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Pan Female Submissive, 40,  Washington
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::UPDATE:: PHOTO'S AVAILABLE,AFTER WE SPEAK FOR MORE THEN TEN MINUTES. It is due to my employment, and thier rules/regulations, that i do not post on my profile. If you have an issue understanding that, i wish you well. my familys well being and financial security is paramount.:Feel free to say "Hi", as I welcome a kind word, conversation & knowledge. ..I was away, for a time. It is good to be back. Ill update my profile, as time allows. Thank You for stopping by.....A.s. So..its. 9/20/2011.. thought id update this, alittle. I am naturally submissive... its just where I am at,in my life. I don't have to try, I don't have to 'act' submissive. That being said..I AM A STRONG WILLED, STRONG MINDED PERSON. If this threatens you, if you have a problem with that..or feel the need to "put me in my place", kindly keep looking, odds are, I wouldn't submit to you. I am submissive...nowhere in the job description does it say "door mat" or "disposable dish rag". If your only goal in owning a slave is to "beat her down an show her I'm da boss!" Then kindly keep looking, I won't submit,to you. If,however..You know the difference,between discipline & punishment..know the meaning of 'safe sane & consensual"..AND PRACTICE IT! Then we could talk about if we'd be a good match. (My next update, ill speak more of my slave needs...) Again, thank you for stopping by! :-) UPDATE; 2/13/2012, for clarification, I am POLY.. and currently in a D/s relationship. He is fully aware of my seeking to add another. Anyone I choose to be involved with, would be given His contact info, and expected to contact Him, so there is an open line of communication, as I believe in having 100% transparency.











 Submissive Female


 5' 0"

 125 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Dominant male

Domme/Dom Couples


 Lives For:

 Renaissance Faires (Beginner)

 Volunteerism (Expert)


 Being Massaged

 Seventies Music


 Amusement Parks

 Antique Shows (Beginner)

 Art Galleries

 Beachcombing (Expert)

 Coffee Shops (Expert)

 Fine Dining

 Fishing (Beginner)

 Flea Markets (Expert)

 Garage Sales (Expert)


 Musical Theater



 Horseback Riding

 Bondage (Beginner)

 Collars (Beginner)

 Corsetry (Beginner)

 Exhibitionism (Beginner)

 Local BDSM Community

 Domestic Service (Expert)

 Erotic Hypnosis (Beginner)


 Hair Pulling

 Housework Service (Expert)

 Leashes (Beginner)

 Masks on Partner

 Massage (Giving) (Expert)

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training (Beginner)


 Clothing Selection

 Maid / Butler Service

 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play

 Role Playing

 Sensory Play

 Shibari (Beginner)


 Speech Restrictions (Beginner)



 Wax Play

 Comedy Shows

 Horror Movies

 Aromatherapy (Beginner)

 Body Art (Beginner)




 Tattoos (Beginner)


 1950s Lifestyle (Beginner)

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Old Guard (Beginner)

 Polyamory (Beginner)


 Country Music

 Eighties Music


 Rock Music

 Baseball (Beginner)

 Boxing (Beginner)


 Horse Racing

 Ice Hockey

 Kick Boxing

 Paintball (Beginner)

 Skiing (Beginner)

 Sky Diving (Beginner)




 Gambling (Beginner)





 Hiking (Beginner)


 Breast Play

 Eye Contact Restrictions



 Pony/Puppy Roleplay (Beginner)

 Rubber Fetish

 Arcade Games

 Board Games

 Card Games



 Historical Shows


 Puzzle Games

 Science Fiction

 Simulation Games


 True Crime

 TV News

 TV Sports

 Web Surfing

 Candle Making (Beginner)

 Cross Stitch (Beginner)






 Alternative Music


 Blue Grass

 Classical Music

 Folk Music


 Heavy Metal Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Industrial Music

 Nineties Music


 Pop Music



 Show Tunes

 Auto Racing


 Bowling (Beginner)







 Electrical Play (Beginner)

 Foot Worship (Beginner)

 Sensation Play (Beginner)

 Whips (Beginner)

 Online RPGs

 Role Playing Games

 Romance Novels (Beginner)

 New Wave

 Punk Rock Music


 Badminton (Beginner)

 Basketball (Beginner)

 Tennis (Beginner)


 Curious About:

 Bird Watching (Beginner)

 Going to the Opera (Beginner)


 Hunting (Beginner)

 Rafting (Beginner)

 Scuba Diving (Beginner)



 Yoga (Beginner)

 Anal Play (Beginner)



 Erotic touch

 Fire Play

 Gas Masks



 Masks (Wearing)

 Medical fetish play

 Modern Primitivism


 Orgasm Control (Beginner)

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Suspension Bondage


 Vacuum Stimulation

 Alternative Medicine



 Herbalism (Beginner)





 Soap Making




 Victorian Lifestyle (Beginner)

 Electronica / EDM

 EMO Music

 New Age Music

 Opera Music



 Feng Shui





 Street Hockey



 Corner Time (Beginner)



 Canes and Crops

 G-spot Service

 Cuck Options

 Hard Limits:

 Female Sovereignty

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Journal Entries:
6/28/2012 9:47:02 PM
WARNING,THIS IS A RANT! Ok,let's take a moment,for some REAL LIFE ADVICE,FOR THOSE IN THE 18 TO 25YR OLD DOM BRACKET. So,You wake up one day,decide you are dom,and decide to enter the world of kink. CONGRATS. Its a great world,out there. Let me give you just one piece of advice,KEEP IT REAL AND HONEST. Don't have any experience? Want to learn? THEN SAY SO. Find an older more experienced dom,and ask them to mentor you. Attend munches,find a sex positive center or club. DON'T CLAIM MORE EXPERIENCE,THEN YOU HAVE. That's how people GET HURT. Ok,THIS part,is aimed at the 30 to 35yr olds,THAT DON'T HAVE EXPERIENCE,AND LIE ABOUT IT. (This is NOT aimed at those who DO have experience, OR those that don't,and ARE HONEST about it!) If you are 35, and claim you have 20 plus years experience,at being a "master'...umm,excuse me, 15,the ONLY thing you've 'masterd',IS CHILDHOOD. At 20,You've 'masterd' childhood AND YOUR TEEN YEARS. IF YOU HAVEN'T MASTERD YOURSELF, YOU CAN'T MASTER ANOTHER HUMAN BEING. Don't claim more experience,then you truely have. Not only is it a HUGE turn off...ITS UNSAFE. OK,end rant.

6/19/2012 7:44:57 PM
6/19/12 7:37pm So,have been off the site,for awhile..due to job change,increased workload,family obligations and most recently,moving. Looking forward to things calming down,now.. and settling in to a calmer,more quiet home life.. and discovering what the future holds. I'm going back to school soon..another major job change will follow that,but that'll be at leat 2 years away. Start my pre req's,come August! YAY ME! Going back to school, to become a MidWife. This has been a long road,to get to this point,but i finally see the light at the end of the tunnel. Went back and got my EMT..and ill work limited hours in this,threw school..and maybe even keep a few shifts,after. Dropped all my Red Cross shifts. Was just too much,left no time for me..and my family,both bio & chosen. I know this was the right move...and I'm excited for the rest to begin,as well! :-) A.s.

9/18/2011 10:01:01 AM
Thank You to those that have welcomed me back so warmly. It is most humbling. And to those who have had harsh words, I thank you, as well. For without your being so open and forth coming, with your true nature, I wouldn't have a baseline for which to see what it is that I DON'T want. On a side note; please bare with me, on completing my profile. I realize it is a bit bland, and not a lot of info.. I will work on expending it over the next few today is my birthday.. I will put it aside,for today. I wish everyone a relaxing and enjoyable rest of your weekend... be well. A.s. EDIT.... 10/6/2011... For those that have comented.... YES, I AM REAL. I CHOOSE NOT TO POST A PHOTO, DUE TO MY EMPLOYER. IF, AFTER WE HAVE SPOKE A COUPLE TIMES...(read; a couple times is twice, not 6 , 7 or a dozen!) WE FEEL WE'D LIKE TO CONTINUE TALKING... I will send you a few photo's, to Your off site email. Hope You have an amazing night! A.s. 2/18/2012 ATTENTION; HAD ISSUES WITH INTERNET, ALL AFTERNOON/EVENING. KEPT HAVING TO REBOOT, AND COULDN'T GET ON CHAT. HOPING ISSUE RESOLVED. WE SHALL SEE. A.S.

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