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I apologize in advance for the long profile, but I had a lot I needed and wanted to say, and even then, I feel I missed things. I would truly appreciate it if you read the profile before judging me or the fact I have no picture posted, which I explain why toward the end. And please, don't be shy. I am very friendly.
I use the term pet, because that's the submissiveness I'd want. To me a pet is someone to be treasured and cared for, loved and shown affection to. While you do own a pet, its still cared for and loved, even if it is yours and does what you want.
For me, dominance isn't just something for the bedroom. Its more a way of life, a part of my personality. It would be 24/7 for me, and my pet would be a big priority in my life. I obviously still have to go to school and work, but relationships mean a great deal to me, and I love to spend my time with someone I care deeply for. I don't tire of people and could easily spend hours with someone.
As a master, I seek a pet that is obedient and willing to do as I say because making me happy makes them happy. My ideal pet is someone that, while being owned and doing as I say, is loved, appreciated, and cared for. I am very affectionate, and will always give my pet attention. I am not fond of inflicting any serious amount of pain, in other words, a rosy bottom, maybe some nibble marks, but nothing extreme or permanent. I do not discipline while angry, and the discipline is first discussed, to make sure it is both warranted, and understood by the submissive. If a rule was broken and its the pet's fault, discipline will be given. If a rule is broken, and its my fault for the rule being unclear, I will take responsibility for it, correct the rule, and discipline, but less severely since it was my fault, but the rule was still broken. The discipline will always fit the incident and won't be a chance for me to "get revenge". I like to think of myself as kind and affectionate, gentle and caring, but I'm also not a pushover. I expect a pet to follow my rules and obey my instructions. If my pet has limits, which most people have something they won't do, those limits will be discussed and respected. I won't do anything that breaks my pet's trust in me. There is a lot I haven't done myself yet, but I am fond of bondage, collars and leashes. I also enjoy pet play. I'd also be interested in training someone to be my kitten or puppy. There is also a lot I am curious about, and would like to safely and slowly explore and learn about with a willing pet. I admit I still have a lot to learn, and would love to have someone at my side to learn with and become a better and more knowledgeable master.
To get into a bit more detail about me, I guess I am a bit of a nerd. I'm into games and sci-fi. I'll be going back to school soon to work on a degree for working on networking and the hardware aspects of computers. I also enjoy comedy and art, but not the museum kind of art as much as things made by normal people like you would find on deviantart. I also at times write short (sometimes long) stories. I tend to create characters and then write stories about them. For sports, I'm a fan of soccer. I also tend to be painfully honest at times. I tend to ask outright rather then assume an answer based on body language or subtle hints. I try to be as open as I can, and as understanding as I can, and I want that in return. A nickname I was given by friends is catpaw, which means someone that is gentle, but also has a rough side...basically the claws retracted to be gentle, or extended to be rough is the meaning of the nickname, and explains my personality. I'm a good guy who can be a "bad boy".
When it comes to relationships, I want something serious that will last, someone to love. I won't cheat, nor have I ever. I am loyal to the person I am with, and expect that in return. I have no intention of sharing with anyone.
What I am looking for is a pet that fits my description that I can get to know online at first, and then if things work out, we can go from there. You don't need to have years of experience. I just ask that you be sure that the role is who you are, and we can learn together from there. In other words, I want someone that will be committed to developing a meaningful relationship. I'd like them to be around my age, and if possible, but definately not necessary, my height and size. I'm not interested in just cyber or phone sex, but a working and loving relationship with someone. I know some are leary of online relationships, but it gives me a chance to get to know someone, before I make the next step of deciding on meeting them. Even if online, a relationship is still serious to me, and is treated as such.
I know I have no picture posted, and there is a reason for that. If a picture means more then my personality, you probably aren't what I am looking for. I admit I am no model, but I'm not some horrid creature either. I'm just average. I want someone that values me for who I am, not because I look like some star they saw on TV. If you get to know me, then sure, a picture isn't out of the question.
If you think you are what I am looking for, then please send me a message, or if you'd just like to talk to me, send me a message too.
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So...do girls that seek a more caring and loving dom just not exist? Once you get past all the spam I've gotten, the few that have messaged me were well...not my type of sub. I didn't think I was looking for anything too much. *sigh* Oh well...
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What I look for in a pet/submissive:
Someone who enjoys serving me, and is compliant with my wishes and rules. They can be a little fiesty, as long as they understand they may be disciplined if it leads to disobeying my rules or wishes. I want someone who is in for it 24/7. Being dominant is part of my personality and my life...I want someone who feels the same about their submission. I'd like someone with roughly the same interests as me, both vanilla and otherwise...but its not required. I'd like someone who enjoys both affection and gentleness, as well as my darker desires. I could train someone and have them be as I want, but the more we have in common at the beginning, the better we'll get along...and what I desire is a meaningful relationship, so getting along in vanilla situations is important to me, as well as in other situations. I'd also like my submissive to be able to talk to me if they need to and be honest with me at all times. I would like a submissive who could approach and talk to me, granted in a respectful manner, but I still would like them to be able to show interest and not wait and hope for me to find them.
About me as a dominant:
I'm gentle, loving, caring, and affectionate at heart, but I do have a "bad boy" side that has darker desires. Despite my good nature, I'm not a pushover and will discipline my submissive if necessary. For me, its a 24/7 relationship that has a great deal of meaning to me. When it comes to pain, I draw the line when it goes from pain to injury. I may leave my submissive with a sore bottom, but I wouldn't injure them. There is a lot I would like to try, and a lot I would give a chance. While I expect my wishes to be met, I'd also like my submissive happy and do not mind trying something for them. I am rather open and tolerant, however I'm also extremely honest and not afraid to speak my mind.
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