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Its been quite a while since Ive updated this... Some things in my life have changed, where others have stayed the same. A friend of mine suggested that I show up here - so, I did... Im not interested in sex hookups (for myself), or sponsoring other people (ie financial domination). I am interested in meeting like-minded people or even find a play partner of sorts, locally or online.. Finding that selfbondage can only be but so fulfilling, Ive enjoyed both Top and bottom roles IRL in the past and miss that added human factor and the excitement that being totally at someone elses mercy can present as well as helping someone else feel the same. Its far more realistic with outside interaction or even intervention to get the most out of it... The one thing I added to my experiences several years ago was chastity.. It was always a last step when becoming free from bondage that I would either be able to have some pleasure or be denied. In the beginning, it was easily defeated and the duration before I was free to play was limited to less than a day. Eventually I found that the longer I had to wait the more pleasurable and meaningful the relief was. Eventually, I spent more time locked in chastity than free. Over time and for at least the past 3 years except for a few exceptions, I have been in perpetual chastity and not just a part of a scene. As with most toys I have tried many different designs and styles from the common ones to some more interesting ones. I have a few that are my favorites, some that I was asked to wear, others I have gotten myself. My primary device is a Leopard from CustomChastity.com that is comfortable and wearable almost endlessly. Anyway, quite early on I had a neighbor that we both accidentally realized each others interests in self-bondage and chastity play (at the time) but as far as I know, I have never met anyone else in real life that is also in chastity, or at least that I know of. She moved away shortly after we met, but I miss the interactivity we shared, and would be interested in that sort of thing again... The one thing that I miss the most from that experience was sharing keys, as each others safety. Knowing someone was able to pop by to check on things was a welcomed relief, allowing for more risky solo-play without being involved in the others thing. Although beyond encouragement, we did on occasion each help the other make things more challenging with restraints as well as to the extent of keyholding regarding chastity. It was always just between friends and never sexual, but was a lot of fun! Im interested in that sort of thing again! Ive never been to a munch or other local meet-ups, but could be as I have been tempted.... Far too much to really cover here, so, if youd like more information, or think we could be helpful to each others endeavours, drop me a line!