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I AM LEO


"a diamond is just a piece of coal that handled stress exceptionally well"

It is MY mission to create a Master/sub-slave Household using an agreed upon and well defined structure.

This is required in order for Me to CREATE a powerful, real, committed and intention, led, transfer of authority from MY submissive/slave to Myself based on the obedience of each individual; the slave to Master Leo and ME to MY TRUTH.

I strive for any relationship under My Authority and Will to be healthy, clear, liveable and empowering in order to provide essential excitement, training, growth and learning experiences for everyone.

Obedience is expected. It is something that is non-negotiable once the relationship is established, defined and made clear. Once my parameters are established my sub/slave is expected to comply with those limitations and capabilities. And willful disobedience will not be tolerated. I will always build the confidence of My sub/slave through consistent decision making that will have her, the welfare, growth and empowerment of the relationship in mind. There are two essential parts of a Master and sub/slave relationship and they must both be in place and functioning. The first is Responsibility, which is My cornerstone. In that I take full and complete responsibility for all that is under My Authority and Control...regardless of the outcomes. The second is obedience, which is the responsibility of My sub/slave and is non-adjustable in belief, deed or thought. And yes, I do believe, in order for Responsibility or obedience to be vital in the relationship there must be trust which is the responsibility of each to build in the other. As a practice, I believe, that subs/slaves need to be taken, used, challenged, inspired, beaten and nurtured regularly. Not as play or idol activity. It is far better if there's no particular reason, except to remind you of who and what you are to Me. It's hard to stay focused on the idea that you're property, and good consistent use of you brings that home to a sub/slave's mind in a very direct and unmistakable way. I have found that most mature and vested subs/slaves come to enjoy their usage and purpose and miss their usage if the routine is interrupted. In fact, it's a form of abuse to deny them discipline, usage, challenge, valadation because nothing else seems to reinforce the special bond between Master and sub/slave as well as regular function and purpose designed by her Master.
"Domination and submission is a vocation, comparable and equal in every way to any "life" calling"
No sensation is more honest, powerful, instructive, destructive or liberating than pain. It's power to build or destroy is without debate. So, it's usage must always remain in the Mind and Hands of The Wise.

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6/27/2012 3:16:07 AM

I BELIEVE

 Most Masters/Doms do not have what it takes to control and dominate. The natural instinct that was within each of these individual's was stamped out of them by society. Few are skilled at the art of making decisions, providing leadership, and taking control in risky situations. Instead, most excel at the fine art of procrastination, indecision, and indifference. This makes one a good slave in society's eyes (its goal) but an awful person to be in charge of a D/s relationship.

Those who succeed in power exchange relationships do not buy into the lies of society. One needs to know in his heart that it is perfectly acceptable to choose a life of domination. Since that is what is within one naturally, it is an easy transition to make...if one is willing to engage in the proper mindset. And that is where most fall down.

Domination is not something that can be faked. A slave/submissive who is seeking someone to assume control will not submit to one who lacks the skills to uphold her. While some will impress a new one in the immediate term, the truth is that long term domination requires the skills I mentioned previously. Self discipline, another factor rarely talked about in the victimization world, is another component that will enable one to follow. However, as can be guessed, most lack this ability which negates their domination.

Masters/Doms need to continually have the mindset of excellence. The idea that one is moving towards elite status is what separates him from the masses. And separation from all the other noise is required to get (and keep) the attention of a true submissive. Excellence should always be on the mind of a dominant one. He is not one to settle. Everything around him is subject to his control. This is contrary to what society promotes but is basic for success in the D/s world.

So once again, excelling in the BDSM world requires one to shed the mindset that society promotes and not buy into its lies. Domination is just example of how many are ill prepared to live this lifestyle. It necessitates a total transformation in one's thinking.

 

 


6/27/2012 3:10:56 AM

Where Are You Going?

 Goal setting is an exercise that answers the question: where are you going? It is something that people from all walks of life engage in. Certainly, we see the advantage to it in sports where the desired result is a championship. Business often sets sales and productivity goals as a means of laying a path for people to follow. At the same time, people, in their personal lives, establish things they would like to accomplish while on this planet. In all these situations, goals are a tool utilized to provide clarity in an uncertain world.

 

So, my question is how come people in the BDSM world do not do the same thing? In other words, how many of you have clearly defined outcomes in certain aspects of the BDSM lifestyle? From my interaction with others over the years, I can state that it is very few. Most people simply have the goal to be in a BDSM relationship (to live TPE, 24/7, be owned/own, etc...). While this is a wonderful starting point, it barely suffices.

 

I believe part of the problem is that most people want to jump from novice to expert immediately without realizing there is a progression that takes place. For instance, just because someone claims he or she is a slave, that does not mean the individual is ready to live as one today. The same is true for those professing to be Masters. It takes a while to attain competence in either of these areas. Yet few seem to realize that, at least initially.

 

Goals will help one to develop and grow. BDSM is a wide and varied lifestyle with many aspects that stray far from the norm. Those who safely engage in some of these practices spent years learning and studying what it is all about. While this might seem obvious, the idea that is missed is that this individual, at some point in time, make it a goal to enhance the skill set in this area. Without doing some, and committing to it, one would have nothing more than a passing fancy.

 

Therefore, I challenge everyone to establish goals as it pertains to your BDSM life. If you havent done so already, write down what you want. Are there areas of play that you are interesting in pursuing? If so, get it on paper. What skills do you need to acquire or are required in another person to make this happen? Questions such as these allow you to expand upon the present mindset of "I want a relationship" or "I want more out of my relationship". The idea is to get specific. What is it that you want? I maintain that a BDSM relationship can only happen after an internal search is undertaken. This is a method to get you to look inward to determine what will lead you to fulfillment. Gaining clarity will help you along the path because you will have an idea of exactly where you are going.

 

And that will put you ahead of most people on this planet who are just floating along waiting for the next thing (whatever that is) to arise.

 

 


6/27/2012 3:08:13 AM

 

In My knowing of you, there comes a moment when MY desire demands possession.


6/27/2012 3:04:19 AM

In My relationship, there are two kinds of Strengths,Powers/Truths/Control/Wisdom.  The first resides with me and the second is your reason for being with Me. 

 

STRENGTH

 

1. MINE - The strength to lead

a. yours -the strength to follow

 

2. MINE - The strength to control you

a. yours - the strength of yielding to Me.

 

POWER

 

3. MINE - The power to strip your soul bare

a. yours - the power to stand naked before me

 

WISDOM

 

4. MINE - The Wisdom to obtain,understand and apply Wisdom

a. yours - the wisdom to remain teachable

 

CONTROLS

 

5. MINE - The Control of myself over you

a. yours - The surrender of your control to Me

 

TRUTH

 

6.  MINE - The truth of who and what I am

a.  yours - The truth of who and what I am to you


6/27/2012 2:40:39 AM

As a  Dominant I have one single responsibility toward my sub/slave and that is to to provide her with the inspiration, desire and wherewithal to serve and obey, consistently, to the best of her ability.


9/19/2008 3:09:55 PM


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