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This strong dominant woman in search of Her one in Ottawa, ON. Tall and curvy, direct and blunt, creative, sensual rather than sexual, interested in drama free friendship possibly leading to collar/contract. Not looking so much for a submissive as someone who's willing to submit to their Owner/Domme/whatever you'd like to call Her. An Alpha male/female would be ideal, but one who knows their place in the hierarchy of a D/s relationship.
Her passion is receiving service, whether in the form of body service (foot and body massage, bathing, foot and body worship, queening), domestic service (cleaning, cooking, laundry, household errands, small repairs and shopping), clerical service (taxes, computer services, answering emails, helping organize office), butler service (running errands, wash/service car, pick up dry cleaning, clean leathers) and any other type of service a busy Domme might ask for. Protocol is very important to Her as well. While she's not looking for a play partner, the one she takes as her own can expect play on a semi regular basis, and the things she enjoys comprise of: bondage, S/m, trampling, pony/puppy play, needles/medical play, role play and dress up. She only enjoys the play if the recipient is enjoying/responding favourably (and if that means screaming and begging, so much the better!)
She's not interested in sissy maids or CD's in french maid uniforms, nor does she enjoy humiliation or bathroom play of any kind. She likes her men to be manly, even when crying and grovelling on the floor for a break. She likes her girls girly, dressed in feminine fashion. Nothing sexier than carefully applied makeup that is f&$@ed up by the end of the session, smeared around by spit and slapped half off her face.
Oh, we should mention, She's a Sadist. She's also a masochist, with the right play partner. It's hard to find a switch she'll switch with, so decide which side of the fence you're on before contacting her. Either way, she's not interested in a doormat... you should be able to make a decision on your own and not be looking for someone to micro manage your daily life. She has enough to do already. You should be ready and willing to offer to ease her burden, thru service of some sort. When you get to know her, you'll realize she completely deserves this type of boy or girl in her life.
You should be a non smoker (cigarettes = Red! 420 fine), Alpha, single, be D/D free, local, hygienically sauve, and a good communicator. Being cuddly and having a sense of humour will definitely win you extra points with this Lady. She's looking for something more than a play partner, not quite so far as 'full time' anything. (although for the right chemistry anything is possible!!) You should know how to woo a Lady and be willing to do so. Don't expect her to make the 1st move... She's a different type than you're used to! Can you catch her attention? Be respectful and contact her with more than a line or two, she'll appreciate the effort!
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I travelled to the states to visit friends recently, and that sweet old need that I tucked away, believing it could never happen, has been reawakened. You see, I've always fantasized about owning a 'stable'. I nice big house in the country with room to house my 'household'. An extended family if you will. Of course, one based on a hyerachy, where I am the Queen of All She Surveys, and all of my minions live to serve and create a loving and harmonious, kinky poly household. My friends in the states live it full time and I was delighted to see it work so smoothly (or seemingly so). I know I deserve this and more. Now that the need, the desire, is rekindled, I'll be redoubling my efforts to find a livein, and other service oriented beings to fill out my life. Could it be you I'm looking for?? |
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It would seem that I now have room in My life for a new sub. One who will see me as the Goddess I am and treat me as such. One who will run my errands, take care of my personal items, wash my unmentionables, rub my feet, possibly foot/body worship, and see what develops from there.
Applicants must be local, non smoker, available 3 or 4 times a month, (part time is fine), service oriented, not a 'do me' sub who comes with a long shopping list of what he wants done to him. Play may happen, but it's certainly secondary to My needs being met. Rewards are often given for good behaviour. |
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I guess some ppl would assume that I'm looking for a long term live in, right from the start. That's not the case. I'm open to considering a short term contract, say 3 or 6 months, to start. I cant imagine interviewing and accepting someone, then once they are settled in my home, not getting along with them (or them me). I"m not so naive as to expect a long term contract right from the start.
For those who are curious and want to see if this lifestyle is for them, if they feel they have a 'true slaves heart' but want to test it, to see if they are happy serving, and only committing 3 months to it... I'd entertain that. Of course, there will be training involved. I understand that I can't expect my idea of 'perfection' if I dont show my student exactly what my expectations are, and how to best achieve it successfully. You'll be given specific and detailed instruction in way of training... I'll show you once, you get one more reminder, then things get tough.
If you're only interested in my proposal so you can be disciplined for doing a job poorly... you wont like my way of disciplining. I can guarantee it, you wont like it.
But if you are a generous, eager student in need of direction and happy to serve your Lady, then drop me a line. |
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Still 'single' in that no one has captured my heart. Yet. He or she is out there. But what I really need these days is a sub or slave or domestic who will live in (and pay for their 3rd of the rent, $450/mo) as well as take care of my house and personal effects for me.
I came home from a weekend event more than a week ago and I still have not unpacked. Is it too much to ask that some beautiful house boy come in and take care of this and other nuisuances for me while I'm working hard? Is it too much to ask to have my slippers sitting by the door, awaiting my return? Know there's someone else in the house for my protection? Reach in a drawer for clothes in the morning when I'm still effectively asleep, and find lovingly folded clothes, just like I like them. What's a Girl gotta do to find herself a worthy live in slave/domestic??? Please tell me! |
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Life has a way of moving faster than we want sometimes, and I"ve had to get off and assess my life. I find I no longer wish to live my life as a single, and am seriously searching for the right house sub. My preference these days is for women, but I know there are some intense male slaves out there ready to serve to the best of their ability. I'm willing to give you a chance.
This house position is a life altering proposition... please dont contact me unless you're seriously looking to become property. I miss the rituals I used to enjoy with a past slave... collaring ritual, greeting ritual, just the pleasure of being served by someone who understands and feels the need to serve and be used by their "One". A short term contract can certainly be drawn up to be sure everything is taken care of.
Here's hoping we'll find each other and it'll be what it always was supposed to be for us! Pure magic!
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I find myself scheduled to go on a trip to Toronto on the weekend of Oct 20-22/06 for the Everything To Do With Sex show... I'll be working the dungeon there. I'll be picking volunteers from the audience to play with (nothing strenuous or too extreme, this is a mostly vanilla event afterall!)
However, I plan on attending the Fetphoto play party on Sat Oct 21st, and am looking for an extreme masochist to play with. I'll be bringing all my nastiest toys to bring out at this party... anyone interested in escorting this Domme and bending to her sadistic whims for the evening? Contact me and we shall see!  |
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Well, it looks as if Fate has thrown a curveball and I find my path has now swerved well off course. My circumstances have changed, and I no long have need of a 24/7 slave, and so I am no longer 'actively' seeking such. As well, I am certainly uninterested in casual play partners, as I have had far too many of those of late as well. If Fate decides I am to have a full time slave, and places such in my path, I'll gladly embrace that gift, but until that time, I will sit back and see where my current direction takes me. Thanks to everyone who has contacted me! I wish every one of you good luck in finding that which you seek! |
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Hmmm... after much time spent with one person, emailing, waiting for replies, chatting, and even some phone time (which I admit really turns me off!), I finally was able to meet the one I was interested in. As it turns out, apparently it wasn't meant to be, and I haven't heard back from him. That really irks me too! If I spend the time to interview you, open my home to you, feed and house you for a weekend, play and possibly start some rudimentary training, I really would expect the courtesy of a 'Thanks but no thanks". If you don't have the upbringing to use common courtesy and ettiquette, then I really don't think you're the kind I want to spend my time on.
So, apparently, I'm back 'on the market' as it were. I hope to find 'the one' sooner or later. And remember, if you're not at least in the same continent as me, you have absolutely no chance! |
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I have to admit, that even after I had some reservations about posting a profile on CollarMe.com I did so anyway, figuring "What can it hurt?". Well, I'm happy to say that there are obviously some geniunely good souls out there, despirately seeking their 'match' in this world. I have had numerous contacts, some of which I realized pretty much right away weren't for me, but there are a few, and one in particular (I think you know who you are ), that I am seriously considering. For those of you who are frustrated, ready to give up, to deny what and who you are for lack of a partner, don't give up just yet. Give it a few more days, and surely, eventually, that someone special will show themselves to you, and be exactly who you are looking for. Experiment and learn, discover more about yourself, and enjoy the journey! |
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To date, I've received many responses, some worthy of a reply, and some, not even close. If they do not send more than a one liner, with some thought and emotion behind it, how could they possibly expect me to bother to respond? The best one I've received was full of wit, insight, honesty, and was very indepth. And it would seem there are a few true masochists out there still... in need of training.
I'd like to be the one you kneel to, submit to, yearn to serve. But are you worthy? If you think so, then please! Use your imagination, your wit and for gawd sake.... the spell check! |
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| Age: 23 |
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Sierra Leone |
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