A question has come about in relation to “Dominant Females”. This journal entry can become a bee’s nest or a revelation to some. It will be interesting to here the replies.
“Dominance” I feel is individual to two people. To be “Dominant” by nature means to me that one can take control of another human and lead, guide, and direct their actions. I believe, as I have stated, “Dominance” is on a case by case basis, as is “Submission” and “Switch” I find it interesting that, the more “Dominant Females” I talk with the more I get both sides of the equation, however the more “Submissive Females” I talk with the more I get the exact same answer. That is, from submissives they mostly all agree they have dominant tendencies in situations in life; ie work situations, children, other humans. However in their heart and soul the “TRUST” lies in their “Dominants” decisions of, right and wrong, safety, and well being. I find in the eyes of some “Dominant Females” that I have spoken with dominance is an attitude to dominate others and when they are faced with the reality that they have submissive tendencies in life; ie, submitting to the day to day grind of work and home, they become irritated with the thought. I feel that we are crossing two lines here one of relationship and the other day to day operations of ones life. I feel that dominance in females in a relationship is interesting. I feel that in a relationship a female is dominant in some areas and submissive in others thus causing this bee’s nest I mentioned in the preface. I feel that females who list themselves as dominants are truly dominant in their ways however are still submissive to some. I feel a “Dominant Female” could enjoy being submissive to their “Alpha Male”. I go back to my primal self and reflect on this often. In a pack, there is often an “Alpha Male” and an “ Alpha Female” that work and breed together. In that pack or “team” there is only one who is the “Alpha’s Alpha”. They can agree to disagree, however that is what history proves to me. I am in search of that Alpha Female who has the knowledge to understand that this was written to her. I Am seeking that Alpha Female Who is ready to join my pack…………
Andy
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