.

5/4/2010 2:17:21 PM
I'm far from perfect, and I see that there isn't a spell check option here, but jeezus people, maybe some of you should consider writing your profiles and emails in Word before posting and sending them. I'm embarrassed for you! I'm sure that makes me sound like a snob and I suppose, in some respects, I am. I don't care if you aren't the greatest speller, but I don't care for people who are too lazy to take the steps to improve themselves (or the image they present, as the case may be).

5/3/2010 8:55:22 PM
Curious about me? Here's a link to my blog: http://virtualslut.blogspot.com/2010/03/how-cybersex-saved-my-life.html

5/3/2010 8:28:05 PM
Four years since I've been on this site. Hello again, friends.

10/2/2006 3:23:55 PM
Wahoo! I spent the weekend camping with a bunch of wild women! BDSM wild women! I'm black and blue all over -- aching and loving it! My gf went too and had a great time. I'm pleased to announce that I'm no longer a frustrated bisexual. Today I'm quite satisfied (nudge, nudge, wink, wink) and intend to stay that way. So, congratulations are in order!

9/12/2006 6:30:31 PM
I am absolutely certain I'm bisexual! Positive. No doubt. And yet I've been dating this terrific woman for months now and have yet to, er, get my nose wet. (That's how my husband puts it when he's needling me.) Talk about performance anxiety. I do have a plan though. We are going camping together at the end of this month with a bunch of SM lesbians who are going to help me find the, um, cojones to take the next step. Jesus, I'm an embarassment to lesbians everywhere. I love to wear my strap on but the idea of actually using it scares me shitless. LOL Life is so weird.

7/16/2006 4:31:42 PM
No entries since April? Shame on me. I should be punished!! I did get a rather pornographic photo from a woman. The full spread if you get my meaning. Since I'm a nurse all I could think was, 'A little betadine and she's ready for a hysterectomy.' Send me a Georgia O'Keefe flower and a few well chosen words if you really want to get my mind to there but please, no crotch shots.
So I'm dating a woman that's on collar me. . .smart, cute, funny and as inexperienced as I am. That has it's good and bad sides. She's not going to be comparing me to past lovers. On the other hand I find myself lacking in the, er, um, bravery to take certain steps. Seriously, you build something up in your mind for 25+ years and there is a certain trepidation involved in making the image a reality. You get me?

4/21/2006 9:49:22 PM
I don't have any deep thoughts to share this evening. Feeling a little down because I was flirting with someone onsite who had some personal issues going on and I didn't know. I felt like an idiot when I found out, coming on strong for some cyber flirt when all this heavy stuff was going down. On the lighter side, real life is going extremely well! I'm seeing the lovely, charming and witty woman mentioned in my previous entry. Things are developing slowly and naturally but a delicious momentum is building. I am delighted and believe she feels much the same way. I look forward to each time we meet with more anticipation. . .

4/1/2006 5:14:48 PM
Ms. Stunning seems to have disappeared off the face of the earth. On Monday we made a lunch date for Thursday and on Thursday she didn't answer her phones or email. Odd. If I was the type to question myself or writhe in self-pity I would assume it was me. BUT I'm a mentally healthy and relatively attractive woman and so I have to guess she had something else going on in her life (or she was the victim of a tragic crime) and so couldn't get back to me. I very much hope it was the first instance rather than the second because she was a nice person and I don't wish ill on her.

In the meantime a very pleasant, lovely, smart, and wickedly funny friend is taking more and more of my time. She does have a profile on this site. And, mmm, perhaps I'd best keep my hopes to myself but I do have hopes about her. Nips and pinches to you, sweety, you know who you are.

3/23/2006 8:41:31 AM
I love corsets and saran wrap so maybe I shouldn't be surprised that I love my new invisaline braces. Mmm, tooth bondage! They are just so firm and tight and I get to wear them all day and night! Plus they keep me from snacking and I'll look permanently better when I'm done so how can you not like that?

I was talking with a lesbian friend this weekend who likes "straight" women. One would think this might be a problem but she has no shortage of action. In fact it's the straight women that chase her. I, on the other hand, have sort of an issue in that I like women with very strong (some might say dominant) personalities but I really want to be the seducer more than the seducee. Problem is, that's like me walking up to Patrick Swayze and asking for a dance and, by the way I don't know how AND I want to lead. Ok seduction part I can handle, maybe, just a little iffy on my, er, abilities from the point of nekkid onward. I just don't have much experience and, remembering waayyyyy back to awkward virginal fumblings in high school, I don't want to go there again. Ever. A dillema, eh?

3/19/2006 7:33:40 PM
*sigh* Well Ms. Stunning is just that (as well as fun and smart) and we made plans for this weekend but a family emergency called her away. Ain't that a bitch? We're planning to reschedule but I'm pretty damn disappointed.

3/11/2006 7:55:57 AM
Possible progress thanks to an introduction on here. I'm meeting a stunning woman (no, her profile isn't on this site, sorry ladies and germs), that a certain gentleman local to my area who does have his profile here, recognized might be a good match and arranged an email intro for us. A big thank you goes to him, regardless how it turns out. This woman seems like a case of too good to be true -- breathtakingly lovely, highly intelligent, very similar BDSM tastes as mine, and lives quite close. I'm half expecting to find out she has some odd flaw like one of those wretched honking laughs or that she's been irreparably emotionally damaged by her past and so will never be a trustworthy friend or lover. Which would suck. However, being an optimist I'd rather believe she's just a person that may be good but not too good to be true. I'm crossing my fingers. And I refuse to believe I'm jinxing anything by writing about. Hope anyone who reads this will think good thoughts for me.

3/4/2006 1:10:01 PM
If I was a literary character I would be Cyrano de Bergerac, except a chick. A warrior's heart and poet's soul, I'm tall, strong and longing to seduce a woman with my words. I swear, I'll get going on an email sometimes, send it and think later, 'that woman must think I'm totally full of shit.' But what the hell, it pleases me to write and I know some women like it because I used to have a veritable fan club in the chat rooms. Wonder if a real women wants to hear it instead of read it? Wouldn't you think the husky whisper of carefully chosen words would sound even better with long cool fingers twined tight in your hair, hot breath and teeth on your throat, the warm press of feminine curves against you? *breathless thinking about it*

I had Chinese food last night (sizzling rice soup -- divine) and my fortune cookie said 'Perseverence in current endeavors will pay off.' I hope like hell it was referring to this search. It sucks being so picky sometimes.

3/1/2006 11:36:17 AM
New to this journaling. Thanks for the emails thus far. I wish more were from women but I appreciate the compliments, even if not from my target audience.
This weekend I spent at South Plains Leatherfest in Dallas. Huge fun! There were terrific seminars and I attended several. One demo was on using lotions, etc. in play. Sounds soothing, eh? Not exactly. We're talking tiger balm and habeneros on very sensitive parts. Another great demo was pressure points in which the demonstrator used two fingers to drop a strong man to his knees. I also attended a nice seminar on polyamory which was useful since my hubby and I are pretty new to this. Okay very new. He's had two girlfriends and so far I haven't. Let's be honest, that would be largely because I've been very slow to approach a relationship with a woman. Getting beaten, no problem! Having an actual relationship that involves sex is a whoooooole different matter. But I'm working on it. This high standards thing is an issue though because I expect to find someone who is smart and funny and attractive and I'm not willing to settle just so I can say I'm in a poly relationship and I've got a gf. So if I have to compartmentalize a little I'm willing. Maybe I'll find a vanilla gf and beat and be beaten elsewhere. I can live with that. Wish me luck, huh?

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 Age: 29
 Burlington County, New Jersey