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Very curious "good girl". I run with scissors, talk over the teacher and have terrible manners..or so I'm told! A few things about myself:

I seek an physical attraction and mental connection OUTSIDE of the scene first. This means that I am not a 24/7 slave who will come live with you after talking to you on the phone for a month. I am selective and seek someone who can relate to me on many different levels, not just as my Daddy, but also as my friend.A connection must be made on some vanilla levels before I submit anything to you!

I am an intelligent, sweet, honest, happy little girl. There is a lot more to me than meets the eye...
humor, compassion, motivation, character. And although I need sex as much as the next person (perhaps MORE than the next person), I really have no place for "casual" friendships or playmates.
I am a very obedient girl. I would do any thing my Dom requested (under the right circumstances)as long as he shows that he will protect me from harm. I am not a pain slut. I look forward to stretching my boundries..but in a slow loving manner.
And if you actually read down
this far, here's a heads up....
if you have "Sir" or "Master" in your name,
are looking for the "one true slave" to worship you for all time,
and/or
can't/don't use correct English capitalization,
DON'T BOTHER.
8/6/2007 11:24:02 PM
I live in California. I dont travel, nor do I have time to get to know people who visit CA once in awhile.
11/18/2005 4:54:47 PM
my life is just sooo sooo busy right now and I dont have the time to give curteous replys the way that I would like to.
6/12/2005 11:51:22 PM
I seem to piss alot of people off . hmmm..well..to avoid that, as it is NOT my intention..heres a lil tip...

I almost NEVER reply when the email is obviouslly genericlly written to be sent to anyone. I almost NEVER reply is you are far from me and or have no picture.  I NEVER reply if you first write to me and forget your manners. You dont know me yet, please dont assume you are my Dom, Master, Daddy or anything other than a stranger to me.
5/27/2005 8:36:09 AM
Daddy Dom is the tenderest of all Dominants. He loves His little one with an undying passion. He always has his submissives best interest in mind, even when it conflicts with his personal desires. That doesnt mean that he gives into her every whim. There can be a huge difference in her desires and her real needs. He has to be able to make that sacrifice for her if needed. And yes, at times he does punish her. This usually hurts him just as much if not more than her, but he will always do whats best for her.

He helps her set and reach her goals in life, not just in the lifestyle. He will help her improve herself to be the best she can be, not for HIM but for her! Hes not just looking to make her a better submissive, but a better person in general.

He becomes many things in her life, a mentor, a teacher, a protector, a guide, AND a lover! He offers her what she needs most of all, unconditional love and acceptance. He is consistent in his actions so that she knows what to expect from him, she knows she can depend on him!

He wants nothing more than to pull her close and protect her from the cruel world. But knowing all along that he cant! SO  it is up to him to prepare her for whatever life may through her way and be there to comfort her when things go wrong. Knowing she will run to him when she becomes overwhelmed or frighten by the harshness of life. The Daddy Dom will listens to all her fears and concerns, knowing no matter how silly or childish they may sound to him, to her they are real and he will help her confront them. He slays her dragons so to speak and he is her "Knight in Shining Armor".

The Daddy Dom hears all her dreams, desires and all the dirty little secrets, and smiles because she is bold enough and loves him enough to open herself up so totally to him. He kisses her face and holds her close letting her know she is loved no matter what. She is His little one, and he loves her unconditionally.

There is nothing more satisfying to him than to see her succeed, to watch as she grows as a person. He revels in her daily accomplishments almost as much as she does herself.

He will cuddle her and show her the tenderness she craves when she needs it, when she feels unsure of herself he will whisper encouraging words for her. When she feels ugly he will reassure her how beautiful she is to him ... when she is scared he will be her safety net, her medium against the world if need be. She is his pride and joy  his main comfort in life  his reason for living. His pride in her shows in the tender loving way he cares for her, she is the one that puts the twinkle in his eye! Even though she is all woman, she is his little one and he is her Daddy! Just remember  he may be a Daddy but he is still and foremost, a Dom!
1/12/2005 11:22:05 PM
Somewhere there's a stolen halo I use to wear it well Everything would shine wherever I would go But looking at me now you'd never tell Someone ran away with my innocence A memory I can't get out of my head You can only imagine what I'm feeling When I'm praying Kneeling at the edge of my bed Take me away And take me farther Surround me now And , hold me like holy water I want someone to call me angel Someone to put the light back in my eyes I'm looking through the faces The unfamiliar places I need someone to hear me when I cry I just need a little help To wash away the pain I've felt I want to feel the healing hands Of someone who understands Take me away And take me farther Surround me now hold me like holy water
12/24/2004 11:53:30 AM
I will have more time after the Holidays to reply..please don't feel that I am ignoring you...patience is always apprecitated. Be well....
11/23/2004 10:27:08 PM

i feel bad to say this but...
if you are FAR from me...you can still write but don't ask alot of me because i may or may not reply. it's just being realistic. i have a very special person that i met here and barely have time to write him so dont take it personally.

11/22/2004 10:09:03 PM
my head has been spinning,
my heart has been swelling,
my thoughts are all about U.
11/17/2004 6:52:38 PM
Im such an airhead sometimes. I was w/omy computer for a few weeks and now that its back Ive lost track of a really cool person that I was talking to from time to time. The trouble is..I dont remember what the Profile name was....all that I can say is that they work for an airline and base out of Colorado ( I think) but live in Wyoming (I think). There are so few people on here that I feel that Im able to talk to..I hate loosing touch.
9/5/2004 11:05:24 AM
How can a Dom get to know the deeper parts of his sub without consistant contact? How can T/they grow and expand and figure out the exact type of relationship that T/they will have. One can not truely know a persons heart if He doesn't experience with her the ups and downs that she goes thru in her day to day life. How can she learn more of what it is that He needs of her? Being such a child here maybe i am incorrect in what i feel is important to devolope of proper relationship..but in my heart ..it feels that these things are crucial.
9/2/2004 10:45:43 PM
I don't feel that the fact that I crave D/s in my relationship requires me to give up romance, respect, or exclusivity- or being just a little bit spoiled- I'd love to do the same for you. Can you handle it?

 av
8/30/2004 11:42:01 AM
Typically, someone who submits on a regular basis, outside of a BDSM scene, is referred to as a submissive. Submissives who submit to an extreme degree are called slaves
How does someone post this info and still not get it themselves? Please don't call me a slave when you write..it says nothing in my profile that would let you believe that is who I am. Thanks..
8/29/2004 9:43:47 AM
FINALLY! A real man has redeamed this barrel of bad apples! I'm so sad that my first experiences were with a boy that didn't understand the two way street that much be there for an "exchange" ..he really made it a much more apprehensive journey to the next man..but Im a brave little girl. And it paid off. Whew! Just when I was ready to take my toys and go home!!!  lol
8/28/2004 6:10:51 PM
the following is an answer to a question or question(s) that I have been asked alot..what am I needing, what is my past experience that brought me here, what do I want now? Hope this helps...Thank you for your questions and interest..its nice to know that my profile is really read and you  are writing to ME not cut and paste to every new woman here.


Hmmm...your next question isn't easy to answer because Im not sure that I really know. I think that attention is a big one for me, pleaseing someone is too, control is something that  I struggle with, but am getting better. It jsut takes me a long time to trust. I used to be in a relationship w/ a man that I loved with all myheart, and was very attracted to, but in bed, although very good, was very passive. He wanted me to be more assertive and while I can be, it doesnt make me as happy (or hot) as being told what to do and then being coaxed when I hesitate. I like to know that if i say NO..with no smile or flirty pout, my limit will be respected. I also like to know that when I want a boundry pushed but want to keep my hallo intact, my Daddy will take the lead so I dont feel  like a bad girl..jsut following Daddys orders. (grin)
When we broke up I had been talking to a man in the lifestyle, althought I didnt know of his interestes, he started talking to me in a different way and coaxed me here!  I love it...and although he gave up on me ....I have met many amazing and patient Daddy/Doms who understand that everyone is new in the beginning.
How was that? Sorry if it was too long or I left something out.

Please ask if you have more questions, I am very open and honest.  muah!
8/28/2004 12:12:11 PM
Boys suck!

are there any MEN here? yeah yeah yeah..I'm a pushy bottom!?!? Whatever..I just don't like to play games w/ boys who like drama more than any "girlfriend" I've ever had.
8/27/2004 12:33:49 AM
I am so frustrated. the more i try and try to remember what to say and how to say it...something ELSE that i dont do right pops up. am i supposed to always feel inadequate? im sick of the computer..i dont want to type anymore i want to BE.
8/25/2004 4:33:29 PM
please don't message me w/ "what's your aim name or yahoo id?" would I just hand my phone # and name over to a stranger on the street? I won't here either. Please use common sense when saying hello.
8/23/2004 10:49:29 AM
He loves me, he loves me not.
8/23/2004 12:59:32 AM

I wont be able to return emails from new writers at this time.

8/11/2004 11:04:03 PM
When one door closes...another one swings wide open!!!
8/11/2004 7:43:21 PM
I love this.....
He whispered to me in the darkness as W/we lay together,
"Tell me where to touch you so that I can drive you insane,
Tell me where to touch you to give you ultimate pleasure,
Tell me where to touch you so that W/we will truly own E/each O/other."
And I kissed Him softly and whispered back,

"Touch my mind."

8/9/2004 3:11:53 PM
I am so happy to have met a few "real" people here. People who aren't just playing a game, and know that even new people desearve respectful conversation. thanks so much for all of the very helpful feedback that I've recieved.
8/7/2004 8:21:04 AM
I don't EVER share , i.e. If you want something that I want, prepare for a tug of war. Does that make me a brat? So.
When I find out that something (one) that I enjoy is being "enjoyed" by someone else and it looses its shine in my eyes. I keep those that are special to me close to my heart (even if I try not to) and protected from theives. Once something is tainted, I get sad and need to find a new "special someone". Brat? So. I know I'm worth exclusivity, even if short term. ADD in friendships is not something I can handle. I am always willing to give ALL to those in my life, until I see that my feelings are of little importance then I pull back. Sad. Because what I have to offer is golden and pure. 

Does this make sense? Hmm..it's ok. It does to me and I needed to vent. Those who truely cherish my friendship and devotion hear me.
8/1/2004 10:44:42 PM


Control is a double edged sword.You need compasion to wield it,and strength to control it, and love to guide your hand.
-angel
8/1/2004 10:40:32 PM
VixenNightingale
 
 Age: 50
 Fort lauderdale, Florida