I am currently alone and NOT seeking. I am however back on collarme to be available to give advice to any of the new young girls looking to jump in head first(bad move girls)
My Advice......
Only communicate by email from collarme for awhile, get to know the person and ask many questions. look for red flags(differances in answers or information) that he tells you. Dont tell them what you are looking for, let him tell you what he seeks in a slave, otherwise he may adjust to what you wanna hear just to get you.
Dont share personal information early. IE: I am a cheerleader and this year we won the state chapionship. He knows the state you live in by your profile. now he can easily figure out what school you were in, get a copy of the yearbook and find you. This you dont want till you are ready. Too many waco's out there.
when you feel it is time to exchange emails, good, but thats it. no cam or voice till again you talk for awhile. keep looking for thos red flags and turn on your message history to go back to something bothering you. when you wanna talk by phone, you call him WITH your number blocked with *67. you keep full control of your personal life till you meet the right one and you are absolutely sure. If you choose to meet r/t, make it in a public place and dont go alone. If he is impatient with all this, then how much patience will have haver training you. A true master/Dom will understand all this and invest the time necessary.
If the demand proof that you are not a fake........................................
I recently returned to CM with no pretenses. I am NOT seeking at this time. But, I have been here for years, and well experienced. I can spot the fakes easily. If any Master/Dom doesnt know how to spot the fakes he is an asshole. 1 way to address that issue is a picture with a note showing his name and the date. again, dont show your face if you dont want to, but show a little skin, just enough to show your a female.
Another good proff picture would be to take a picture next to something in english, like a liscnse plate of a state registered car(NOT YOUR OWN), or a major chain store with no signs saying exactly where you are. Just as proof of where you are and not a fake from outside the USA
