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Yes, my real first name is Amanda, but the 'Leigh' part is what I call a distractor. No, the
Female Submissive, 25,  Connecticut












 Submissive Female


 Willing to Relocate

 5' 4"

 128 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male


 Administrative Professional

Yes, my real first name is Amanda, but the "Leigh" part is what I call a distractor.

No, the profile picture isn't me, but it is absolutely how I feel. You can decide how best to interpret it.

I have a number of other images posted which are basically things that seem to catch my eye, capture my curiosities, express my past or look toward my future.

I've often considered the fact I joined here to have been a very big step and a major accomplishment in my life.

Whether it actually achieves anything, only time will tell.

I'm fairly young ( notice I didn't say immature), which I suppose could be both a plus and a minus.

Old men will probably haunt me, but that's probably because I've been so drawn toward them over the years.

On the other hand, experienced men will probably ignore me because they're liable to soon realize I know so little compared to other girls on this site.

UPDATE: I hate having to add this one, but ... just because I message back and forth with you for a day or two, that does NOT mean I have "chosen" you, okay? It will take a lot more than that for you to become my "exclusive focus".


About me:

  • When I turned 21 I began this exploration, it was my birthday present to myself.
  • I live at home, I know, how pitiful, with my parents and sister, and no, I will not set you up with the two of us.  lol
  • I work with my mom, as sort of her secretary/clerk, in the family business.
  • I have pretty much no hands-on experience with bdsm or d/s things to speak of, but I have read a lot and I absolutely recognize myself as a submissive soul.

If you don't love animals, there's no way you could ever love me ... hmmm, now that I read that back to myself it sounds kinda weird, ... hopefully you know what I mean.  


What can I offer:

  • Honesty
  • Obedience
  • Passion
  • Humor
  • Loyalty
  • Commitment
  • Love
  • Children

What I've been looking for:

A man who can hold my soul in the palm of his hand while I willingly offer him my heart, my mind and my body. Do I want a man to whip me, torture me and brutalize me? No, of course not. Do I want a man to cuddle, pamper and massage me? No, that's not what I' m looking for either. I hope to commit myself to a man who will push me just beyond what I think my capabilities are, one who knows the true reality of gender identity, which is, men lead, girls follow. To me, it really is as simple as that. I'm not looking for a bf, I'm looking for a strong and controlling dominant man.

I'm hopeful for a long-term, sincere and passionate relationship that will stand tall above all others.

I do my best to stay fit. Hopefully you do the same.

To me, I think this lifestyle and my pursuit for a relationship in it, are not all that complicated, but finding the right connection for me may very well be the hardest search I've ever undertaken.

About relocation ... yes, I would consider it, BUT ... only for the right man, and even then, only if I felt him to be passionate in his desires, ... I would never relocate for simple "test-drive".


Soapbox time:

If you ask me in your first message or two if I have Yahoo, Kik or Skype, and you "need" to chat there because messaging here is"too slow", well that just tells me you don't have the patience to get to know someone and you're probably in a big rush to get to the jerk-off conversation. So, if that's your style, please don't bother me. Now, if we begin to "hit it off", then maybe, but it's not really a very good way to start, is it?


And just in case you need some help from a sweet little thing like me, a friend suggested I offer this advice:


Reasons Why I Haven’t Responded to your Message

1) You obviously didn’t even try to read my profile. No, I’m not looking for a male submissive who wants to worship my feet with balloons.

2) You sent the same message to at least some of my friends. We do talk. Trust me.

3) I actually can’t understand a thing you said. mbe tlk smtym k?

4) You are a “photographer”. You want to take nude “pictures” of me. Yet, all your own photos were either taken with your phone or stolen from porn websites.

5) You sent a one word message. sup…

6) Your profile pic is of your penis. And it’s not very impressive.

7) You mentioned your mother/children/pet goldfish. I have all the family issues, and daddy issues in particular, I’ll ever need, thank you very much.

8) I have a bad feeling about you. Also your only interest is “ax murdering”.

9) You are in my town for one night only and want to meet up. Refer back to #2.

10) You really only want to blank my blank with your blank until it gets all blanky. Go blank yourself.

11) You want me to teach your girlfriend/wife/victim to be a kinky hot bi chick. “Expecto patronum!”

12) I legitimately lost your message due to all the crap I receive. Refer to #1-11.

Maybe I should visit my Fet page more often.

Journal Entries:
11/25/2017 6:23:55 AM
Sometimes, unexpectedly, I receive a message from someone I don't even know.
I read their screen name, I read their message, and I usually read their profile.
but then, sometimes, after learning what I've just learned, I just ignore the message.
I view that sort of like when we get junk mail delivered to our homes ... I mean, if I didn't ask for junk mail to be delivered, why should i ever feel obligated to reply?

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