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Mainly looking for a strict and sometimes harsh but fair controlling Mistress around my age upto early 40's for a LTR to be her slave g/f hopefully leading to 24/7.
Do not talk to me like I'm a piece of dirt, I will ignore you.
Not interested in anyone who wants to keep me ‘caged when not being used’.
Love me as your girlfriend, and show it, but treat me as your slave, always.
I only reply to those I'm interested in - don't have time to reply to everyone, sorry.
Been in the lifestyle for 10 years and know what I want and need. Naturally very submissive, and always try to please and be pleasing.
Would like to be completely controlled in everything as much as possible, can take quite a bit of pain but want to learn to take lots more.
I smoke and have no wish to stop at the moment because it helps me unwind.
Quite shy till I get to know people but can talk a lot.
Willing to relocate within Europe or to USA/Canada at my expense.
More details for those who are interested:
Hi, I'm Amy, an intelligent lady who is happiest in an M/s relationship. I'm quite a romantic, love hugs and kisses, cuddling up on the sofa together, and walking down the street hand-in-hand. I have a full-time office job which takes up 12 hours of my day including travelling time so my time on-line is limited. I'm happy to carry on working, or be a stay at home slave as you choose, but I'm not looking to sponge off anyone.
I don't like cages or confinement but would be very happy having all my movements outside the house controlled. I have a very active mind, and like to keep busy all the time. Just because I won't be talked down to like a piece of dirt doesn't mean I expect leniency, far from it, I prefer someone who sticks firmly to what they say.
I would like to have a relationship with someone where the vanilla world sees me as their girlfriend, albeit a very submissive and highly controlled girlfriend. I believe love and M/s are not mutually exclusive, and I know I submit on a much deeper level to someone who I truly and deeply love, and who shares and shows the same feelings.
I have quite a liberal view on a lot of things and have a slightly different, some might say controversial view about limits. No decent owner would even consider telling me to do anything illegal or anything that would clearly be harmful to me, nor would they do such things to me, and I don't think things like that even need to be limits as they're just common sense. In the lifestyle context there are things I'd rather not do because I wouldn't enjoy them, such as scat, adult baby and nappy (diaper) play, and I'm hopeless at role play so there’s no point even trying that. I've done and experienced quite a bit over the past 10 years with my three previous owners, and liked nearly all of them but there's still lots of things I haven't done.
I believe every new relationship brings new opportunities, so I try to come with an open mind to try anything rather than a fixed list of what I do and don't want to do or a list of limits, which from my experience, will change over time anyway. I am, however, looking for someone who leans more towards edge play rather than the softer, milder side, so I need someone who has the experience to go to these levels safely. I'd like someone who sees my current tolerance levels and comfort zones as merely markers between what I can do or take now, and what I'm going to learn and be trained to do and take. I've been single and largely out of the lifestyle for the past couple of years (my choice) so I know I can't take as much now as I once could, and I'm looking forward to changing that.
I don't cope well with vagueness, I need things to be clear and precise. I've been told it's an excellent slave characteristic because I do things exactly as I've been told to, so I don't think of it as being a bad thing, it's just part of who I am. I have very little social confidence and don't like making the first contact or starting a conversation with anyone I don't know, but around family, at work, and in places and situations where I feel comfortable, I'm quite bubbly and outgoing, and talk a lot. I get easily intimidated by rowdiness and large crowds, and I don't like being shouted at, it demoralises and disheartens me. I like lots of different music and I enjoy clubbing, but you wouldn't get me anywhere near a festival. None of this stops me going out and enjoying life, but I'm ‘the quiet one in the corner’ type of person so if you're a party animal and looking for the same, we wouldn't be a good match.
I have a number of tattoos and piercings including snake bite studs, a centre lip ring and both earlobes slightly stretched. I know not everyone likes tattoos and piercings, especially face piercings but I love everything I've had done and would like more of both. All of them were chosen and decided by my owners, and I would like that to continue.
I'm pretty unshockable and it's almost impossible to humiliate or embarrass me in the privacy of home, but I'm easily embarrassed and humiliated in public, and I love it when I'm made to do embarrassing and humiliating things. I've been extensively controlled before and loved it, even thrived on it, and would like to try micromanagement although I realise there are some limits to this especially if I carry on working. One of my favourite areas of control is everything about my appearance, but there are few things I don't like being controlled and I do accept that long term, whether I smoke or not will not be my choice.
If you've got this far and you think I might be the kind of girl you're looking for, please message me and lets see how it goes.
Thanks for taking the time to read my profile.
Amy xx
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