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AnIntelligentDom

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Strong, Intelligent, Successful, Charming, Articulate, Confident and Fit Man Seeking Play Partners, LikeMinded Friends or More ! I’m a former corporate warrior who is how happily building his own business.

Described as sexually commanding, demanding with a good erotic imagination. I’m true gentleman but a assertive, dominant kinky one. Dynamic, yet romantic and caring.

Yes that is me holding the paddle in the picture to the top left
More photos will be added soon

I've also been described as highly intelligent, highly inquisitive and curious about exploring and experiencing new things - which is one of the reasons I love bdsm, and why I love to travel.

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WHERE AM I NOW?
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Back in Brisbane, Australia to stay ... but I do travel about 2 months of the year !


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WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR
******************** I am looking to connect with other people with a similar philosophy and appreciation of the psychology of BDSM. I'm also open to finding interesting play partners while on here. I'm not a lifestyle dom nor do I enjoy micro-managing someone else's life.
I have a full life outside of bdsm and enjoy the company of other open minded individuals who also enjoy exploring all that life has to offer. Whether its hiking a new mountain, trying a new hobby or trying a restuarant with a bdsm/motown themed entertainment (and yes there's a story behind that), I enjoy exploring and challenging myself. So if I find someone who also enjoys intelligent intellectual stimualtion, travel, a challenge and enjoying and exploring life ... and who just happens to enjoy being submissive in play, well that would be a real bonus. But in the meantime I intend to enjoy life (and maybe you can enjoy it with me)
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WHY BDSM?
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I'm naturally proactive and assertive, and have had to have been to build my current business. I have always enjoyed being dominant and used parts of bdsm in the bedroom - even before I knew what bdsm actually was.

So holding down my lover, teasing her and hearing her beg to cum while indulging in dirty talk were normal for me.

Then I heard about bdsm and really started exploring.

I've been exploring off and on for years, and its been an important but private part of my life. Now I'm taking the time to connect with others of a similar disposition.

So what have I discovered about myself? Well .... On the few matters that are important to me, I'm assertive, independant, stubborn and likely to get my own way - but on other matters I'm fairly laid back and go with the flow ... .... and I'm not into the lifestyle outside of play. In fact the dichotomy is that in public life I enjoy the spirit, challenge and intellectual stimulation that comes from the company of a woman of high intelligence and strength. But inside the bedroom and play, I take charge. So if you're an intelligent, strong woman who enjoys intellectual stimualtion but who revels in her submissiveness in private when in the company of a strong trustworthy dom - then get in touch.

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PERSONAL PHILOSOPHY
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My Personal Philosophy is to do no harm.

What do I mean by that?

Well hurting someone soooo gooood in play is fine, great even.
As long as it does not produce physical or emotionally harm.

A red bottom is a reminder of a good time.
A few aches from rough fun can be a reminder of a great time.
But destructive emotional turmoil is the result of a very bad time.


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WHAT I ENJOY ABOUT BDSM
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I enjoy being dominant in play to -

[1] Fulfill my own needs. I know it sounds selfish but I'm just wired to enjoy being the person in charge when in play or in the bedroom. Of course since part of that wiring is to force my lover to enjoy herself ... well I've had no complaints

[2] Make my lover react. I love successfully taking a sub through a scene/fetish/roleplay which has them responsing physically or emotionally.

The thrill of discovering what's needed to get you moaning, into subspace, begging for release, yelping or a host of other reactions is what I honestly enjoy. [3] Discover the hidden facets in my lover. Its a great way to honestly become closer and more intimate if done well.


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IN PLAY
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I will order you around and make you serve me in ways I desire. I like making a woman my own and I love bondage, spanking, OTK, dirty talking, erotic kinky roleplay amongst other things.

I will use you and you will enjoy it.

I’m looking more to explore the sensual side of BDSM without crossing the line into gratuitous pain.

I love to see a woman helpless and vulnerable, her not knowing what I’m going to do to her but knowing it will feel good. I love telling her what to do, teasing her, admiring her.

And other times though we'll play a more involved scene (see next section).

BUT some times I enjoy vanilla fun as well - after a long slow seduction.

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SPECIFIC SCENES I'VE ENJOYED
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I'm still exploring but these are some of the scenes I've enjoyed putting together and doing with play partners in the past.

These are fairly basic deions to give you an idea of what I have cooked up in the past, and If you want to know more about each, get in touch.

So Women imagine if you are -


[1] Being tied spread-eagled to a bed and blind folded - and then slowly teased and tormented until you beg to be allowed to cum.


[2] Bent over and spanked when you are a naughty girl (and 'rewarded' for being a good girl).


[3] Being trained in how to deep throat - then being given a 'graduation exam’!


[4] Being trained to enjoy taking anal


[5] Being told 2 nights before a session that you will not be allowed to touch yourself for the next 48 hours .. and that you will wear a string around your ankle for the next 2 days to remind you of that.

Every time you feel that string around your ankle - you will be reminded of your forced celibacy, and that you will be rewarded at the end of the 48 hours .. if you've been good !


[6] Being Tied Up in Rope and Restrained as wax is slowly dripped up and down your body - then deep heat is applied to your nipples - and then .....


[7] Being Tied to the bed with a Vibrator held against your clit ... and being told not to cum or your will be punished.


[8] Being Tied to the bed with a Vibrator tied to you so its against your clit ... and then being left 'alone' while I go and do some important business - you don't know how long you'll be there with the vibrator buzzing away

... and your job is to count how many times you cum.



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WHO AM I?
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My friends might describe me as an entrepreneur who is enjoying the challenge of building up his latest business.

Personally, I just consider myself a student of human nature, who enjoys travel, new cultures and is passionate about experiencing life and continually growing.

Sometimes that growth comes in from completing challenge - from Multi Days Hikes up Mountains ... to making a woman with no dance experience look good while twirling her around the dance floor to a Latin tempo !

Other times growth comes from living in cultures and having travel experiences that outside the norm ... in fact some of the highlights of my last jaunt through SE Asia were -

- Negotiating a condo rental in a dingy coffee shop using broken English and hand signals

- Driving a rental 400km through jungle roads (using a hand drawn A4 sized map)

- Learning how politics really works (anyone want to know what democracy in these countries really means?).

- Climbing down the inside of a dormant volcano (it sounded like a good idea at the time)

- Finding out WHY the bdsm scene is so small in some countries.

- And more...

And of course growth also comes from meeting and chatting with people who push you outside your normal boundaries - and yes I'm talking about BDSM among other things!


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LIKE WHAT YOU HEAR?
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So if you think we could click and have some fun - get in touch - we could have a lot of fun in and out play while I'm here in Brisbane.
AND if you think we are spectacularly compatible and could really connect on a deep level while passionately exploring life - then definitely get in touch - it could be the start of something wonderful!

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7/12/2015 12:55:05 AM
Enjoying being back in Brisbane again - and being single !

7/23/2011 11:41:50 AM

This Australian is now in San Francisco (great apartment in the SOMA area) - looking to meet other kinksters who enjoy the mental aspects of bdsm.


6/13/2011 1:11:48 AM

Wow its been a while.

Have updated my profile to reflect where I am right now.


8/10/2009 8:17:43 AM
Updated Profile

Also Back from Sydney (had a great time) !

8/6/2009 1:41:59 AM
In Sydney for a Week

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