Lack of clarity creates chaos and frustration.

No matter how good or bad life is, wake up each morning and be thankful that you still have one

“My wish was to one day love you without knowing how, or when, or from where... to love you simply, without problems or pride: to love you in this way because I would not know any other way of loving but this, in which there is no I or you, so intimate that your hand upon my chest is my hand, so intimate that when I fall asleep your eyes close.”

- Pablo Neruda

Beauty and confidence are closely related. To be so completely submissive to a man, a woman needs to be confident about herself and her life. A woman who lacks confidence will always fight submissiveness.

It starts with confidence in myself. A Master who is supportive provides opportunity for both to grow. It requires a Master who is just as smart if not smarter...

Honesty, trust, respect, & open mindedness are crucial to sustain the level of commitment this life choice requires. Be honest in what you want in a relationship. Know yourself first before you try getting to know another. There is no room for fear, doubt or second thoughts. Have your life in order, be ready, willing & able...

Life is not always roses....

   invited everybody to the cabin for a week of bonding, skiing... heat wave hit followed by rain... ok, it happens... so heading to the desert... Alaska storm to hit tomorrow.... laughing...

San Diego this weekend... what happened to the sun!