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If you want G-rated pictures, get to know me a little and ask, I am not putting pictures up on the profile. I do not do any non-G-PG-rated pictures.
First off, I am in an open monogamous relationship, open to have mental or physical kink play sessions with others, even regular play partners, but we are sexually monogamous. Romance can happen, sexual and sensual play can occur, but outright penetrative sex will not... want details? Ask! We discuss our relationship limits regularly, so when negotiating play with others, any limits that matter will be brought up and discussed, including nuances, since labels and 1-2 word deors can suck when discussing something with various nuances to it. Always best not to assume the details.
Personal Values
Both honesty and humor matter to me a good deal, and discussing society and culture and balance and consent are all big topics to me that I can discuss at-length.
There are times when I am regularly trying to analyze motivations and just how much of what they say is true, a trait I arguably may have from consistently dealing with interpersonal politics, both in the organized, in-person kink scene and vanilla work life, so when things are straightforward, even blunt, I appreciate it, even when the blunt is not necessarily the nicest. I do not take genuine honesty for granted, even when it is considered expected. That said, I do not do the best with understanding mixed signals, so if you want something from me or with me or need me to know something, your best bet is to tell me directly. If part of me is gauging your response and giving political answers, I am being honest and real, but I am likely feeling guarded, possibly for reasons I cannot articulate myself.
And on humor? Intelligent humor, goofy humor, no humiliation or degradation, just some fun times and laughs are appreciated. I can be stoic at times, especially while feeling some social anxiety, so just being able to just enjoy a good laugh is something I significantly appreciate, and likely will aid in building some chemistry and rapport with me. If someone honestly has a perspective of No Laughter In The dungeon (which I will say in a tongue-in-cheek manner at times) or a perspective that kink is nothing but seriousness andor strictness... well, we have very different values, I will respect and make room for their way as long as they do not disruptdisrespect mine. I am generally much more casual in nature and that carries into my relationship and play dynamics.
I have various opinions when it comes to equity, consent, privilege, various social prejudices (sexism, racism, etc.), consent incident handling, etc. If you are the sort to immediately dismiss someone because you deem them a SJW and you are not open to conversation on the topic, then we may not see eye-to-eye when such topics come up. I do not expect everyone to agree with me, but I do desire actual dialogue to be there. Mind you, I know there are definitely people who share similar opinions that unfortunately do not share my desire for dialogue, having more of a mob-mentality (shoot first and ask questions later) way of thinking... aaaand I am not the biggest fan of that, either... anyway, I mostly bring that up because ya will see it on my feed and, well, that may matter to ya, one way or another.
Vanilla Shtuff
I am very much an indoorsy person and can be fairly geeky, an interest in various kinds of games from board games, to tabletop games including pencilpaper RPGs like DD, to video games, an enjoyment of many kinds of animemanga, as well as of sci-fi. I balance between Lawful Neutral and Neutral Good, personally, depending on my mood at the time, but if ya get that, then ya know alignment charts fit archetypes and situations, not real people overall.
Fitting with my being a bit stereotype geeky, I am also fairly introverted, and can seem not-social in larger groups, but I assure you that I want to be approached and talked with most times. I do decently one-on-one when I am not feeling anxious or out of spoons (google search Spoon Theory if that made no sense to you, you might find a new favorite metaphor).
The Kink Interests
As for kink, I am mostly interested in meeting new friends and networking, getting out to local events, munches, and play parties, educating and sharing new perspectives, and I enjoy occasional times of playing with hypnosis with people once in a while, especially with someone I have felt chemistry with for a little while. Getting the opportunity to tease in non-humiliating fashion, enjoy some erotic play, andor authority transfer of a more casual nature, as I am not the sort to enjoy strict pressure nor punishment, focusing more on positive, rewarding reinforcement.
I mainly do hypnosis either (1) in kink class settings to help educate or (2) in play with people who I feel want my style of play or want my attention in that fashion. That said, if I feel I am being used or sought after as a hypnosis dispenser kink dispenser, I simply will not play with that person. I want to feel a connection with the person I scene with, I want them to come to me for good scene chemistry, my unique style, or even just that we specifically seem to connect well, not because I do one particular kink you want.
I will once in a while check in people who seem interesting to me, see if they are interested in some hypnosis play. That said, in order to ensure I do not put on undue pressure or seem pushy, I will generally just let them know I am interested or ask if they would like to discuss such and leave it at that. If I have told someone I would be interested in playing, that was my taking initiative. I try to be very cognizant of if I am pressuring someone to play, so I will not generally ask again unless I have legitimately forgotten, unless they have indicated I should ask again later, or unless something interrupted our conversation such that a magic 8-ball would simply shrug when asked if they are interested. If I have said to feel free to ask about play if you are interested, I am not just being nice or generous, I meant it, so do not psych yourself out of asking should you find yourself interested.
I will do non-hypnosis play with select few people, people I really have to get to know. I have some decent experience with some other kinks, such as topping with various s of impact play, but they are simply not interests that I actively seek for myself at this point and do not necessarily do much for me personally.
So if any of this sounds interesting and you want to connect and see if we click, then reach out, say hi, have a real conversation, let me know what made you want to connect in the first place. I look forward to hearing from you.
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Hypnosis FAQ
(this is just X-posted from other profiles and blogs I have that are much easier to link... when a site doesn't censor such links... therefore, copying here, feel free to PM me for reliable link to another copy of the same information, or for learning resources)
Consider it a "newbie's guide to hypnosis." This blog, by far, does NOT answer all questions about hypnosis, just the often occurring ones, a FAQ if you will.
Q: Why use hypnosis?
A: There are many benefits to using hypnosis, both in therapy and entertainment and erotic, and in erotic hypnosis there's more than just BDSM. I enjoy the erotic, I enjoy providing fantasies that both can and sometimes can't happen in real life.
Q: What can you DO with hypnosis?
A: Many, many things. I can do either more than you think, or less, as you're either a skeptic or you think hypnosis can do everything in entirety. While hypnosis can not do absolutely everything, it can do a GREAT many things. However, I enjoy receiving very original ideas from others, in addition to my own ideas, so I'd like you to brainstorm and let me know what you think I can do with hypnosis. Don't be afraid to think outside of the box. Don't be afraid to consider things that you wonder if it can or cannot be done. I've heard people ask how difficult it is to do something with hypnosis, and the answer to it was that it was probably the easiest thing a hypnotist can do, so don't be afraid to brainstorm a little and tell me what you come up with. You might give another subject, or perhaps yourself if you'd like to try, a very fun experience in the future from your suggestions.
Q: Do you need it to control someone?
(alternate Q: Can you control someone?)
A: No, hypnosis is often misconstrued in TV and movies. The subject is always in control, whether they know it or not. Your unconscious mind acts as a watchdog, a safety net. Anything the subject is truly against, the subject would still be against doing. The hypnotist is more of a guide, a co-pilot, than anything else.
Listen, and this is important: even in a more suggestible state, A SUGGESTION IS STILL A SUGGESTION. No matter how suggestible you are, would you accept a suggestion to kill someone as something you have to do? Hell no (at least I hope not, and if you would, turn yourself over to the authorities now)
Q: You just said a subject won't do something they're against, but then why do so many embarrass themselves on stage shows?
A: Let's put it this way, you show me a person who's morally or ethically against clucking like a chicken, and I'll be absolutely amazed. Before the rest of this answer, NOTE: stage hypnotists have to work rapidly, and some people require more time to allow themselves to relax (in a private setting, I believe everyone can be hypnotized, see next Q), so stage show time does not work for everyone. So, if you go up on stage and the hypnosis works for you, and you're in a deep trance, I want you to tell me the following two things:
1.) Do you actually notice there's an audience there?
2.) If you do, does it matter to you at the time?
Let me answer those questions for ya, at least one of them is a NO. By the time you're in trance, in your mind, it's just you and the hypnotist. Not like you're in a private room, but in the manner of speaking that while you *acknowledge* the audience and take note that they're there, it doesn't bother you. You're too relaxed and focused on a single thing to really care much. You still won't go off and strip unless you have exhibitionist tendencies, but most people will cluck like a chicken. Your unconscious mind would keep you from doing things you're AGAINST doing in public, but if you're truly against something as silly as temporarily forgetting your name, or doing most other stage show stuff, you really don't have any fun, do you? This is, of course, not including the more adult stage show stuff, which I can understand being uncomfortable with some things, but hypnotists always remind you that you don't do things you're against.
Q: I read a scientific study saying some people are immune to hypnosis, am I immune?
A: Do you have a noticeable and serious mental defect, like schizophrenia, multiple personalities, or some form of real mental retardation? Then NO, you are not immune. Some people will debate me on this, so this is just my view from my experiences: everyone without any SERIOUS mental defects is able to be hypnotized. My reasoning? Trance is a natural thing. You go in and out of light trances multiple times a day, every single day. One example is day dreaming, or when you "kinda faze out for a second" and have to have someone repeat something you didn't hear. EVERYONE goes through these, which are examples of light trance. All hypnosis does is take these kinds of trances, use them for an altered state of consciousness, and continue from there. If you go through light trances at all naturally, you can be hypnotized, period.
(also, I mentioned specific mental illnesses earlier... some mental illnesses actually tend to make one more open to hypnosis, not less open nor immune)
Q: Then why would research studies say some people just can't be hypnotized, as your reasoning makes sense, too?
A: First off, there are MANY, MANY different ways to put someone into a trance (aka. "trance inductions"). Where induction #1 works perfectly on person A, it may completely fail or meet resistance with person B. By the same token, induction #2 may completely fail or meet resistance with person A, but work perfectly for person B. What inductions work better for different people vary on MANY things, personality, mood, timing, rapport with the hypnotist, and several other things. If one induction doesn't work for you, though, another trance induction will. So have you gathered the reason research studies find immune people? Simple: they take a whole group of people and try one form of trance induction, find people resistant and "immune" to that trance induction at the time, and assume they are immune to any form of hypnosis. Any good hypnotist knows many techniques, and can change it up if necessary. Any good hypnotist should be able to tell if you are in trance for sure (as long as they see and/or hear you), and therefore change it up as s/he sees fit. Research studies have yet to take this into account. What these percentages show is "This percent work well with this induction, this percent is resistant to this induction, and this percent just plain don't like this induction in the least." Nothing more.
Q: How can you tell if a person is in a trance?
A: When in person (or on webcam if I'm lucky online), there are physical signs of trance, such as slight change of skin color, either paler or redder, limp and loose muscles, slack facial features, and more. If visual aide is not available (phone/mic), the voice tends to change slightly as well, though it's hard to pick up, and it's hard to describe what to pick up, experience teaches.
Q: You can hypnotize by phone or mic without being there?!
A: I, and quite a few others, can hypnotize by text, IMs, chats, if the subject gets rid of distractions on his/her side personally and follow my instructions.
Q: Okay, you lost me, how can you hypnotize by text?
A: Simply put, all a hypnotist needs to hypnotize is rapport with the subject, their willingness to be hypnotized (on some level), and the subject's complete attention. All hypnosis truly needs is focus.
Q: Still losing me, don't you need to close your eyes or something?
A: Nope, let me ask you a question back: Why do you think a subject closes their eyes? There are two reasons
1.) They feel so relaxed that their eyelids become heavy, as is often suggested by the hypnotist. If I suggested that you want to keep your eyes open, that you want to focus more on my words, you'll tend to keep your eyes open.
2.) In person, the subject focuses on the hypnotist's VOICE, and you focus soooo much more on your hearing with your eyes closed. Having eyes closed also reduces chances of distraction.
It is not required, though it is often easier to keep your eyes closed, which is a pitfall of text-based hypnosis.
Q: Whoa.
A: Not a question, but yes, I know.
Q: Does that mean you can hypnotize me in an e-mail or something?
A: Lightly, yes, I can alter your consciousness for a short time, and induce a light trance.
Q: Can you use hypnosis on someone without their knowing?
A: Depends on the person, some things that others wouldn't have a clue what's truly going on, more perceptive people will know easily what you're doing. You need consent, though, and if you sneak it in without their approval to do so at some time, then you could also run the risk of losing the trust of their unconscious mind, which makes doing anything useful a lot more difficult. Sneak trances are possible, only on the consenting to some degree, but some may truly not like the idea of you doing so without their explicit consent at some time or another. If you are planning on doing a sneak trance, have their prior approval to do so any time so you have their trust first. Trust me, when you have explicit permission to do so when they don't expect it, it can be so extremely hot. When you don't have that explicit permission, their subconscious likely won't trust you, which will come across to them as that inexplicable "Something's not right here, I gotta leave... now." feeling.
Q: You mentioned consent several times there, you actually need it?
A: Like I said, one can give unconscious consent, which is how sneak trances ever really work, but you do need consent to some degree, yes. You need to have rapport, and if you have no consent, say buh bye to rapport. Trust goes a LOOOOONG way to how they respond to suggestions. Just like anyone in the conscious AND waking state, if they trust you, they'll do a lot more for/with you. Why would you need to jeopardize such a thing as trust when having his/her trust can get you everything you really want anyway? Trust me, I've gotten much more from people who trusted me completely than from people I've seen going into a trance without conscious knowledge have given. Back to the question, do you need consent on some level? YES.
Q: What's so special about having consent?
A: What's so special about letting just any old idiot play around? Be f'ing glad anyone needs consent to some level, as it makes hypnosis something to NOT fear, and something you can just sit back and enjoy, as long as you trust your hypnotist, and they have some knowledge of what they're doing. It's people who actually want to ask a question like this that I truly want to backhand a good dozen times before kicking them in the groin, as these people also make others have a bad or scared outlook on hypnosis, even those who want to give up control, and that's truly annoying because of what a wonderful experience hypnosis can be with someone you truly trust.
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MAN this place has become overrun with spam bots, huh? It's just become nonstop, wtf, CollarSpace? |
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6/25/2010:
Coming down from the hustle and bustle of everyday life
Have you ever found yourself suddenly go from doing almost nothing to
nonstop moving? I've been there very recently, I believe it was only a
few weeks ago that I was sitting home and relaxing all day for the two
weekend days, talking to a few friends online here and there. Then I'm
in Pennsylvania for half a week driving nonstop for that whole half a
week. Then I'm in NYC for half the day the next Sunday, then I'm in
Boston for the entire following weekend, then I'm off visiting my entire
family the following weekend after that. While busy, it often keeps
your mind off of just how busy you are. When most of that business is
FUN-based, it often doesn't hit you until it has stopped. You know as well as I, that as things wind down, that often the mind
enjoys added help winding down. It can do so entirely on its own, but
that little help can feel so nice, and it can be fun as well.
A little help to relax, to slow down, to transition back to the times of
everyday life.
A place to go, just to "be" for a little while, to just enjoy being.
A state to just let go, to sit back, and know that you can be here for
as long as you feel comfortable being here. Getting a sense for how this place feels... sounds... even looks to
you.
Perhaps even noticing this state having its own scent... unique from how
where you physically are usually smells...
A taste on your tongue... perhaps slightly different than the last thing
you ate or drank... perhaps slightly different than just the air around
you.
Maybe while not even noticing it, traveling to a different place than
you would have gone while reading through.
For those experienced with my style, perhaps ever-so-slightly different
from where I would usually take you.
For anyone that knows the hustle and bustle that they wish to wind down
from, even the most fun of it all... noticing more and more... the
difference between here and there. Where you were, and where you are.
You are exactly where you should be... exactly where you want to be...
and exactly where you can be, and you're right to be here... where you
are... at this moment.
Where you will be in an upcoming moment... in the moments and times to
come... those will also be right... correct... will also be where you
should be... where you have a right to be. Some of you will read through this and chuckle... ellipses...
Others of you will read through this and become quite pensive, maybe
even philosophical in thought...
Yet others of you will dismiss this upon completing finishing your read
through...
These are all alright, and fine paths to take, consciously or
subconsciously...
There will be a select few things in common amongst all of you,
however...
...you will be where you should be... entirely because of you...
...and that there will be that metaphorical breath of fresh air... that
you may have wanted for some time now. You are right to be here, as long as you feel comfortable being here
and for as long as you can allow yourself to stay here.
You may feel free to reread this as many times as you'd enjoy, until you
want or need to continue to the end of this moment, whether it be due
to things you must accomplish, other places you must be, forms of
emergency, or just feeling that you've accomplished what you needed to
accomplish while here.
You are right to be here, as long as you feel comfortable being here,
and for as long as you can allow yourself to stay here. Upon being done with this particular moment, continuing along to
refreshing, wonderful feelings, another of that metaphorical breath of
fresh air, and excitement and positive feelings for what comes next in
life. Enjoyment of activities to come, and good things to be seen even
where you're not used to looking for such. Refreshed, wonderful,
positive energy, enjoyment of the good things that exist, now.
Stretching, happiness, and positivity emerging, I'll say here and now
that, as a hypnotist and just a person who wishes to continually
improve, I love feedback to enhance myself and continue to improve. If
you have anything you'd like to say about this writing, at all,
positive, neutral, or otherwise, I look forward to it, and it can be
public commentary or private messages. I thank you in advance for it.
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Once again, not a trance induction. Sorry to those who want another.
Question: If you list yourself as SLAVE, why is your name Goddess, Lord, Master, Mistress, etc.? Not as in "property of MasterX" but actually calling yourself "MasterX." You know, effectively the exact opposite of a slave?
I just don't get it. Switch with this name, I get. But slave? Eh, if you can make sense out of it, explain it to me. |
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10/23/2009:
Commentary on older generations' comments on the TNG crowd.
Just out of curiosity, is there anything LESS mature than saying something like "You're barely out of your diapers" when trying to say that someone doesn't know what they're talking about? People can have very, very different experiences from one person to the next. For example, I dealt with more MRI scans and CT scans by the time I was 7 than some people do their whole lives. Why can't the same logic be thrown into relationship experience, BDSM experience, etc.? Why can't some people believe that some people happen to have experiences that they never had at a younger age than they'd expect? Or at least a fresh perspective they didn't consider?
I really... really don't like people like this. I understand why some people talk this way, I just really don't like it. Is there anything more immature that a "mature adult" can say other than "You just got out of your diapers," especially when talking to someone that is legally an adult? That is, barring racial and sexual prejudices, of course. |
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The idea of this entry, for your own benefit, is to introduce you into a trance and to give a small jumpstart to your inspiration in relation to a single collective of thoughts or ideas of your own. And it's all wrapped around a story of something I did recently, and interestingly enough, it is my own story that brought about the inspiration for how to jumpstart your own. My gosh, proof already that it works! lol
Anyway, so recently I took a trip. A distance considered just slightly
further along than usual, to a location that rarely if ever appeared
worthy of note, for a reason one rarely felt was worth how far down one
should go to get there. However, despite all of these unusual things,
it was fun, enjoyable, entertaining. In fact it, indirectly perhaps,
or maybe just surprisingly, inspired the beginning of this thought. Of
course, as I said, this is just the beginning of this thought, and so
there is more of it to develop, as there is always development to be
made.
As the beginning of this thought became inspired, new
thoughts emerged, branched out, as doors formed and pathways created
themselves in the mind. It's interesting how that happens, how just a
single thought, whether it an opinion, a fact, or a question of things
to come, such as where you are being led with how things are, for
example. It's also very interesting, the different ideas that a mind
can choose to latch on to, to focus on, to delve deeper into. Perhaps
there is a new thought, a concept, an idea, that you wish to focus on
more clearly, or perhaps there is an older one that you would like to
see with fresh eyes, a fresh perspective, renewing it with new
knowledge and experience. Maybe it is just the whispers of a new
concept, maybe at this moment it is incomplete and has yet to see an
end, or maybe it's fully and completely formed and you just enjoy going
over it once more, seeing it from start to finish. Fresh eyes, and a
clear, relaxed, yet focused perspective. Open to let new pieces
whisper their way gently into this concept to make it better than it
has ever been before to you.
Let this idea that you've begun
with linger here for just a moment, focus just a little deeper on it
and take a deep breath, in..... and out..... as your own idea comes
more clearly into view, more open to your grasp, with each, and every,
deep breath. You may have experienced in the past that, as you focus
more and more intently, more and more deeply on something, that you
tend to not consciously notice other things, such as people around you,
whispers in your ear, or even the feeling of the seat you are in, until
they are directly brought to your attention by the very thing you are
focusing on, or if they are urgent enough that they take priority. You
may happen to notice something similar happen here, as you continue to
read along these words, focusing intently, deeply on that thought, that
idea that we've discussed earlier in this passage. Allow the words to
flow in, deeper on that thought, words drifting through easily, further
you go into that thought. Becoming easier to see this thought, hear
this thought, grasp this thought in your mind, more easily able to play
with it, to add to it as you wish with new experience, new knowledge,
or perhaps knowledge you have had all along and just had to consider in
a different state of mind to truly let it click for you. As you drift
along further, let that thought, that idea, develop a little more, a
little more insight, a little more use of memory and input you may have
already received. Let it come along naturally, with as much time as it
needs to develop fully. Allow it just enough room to develop in the
back of your mind, letting that idea, perhaps with some new information
attached to it already, or perhaps still awaiting input, slip away from
your conscious mind for the moment, staying in the back of your mind to
develop more and more until you wish to call it forward again yourself,
allowing it space to develop on its own without interference.
And
as it is allowed room to develop, to grow, you may find yourself at
peace for these few moments. Perhaps moreso than usual, for until you
call it forward, or until it has fully completed it's growth given what
you know now, it will develop more and more while you consciously focus
on other things. Indeed, even when you go to sleep, the part of your
mind in charge of imagination and creativity help to give it some room
to grow, in addition to room for any normal dreams you may have as you
sleep deeply. It may take as much time as it needs, as much time as
you choose to give it. When you call it forward in the future, you may
find that you instinctively know whether or not it is complete enough
for you to use this idea or thought as you wish to, and you know that,
if it is still incomplete, that when you allow it to drift to the back
of your mind again, it will grow further as you learn more.
And
at this moment, having likely found yourself in a calm, peaceful place,
you have the option to just stay in this wonderful place for as long as
you wish to, for as long as you wish, and you may just find yourself
focusing on the space after the end of this sentence for as long as you
wish to remain deeply relaxed and peaceful, knowing that when you wish
to come back around to the every day world, you'll continue beyond the
end of this sentence soon.
And now, as your thought or idea
has the room it needs to grow, as you've chosen to come back from your
wonderful, relaxed, peaceful state, you'll be coming back around to
full awareness of everything around you shortly, happy with the
knowledge that your mind is working productively while you can continue
to enjoy yourself in various different ways, coming around more and
more now, refreshing to think that you can find yourself getting more
done in the way you wish to, coming up and refreshed that you got such
a wonderful opportunity to relax that was worth it to you, knowing you
can feel free to let me know just what you happened to think of this
entire entry here as soon as you come back around fully and completely
now.
I hope you enjoyed yourself, and found this entry quite to your
advantage. Please remember that I not only very much appreciate
feedback, whether it be criticisms, compliments, or just how you felt
and can remember, as there is nothing wrong at all with remembering
this trance if you wish to, but that I recommend and suggest such
honest feedback.
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Rant of feelings and emotions...
I want someone who will be concerned for my feelings, sure. I do not want someone who feels that "sparing my feelings" is the same thing as showing concern for me, though.
If you attempt to "spare someone's feelings," the one and only thing you are concerning yourself with is your own feelings, whether that be guilt, or potential frustration at having to explain something, or something else.
The following example is not a personal experience, just a realistic possibility I cooked up in my head to explain my thoughts via example. Thank [insert deity here] this hasn't happened to me, I've just gotten one or two "nice lies."
Think about it this way: let's say you were going out with someone (I'm going to pretend you're a girl here, feel free to go vice versa here), and you weren't interested in him anymore. You want to spare his feelings, so you don't break up with him, but you find excuses to see him less, very realistic ones, so it's very subtle that you're not around as often, and you even find someone else. Now, keep in mind, you're "sparing his feelings," so you're still seeing him, still spending time with him, just a lot less than usual. Finally, he finds you with another man, and all you can say is, "I didn't want to tell you because I wanted to spare your feelings!" It's laughable. Even more: it is extremely disrespectful. Now, not only does the poor sap have to deal with the breakup, which is ALL he'd have to deal with if you were outright about it and concerned about his feelings at all, but he'll also have to deal with how it came out, the fact that you were cheating on him, and the fact that you were lying to him with a straight face for who knows how long. And no, he will have no idea how long you were lying and if you're being honest about how long you were lying, because you've already been lying straight faced this whole time. You'd have also turned a potential friend after a breakup to someone who is bitter with you and wants nothing to do with you.
I even know people who've had almost this exact thing happen to them, more than one actually, this isn't altogether an exagerrated scenario. One of my biggest "pet peeves," if you will, is lying without EXCELLENT reason (you know, like not telling your 95 year old grandfather with a heart condition that you were in a car accident). "I didn't want to hurt you" isn't altogether a good reason, though it is often very easily misconstrued as being one because it is with partially good intentions that this is done, but it is ultimately more selfish than you might believe.
Concern yourself with another's feelings, be tactful if possible, but don't "spare another's feelings," as it just leads to a complete lack of honesty, which generally hurts feelings more than anything else. |
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Yet another mini-rant. I've been doing a lot lately, it feels like.
I do NOT want people who are completely dependent on having a Dom or Master to the point of not being CAPABLE of being independent. If you are not capable of being independent, that would reduce me from being a Dom to just being a babysitter, understood? I want an independent person who chooses to submit, not someone who is completely dependent on someone else
If you say something like "I would like to serve you as your slave for life" within 2 or 3 e-mails completely seriously, you are one of these types of people, and I will have nothing to do with you, as you are the epitome of what I don't want. Yes, this journal entry came about from a few people saying such to me (well, that didn't seem like spam, anyway, more if you count BS spam), and as should be obvious, (1) no hypnosis was involved in such a statement coming out, and (2) a person wouldn't say such a thing under hypnosis unless they felt it didn't matter whatsoever and thus don't give a shit, they were lying and thus jackasses, or they were serious and thus had some dependency issues.
And also, if some tragic or traumatic event in your life made you unwilling to do some act, example: anally raped -> won't do anal, then don't turn around and tell me you'll get over it for my sake (without therapy and the like). The very fact that you fear something can bring you back to that event, even if the person is as gentle and slow and caring as possible, is the very essence of not being over this traumatic event.
Sometimes I feel certain that I will just never get some people, you know? |
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So there are no surprises, this entry is intended for those who wish to experience a more erotic trance. A more pleasurable time, in a more sexual place. All with the safety of where you are at this moment.
And for those who are unaware, it is possible to be entranced by something you are simply reading along with.
Perfectly possible, as you become entranced, you are able to scroll along, easily, without effort, as you want to continue further down.
And when you are fully entranced, deeply hypnotized, it is easily
possible for you to keep your eyes open, and focused on what you're
allowing to happen now.
My intentions here are open for anyone to see.
I do intend... for you to enjoy yourself... a little more than usual...
I do intend... for you to find stress just... drifting away from you... as you let it happen...
I do intend for you to find yourself becoming slightly enchanted.
...perhaps lightly entranced.
...perhaps deeply within... one of the more enjoyable... and wonderful worlds... you have ever known...
For those who naturally lean toward dominance... you may find this to be... just a simple, small reprieve... from the busier times... before you return to your normal role.
For those who naturally switch from submission... to dominance... and back... I do wish for you to indulge in your submissive side... for at least a little bit of time here.
For those who naturally want to give in to their submission... given the right person... find yourself being allowed... easily... to indulge deeper in your submission than you usually would... for this little bit of time.
And you know that, in any of these cases, you may notice yourself
focusing more and more on each word. You may notice yourself moving
deeper, and further down... along my writing here and now...
And by this point, you may have noticed something else.
You may have noticed that your breathing has changed.
Gradually to a more relaxed, and calm pace.
And do please, as you confirm this for yourself, take a deep breath. Take it all in... and let it all out...
Another deep breath... in... your body may begin feeling... and out... just a little heavier than usual at this stage.
Doing so once more... in... that's right, you're doing so well...
and out... and you like doing as well as you're doing now, and who
wouldn't?
And as you do so one more time... in... you may find a nice fuzzy
feeling... and out... touching along your mind, feeling good about
yourself. In fact, you may just be feeling good in many ways.
Some people... would find themselves drifting slowly...
Deeper, further down...
Down this writing, hoping to be told what should happen next...
Letting themselves be taken by my next words... on to their next phase, and their next stage...
And yet some others... may have more instinctual feelings...
These people may feel more aroused on their own... now...
Knowing they'll be getting more aroused, of their own say so...
Glad that I'll simply be indulging something they are feeling all on their own...
As that arousal makes you wish to focus deeper than before...
Feeling taken in by someone who's understanding this feeling so well...
Either way... it is rather arousing, isn't it?
Perhaps you may wish to let yourself... indulge in that deeper arousal.
And you are entitled to do so... as long as you are comfortably able to do so.
And if for some reason, you have to wait until later... you may find this feeling returning naturally... on its own, at a time and place of your choosing... the further down instructions coming to mind subconsciously when that time comes.
You may find yourself feeling almost giddy... as the arousal builds
more and more... teasing you... pleasuring you slightly on its own...
like a feather along your skin.
And like a feather along your skin... you may find yourself feeling
that slight ticklish feeling at some points on your body that are
natural... giggling the way you would for a lover doing the same.
That same arousal, building deeper, further into your body.
It's so good as it starts to come faster, better, in waves...
like having sex...
in and out, in and out...
at your favorite pace...
at your favorite depth...
as hands roam a little deeper...
into your skin...
Breathing getting faster... feeling flushed... hearing a wonderful
moan of pleasure from your partner as it gets so great you can barely
contain yourself... as you're only able to let it build for a short
time further still...
Wanting to let it out...
Needing to let it all out...
Knowing it is coming, on that edge...
And waiting, waiting barely until told you are able...
Because you are doing so very well, so very close...
Right on that edge, knowing it'll be only moments...
Until you will be told it's alright...
Needing that, wanting it... right there... wishing to ask for it if I could hear it...
And letting it all out NOW, it's alright, it's good, it's wonderful... just let it all come out of you now...
So satisfying, wanting that to come out, needing that to come out that it feels so good to let it continue now...
And knowing that this will continue for as long as you wish for it
to, as long as you wish for it to... And when I next say now, just let
yourself close your eyes and enjoy it for as long as you wish to.
Moments like hours, it's so damn good. Opening your eyes only when you
feel it is done, and finishing this writing upon opening your eyes to
finish up everything. Close your eyes NOW.
...Good... very good... you've done so well, breathing deeper...
recovering from such good feelings... as the afterglow continues to
warm you for a little while longer... in fact you may find it'll
continue for a little while even after you've told others and myself
how good this was for you, upon your own discretion.
Very well, and now, just letting yourself come more and more attuned
to the things around you. Noticing things that for a little while have
been out of your focus. Coming back to your reality, still feeling
satisfied, happy, and wonderful. Feeling so amazing as we have returned
to where we began, as the natural course loops back around to you
enjoying the rest of your day however you choose. Back completely now,
refreshed, wonderful, like a nice, cool breeze on a summer day.
And now that you are completely back, I'd like to ask for some
feedback, how you felt, if you felt, and any compliments or criticisms
you may wish to make, as I'm open to either.
Feel free, of course, to return to this writing any time you so
choose. And if you couldn't indulge completely, do think about this at
a more private and safe time for you.
Have a wonderful day.
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People seek balance in life, throughout life. Through hardships, we want an easier way, and through easy times, we want a challenge, or "something new." Taking more of a leading position in a career, many tend to take a more follower position in relationships, and in a more follower position in a career, tends to be in charge of the household. It's an odd thing that comes about often, not 100% truly, but quite often.
The stereotype of the corporate president that pays for the services of a dominatrix is not unfounded, nor is the stereotype of the teenager wanting to be dominant in a relationship because s/he has no authority anywhere else.
For many, it is a permanent part of their personality, sub/dom and how much everyone has of both sides mixed in them. Remember that everyone has a little submission and a little dominance, it's just which fulfills, satisfies, and attracts them more that defines sub/dom/switch.
For some, the want of sub/dom in different parts of their lives changes around, and for others it never does. Whether this is because they're happy where things are and "fate" keeps it in such a way that it doesn't have to change, or because they always try to keep it in such a way, that is another story all together.
How many of you reading find that the direction you lean in for relationships in the lifestyle balances out the rest of your life? How many of you find that everything in your life, work/school, relationship, other social interaction, in its entirety lean in the direction of your preference in D/s part of the lifestyle? How many of you think that if your leaning in your professional life changed, leader/follower, that your desires in your personal life would change?
It is interesting to consider, no?
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So this is partly for myself, as I've had a down time for a little bit, and it was going lower, further down, very recently.
Ever have one of those times that you just need to sit back, take a deep
breath, deep down into your gut, and let it all out even slower than
you took it in? Possibly even with a sigh, as you did it again, and
felt a small wave of refreshment just wash over your mind. It goes
from heavier to lighter, as you take another deep breath, slowly in....
and slowly out.
Some of you may have missed this for a while, and some of you may do this often. Following the downward spiral that slowly makes you forget the downward spiral you're in. Taking another
deep breath, as you take it down another notch now.
Whatever goes up, must come down, and at times, the opposite is so very true. Down further, another deep breath, and a sigh escaping your lips, as
your mind likely feels a little tingly, fuzzy. This may be an unusual feeling to you, but at the same time so very familiar, another deep breath in.... and back out..... a curl up in the lips as you sigh once again, letting it all out. So relaxing to let it all out, downward further. Your eyes may blink a little more often as you read this further down, and you may even lose your place. Just know, it's
perfectly fine to find a place you recognize when you lose your place,
and continue to follow downward once more, and you'll find you progress
further than the last time. The small repetition helps you to maintain
your safe, quiet place, as you progress so wonderfully onward.
Down another step, and you know you're progressing wonderfully, even if
you're curious about the pleasing destination at which you are going to
arrive soon. A place that has some familiar aspects, and some new
ones, as you take another deep breath in..... and back out with a
pleasureable sigh. You may notice that just what you sense here just
provides you with a sense of safety, calmness, and serenity. It is a
happy place, and without even trying, a piece of this place will always follow you, reminding you. As you notice this, your lips may curl
upward a bit more, your mind may tingle slightly for a short time, a happy tingle through the rest of your body like a refreshing breeze on a hot summer day.
It's so simple to return here, even for a short time, to take this with you, your own little piece of happiness. Another deep breath in, as you notice your own piece of happiness, and it helps to comfort you, and you may sigh as you smile a little more. Enjoy this piece of happiness a little more, as you can enjoy it any time you alone choose to do so.
You can choose to remember as much about this as you want, but you'll
always know about your own piece of happiness that is yours alone.
Always know, that your own piece of happiness can change, just as you do, just as your life does. Another deep
breath in slowly, things change, you change, others change, breathe
back out. Your piece of happiness changes with you, as it always provides the same emotions as it does now, even as things that make you happy change. You alone know your piece of happiness and can enjoy it as much as you wish.
As you reflect back on what you've learned of your happiness today,
feeling a bit more refreshed from your enjoyment of this time. Coming
back up, as at times, what goes down, must come further and higher up,
even greater than before. You may find yourself chuckling or giggling
a little as you become aware of how great you're feeling as you raise
yourself up completely straight, tall. Feeling much better than you
did a short time ago, as you can go ahead and look around, become more aware of where you are, when you are, and how wonderful you are. You
may have other things you need to do, but always remember your "piece
of happiness," understand?
As per the usual, I do enjoy getting feedback on my work, feedback can be from men and women alike, of course. Hope you enjoyed yourself.
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Look at the time and I'd like you to begin a journey that anyone would
enjoy. Distractions dissipate, and what's left helps you to focus on
such interesting new experiences more than before.
And before I start, you always have control of what you enjoy and want to enjoy, with who you'd like to enjoy. The control goes to you, and
the control you have here can be given to only to those you would like
to do so for, completely, reading through here has no bearing on who
you trust for your own fun and benefit. Also, always remember you can
come back. I understand this is a longer process than most, and feel
you can leave this partway through as easily as you can continue all
the way through, however only continue if you have a decent amount of
time. If something says you need to go unexpectedly, you can easily
take care of such things and come back at some time soon, nothing would
stop such a thing, and you can always continue from where you left off.
Do as you must and enjoy what you enjoy, as I enjoy hearing back about
how many enjoy my writing.
I enjoy such because every now and again I will put up my creative thoughts, ideas, and suggestions here.
Every now and again, I will put up your creative thoughts, ideas, and
suggestions here, perhaps you feel and see them as your own as well
deep down. Sometimes things just turn out that way. You may find that
you wish to stay here and just follow along as long as you can, and
that is perfectly natural for anyone and everyone, so just enjoy
yourself for yourself.
As you read along, you will find the suggested ideas and thoughts to be relaxing, and you can choose to let
yourself be effected by such things as you see fit. You may find that
you don't completely relax at this time, and that is fine as well,
that's right, and feel free to comment after you read this entry, too,
a couple of times even.
Already as you've continued to read along, you may have found your eyelids feeling slightly heavy, and this
is perfectly fine, it just means you will continue to focus further on
reading.
And while you read further, suggestions of comforting, and relaxing feelings and ideas will come and go, and you can choose to
enjoy any one of them as long as you like, and remind yourself of them
and make such ideas stronger in your mind, how you'd like to continue
reading through a few times, as at the end of one idea, another may
come along, or the same idea may repeat itself, that's right. You may
notice something you particularly enjoy repeats a couple of times, as
it is just that wonderful.
And one such possibility would be to be laying on a towel on a beach as you bask in the sun and feel the
temperature of the air along your tanning skin. As the very calm, warm
breeze pleasantly brushes your body once in one direction, listening to
the breeze woosh slowly by your ears, you can see how the breeze moves
the lightest of things along very gently. While you listen to the tide
rolling back out, you also feel the breeze change direction over your
body, washing over your other ear, your other side, calmly placing
things back where they were. Just listening along as you go with the
ebb and flow of the tide, as the back and forth motion just guides you
away closer, leading you along as you may choose of to replay this passage of feelings through your mind again, this wonderful time in the sun for yourself and whoever you trust to help you do so, or you may choose to continue further down.
And down we go, into a deep, calm forest in the daytime, further into a
wonderful clearing. You may choose to take a towel along with you to
rest on, or you may enjoy the feeling of the warm ground beneath you,
as you choose to sit back and enjoy being where you are. Another calm
breeze washes over you, as you close your eyes in a moment, for a
moment, to enjoy the feel of such a breeze now.
As you open your eyes again, you find time has passed as you look up into a beautiful
starlit sky, with a full moon overhead. The full moon looks back down
at you as you find the two of you have locked gazes on each other, as
though looking into a lover's eyes. As you find yourself still there,
time passing, letting it pass, as all that matters is this and the
gentle, breathy whispers in your ear, giving you further ideas, further
enjoyment, safely having fun with yourself where you are as you listen
deeply, looking further, deeper into that wonderful sight. And you may
realize now, that you can continue to live in this wonderful passage of
time as long as you want and for your own enjoyment and benefit, and then you can feel this any time later, such dreamy whispers beckoning to continue deeper after you have had enough fun in this one passage of time.
And further down we go, as you rest on a luxurious bed, the most
comfortable possible, even the sight of it is comfortable on your eyes,
as you rest down on it and find how silent this wonderful bedding is,
barely hearing the ruffle of the blankets as they glide over you,
wanting you to rest your head on soft pillows of down, further and
deeper into this wonderful silky bedding, finding yourself sinking a
bit, legs spread wide enough apart a little bit more so each can sink into its own pleasurable spot, as you'd like to enjoy yourself right now. You know it is time to give
yourself the attention you deserve, that's right, into wonderful
peaceful dreams of the best times with the best people, even as
anticipation built to make everything better than you felt possible at
the time, continuing further into that pleasurable experience where
anticipation got the better of you, and where you wanted it to do so.
Always know, that you can relive this wonderful pleasurable sleep any time, with whoever you trust your enjoyment and benefit for as long as you like, then you may continue on to feel wonderful.
And now, feel a cool, refreshing breeze wipe across your body, this wonderful, refreshing breeze, awakening whatever parts of you may have been found to be sleeping
earlier, making you feel absolutely wonderful, alert, and quite happy.
Of course, you come up happy, as you know you can relive any of these
things any time you wish, and only those you trust can do so for you,
as you remember everything you felt, and enjoyed, and wanted from this
whole time, which you may or may not have noticed has passed quicker
than you'd imagine. Go on, now that you're much more alert, happy, and
refreshed, look at the time and try to figure how much time actually
passed compared to what you had thought a moment ago.
Do message me with your feedback, how you felt about it all in general, your
favorite portions, how long you were here compared to how long you
thought you were, and your favorite portion of it all.
Yes, men are allowed to message me about such as well, as I'm asking for feedback this time, not for submissives.
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I've decided to blog any questions I appear to receive often in my
chatrooms. Consider it a "newbie's guide to hypnosis." This blog, by
far, does NOT answer all questions about hypnosis, just the often
occuring ones, a FAQ if you will.
Q: Why use hypnosis?
A:
There are many benefits to using hypnosis, both in therapy and
entertainment and erotic, and in erotic hypnosis there's more than just
BDSM. I enjoy the erotic, I enjoy providing fantasies that both can
and sometimes can't happen in real life.
Q: What can you DO with hypnosis?
Many,
many things. I can do either more than you think, or less, as you're
either a skeptic or you think hypnosis can do everything in entirety.
While hypnosis can not do absolutely everything, it can do a GREAT many
things. However, I enjoy receiving very original ideas from others, in
addition to my own ideas, so I'd like you to brainstorm and let me know
what you think I can do with hypnosis. Don't be afraid to think
outside of the box. Don't be afraid to consider things that you wonder
if it can or cannot be done. I've heard people ask how difficult it is
to do something with hypnosis, and the answer to it was that it was
probably the easiest thing a hypnotist can do, so don't be afraid to
brainstorm a little and tell me what you come up with. You might give
another subject, or perhaps yourself if you'd like to try, a very fun
experience in the future from your suggestions.
Q: Do you need it to control someone?
(alternate Q: Can you control someone?)
A:
No, hypnosis is often misconstrued in TV and movies. The subject is
always in control, whether they know it or not. Your unconscious mind
acts as a watchdog, a safety net. Anything the subject is truly
against, the subject would still be against doing. The hypnotist is
more of a guide, a co-pilot, than anything else.
Listen, and this is important: even in a more suggestible state, A SUGGESTION IS STILL A SUGGESTION.
No matter how suggestible you are, would you accept a suggestion to
kill someone as something you have to do? Hell no (at least I hope
not, and if you would, turn yourself over to the authorities now)
Q: You just said a subject won't do something they're against, but then why do so many embarass themselves on stage shows?
A: Let's put it this way, you show me a person who's morally or ethically against clucking like a chicken, and I'll be absolutely amazed.
Before the rest of this answer, NOTE: stage hypnotists have to work
rapidly, and some people require more time to allow themselves to relax
(in a private setting, I believe everyone can be hypnotized, see next
Q), so stage show time does not work for everyone. So, if you go up on
stage and the hypnosis works for you, and you're in a deep trance, I
want you to tell me the following two things:
1.) Do you actually notice there's an audience there?
2.) If you do, does it matter to you at the time?
Let
me answer those questions for ya, at least one of them is a NO. By the
time you're in trance, in your mind, it's just you and the hypnotist.
Not like you're in a private room, but in the manner of speaking that
while you *acknowledge* the audience and take note that they're there,
it doesn't bother you. You're too relaxed and focused on a single
thing to really care much. You still won't go off and strip unless you
have exhibitionist tendencies, but most people will cluck like a
chicken. Your unconscious mind would keep you from doing things you're
AGAINST doing in public, but if you're truly against something as silly
as temporarily forgetting your name, or doing most other stage show
stuff, you really don't have any fun, do you? This is, of course, not
including the more adult stage show stuff, which I can understand being
uncomfortable with some things, but hypnotists always remind you that
you don't do things you're against.
Q: I read a scientific study saying some people are immune to hypnosis, am I immune?
A:
Do you have a noticeable and serious mental defect, like
schitzophrenia, multiple personalities, or some form of real mental
retardation? Then NO, you are not
immune. Some people will debate me on this, so this is just my view
from my experiences: everyone without any SERIOUS mental defects is
able to be hypnotized. My reasoning? Trance is a natural thing. You
go in and out of light trances multiple times a day, every single day.
One example is day dreaming, or when you "kinda faze out for a second"
and have to have someone repeat something you didn't hear. EVERYONE
goes through these, which are examples of light trance. All hypnosis
does is take these kinds of trances, use them for an altered state of
consciousness, and continue from there. If you go through light
trances at all naturally, you can be hypnotized, period.
Q: Then why would research studies say some people just can't be hypnotized, as your reasoning makes sense, too?
First
off, there are MANY, MANY different ways to put someone into a trance
(aka. "trance inductions"). Where induction #1 works perfectly on
person A, it may completely fail or meet resistance with person B. By
the same token, induction #2 may completely fail or meet resistance
with person A, but work perfectly for person B. What inductions work
better for different people vary on MANY things, personality, mood,
timing, rapport with the hypnotist, and several other things. If one
induction doesn't work for you, though, another trance induction will.
So have you gathered the reason research studies find immune people?
Simple: they take a whole group of people and try one form of trance
induction, find people resistant and "immune" to that trance induction
at the time, and assume they are immune to any form of hypnosis. Any
good hypnotist knows many techniques, and can change it up if
necessary. Any good hypnotist should be able to tell if you are in
trance for sure (as long as they see and/or hear you), and therefore
change it up as s/he sees fit. Research studies have yet to take this
into account. What these percentages show is "This percent work well
with this induction, this percent is resistant to this induction, and
this percent just plain don't like this induction in the least."
Nothing more.
Q: How can you tell if a person is in a trance?
A:
When in person (or on webcam if I'm lucky online), there are physical
signs of trance, such as slight change of skin color, either paler or
redder, limp and loose muscles, slack facial features, and more. If
visual aide is not available (phone/mic), the voice tends to change
slightly as well, though it's hard to pick up, and it's hard to
describe what to pick up, experience teaches.
Q: You can hypnotize by phone or mic without being there?!
I,
and quite a few others, can hypnotize by text, IMs, chats, if the
subject gets rid of distractions on his/her side personally and follow
my instructions.
Q: Okay, you lost me, how can you hypnotize by text?
Simply
put, all a hypnotist needs to hypnotize is rapport with the subject,
their willingness to be hypnotized (on some level), and the subject's
complete attention. All hypnosis truly needs is focus.
Q: Still losing me, don't you need to close your eyes or something?
Nope, let me ask you a question back: Why do you think a subject closes their eyes? There are two reasons
1.)
They feel so relaxed that their eyelids become heavy, as is often
suggested by the hypnotist. If I suggested that you want to keep your
eyes open, that you want to focus more on my words, you'll tend to keep
your eyes open.
2.) In person, the subject focuses on the hypnotist's VOICE, and you focus soooo much more on your hearing with your eyes closed. Having eyes closed also reduces chances of distraction.
It is not required, though is often easier to keep your eyes closed, which is a pitfall of text-based hypnosis.
Q: Whoa.
Not a question, but yes, I know.
Q: Does that mean you can hypnotize me in an e-mail or something?
Lightly,
yes, I can alter your consciousness for a short time, and induce a
light trance. As you read this FAQ, you are either remembering feeling
this way while reading very recently, or you are very curious about
feeling that way solely from reading my words, and because of this, I
believe you would enjoy reading my profile itself, as my profile
description itself does answer this question better.
And if you
have further questions after reading over my profile a little while,
then you can feel free to message me to ask more..
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FAQ part 2:
This will be brief,
I also want EVERYONE to know, if you ask any of the questions in this specific entry, looking to learn HOW to do such things, I will be completely ignoring and/or blocking you, as they tread some ethical boundaries that I will not have any fake doms imagining is actually acceptable, even if they were possible. I will not have people breaking ethics for their own fun because I gave them ideas, so here are my answers, and read them carefully to understand what's going on with your fantasy that you likely want to ask about:
Q: Can you use hypnosis on someone without their knowing?
A: Depends on the person, some things that others wouldn't have a clue what's truly going on, more perceptive people will know easily what you're doing. You need consent, though, and if you sneak it in without their approval to do so at some time, then you could also run the risk of losing the trust of their unconscious mind, which makes doing anything useful a lot more difficult. Sneak trances are possible, only on the consenting to some degree, but some may truly not like the idea of you doing so without their explicit consent at some time or another. If you are planning on doing a sneak trance, have their prior approval to do so any time so you have their trust first. Trust me, when you have explicit permission to do so when they don't expect it, it can be so extremely hot. When you don't have that explicit permission, their subconscious likely won't trust you, which will come across to them as that unexplainable "Something's not right here, I gotta leave... now." feeling.
Q: You mentioned consent several times there, you actually need it?
A: Like I said, one can give unconscious consent, which is how sneak trances ever really work, but you do need consent to some degree, yes. You need to have rapport, and if you have no consent, say buh bye to rapport. Trust goes a LOOOOONG way to how they respond to suggestions. Just like anyone in the conscious AND waking state, if they trust you, they'll do a lot more for/with you. Why would you need to jeopardize such a thing as trust when having his/her trust can get you everything you really want anyway? Trust me, I've gotten much more from people who trusted me completely than from people I've seen going into a trance without conscious knowledge have given. Back to the question, do you need consent on some level? YES.
Q: What's so special about having consent?
A: What's so special about letting just any old idiot play around? Be friggin glad anyone needs consent to some level, as it makes hypnosis something to NOT fear, and something you can just sit back and enjoy, as long as you trust your hypnotist, and they have some knowledge of what they're doing. It's people who actually want to ask a question like this that I truly want to backhand a good dozen times before kicking them in the groin, as these people also make others have a bad or scared outlook on hypnosis, even those who want to give up control, and that's truly annoying because of what a wonderful experience hypnosis can be with someone you truly trust.
Now that we've finished with that, if you ask any questions that makes me pretty sure you either don't care about consent or wish it wasn't necessary to some degree, you WILL be ignored and blocked. Don't be stupid. |
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