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Hi girls...
I an Alpha Dominant Taurus Man. We Taurus people are by nature a little stubburn yet, affectionate, attentive, romantic, compassionate, touchy-feely. Having taken a Bill Gothard Seminors, relationship courses, studied Pyschology, childhood development, human sexyality,,, we as humans, are genetically, pre-disposed, pre-wired, pre-determined to perform aspects of who we are as Men and women with very primal want desires, needs that people at times have difficulty putting a label on."My Word Is My Bond, And My Bond Is My Word" I am a person of integrity and honesty. I am told that I am great listener, a great communicator a compassionate Man with a warm heart. I love to laugh, having fun, being with friends, social and cherity events, etc. I'm one who makes friends easy. I don't sweat the small stuff or things I cannot control. "The only thing one can control is oneself".
"Capture a Woman’s Mind, her Heart, her Soul,,,Her Body Belongs to Him"
I crave the POWER of your wanting/need to surrender to a Man. I do look at your relationship status if you were in a relationship longer than 10 years on your own profile for that. It is very difficult to balance judging someone's intent, philosophy, and approach through written word... I seek a real-time likeminded woman to be MY complimentary devoted counterpart through life, and I seek her now! You must love the loss of control. The gist of being a sub is not to know what is going to happen and being made to do whatever is required of you. Too many “subs” seek their own pleasure when the denial of a sub's pleasure and the satisfaction of the Man is the essence of submission. It is not about MY satisfying your desires; it is about you satisfying MY desires!! Surprise a sub, control her to do my bidding by discipline and conditioning and training in deprivation where she is molded like potters clay to love and embrace that which her Man wants to do with her mind, soul and body.
Standards:
My standards in a true D/s relationship are HIGH but they are required to bring Me the sub that I desire in my life. I like harmony with a little spice. I enjoy a sub with an education, common sense, intelligence and a sense of humor yet, obedient. My rules are always clear and upon accepting your position I am the only one that will change them. My standards in an M/s relationship, the dynamics are even greater and strikingly different from a D/s relationship for reason all their own.
"Without balance there's kayos."
I HATE Drama! Ultimately, I prefer being in a Long Term Relationship rather then the dating scene, but I decide when and only when I see those dynamics worthy. Ladies, we Men do not read minds For us Men, if you are NOT telling us your feelings, needs, wants, concerns constructively, then we will assume nothing wrong! To many Men today will try and tailor themselves to what they THINK a woman wants in order to win her over and they're MISSING the mark. A woman wants a man to be a Man, and to treat her woman with respect, affection, honor, and at times like a little girl, cherish her for the gift she offers yet still be firm with her. It takes being vulerable. A woman is driven by her emotions. Should she cross that line then put her in check. My mother belongs to my father as my grandmothers belonged to my grandfathers. In my relationship/Marriage, when I look at her, it's like looking into a mirror; she is an extension of me and I an extension of her. What I do to her, I am also doing to myself; You do not defeminize a woman and you don't emasculate a Man. Learn it people! One thing I will NOT tolerate is being crude and distastefully rude. Choose your words wisely people; once they've been said, you can never be taken back. I'm respectfully considerate of others and expect the same. Do NOT mistake kindness for weakness... There are always boundaries in a relationship not to cross (as we draw attention and affection from one another), crossing those boundaries leave scars that can never be erased. Learn to just, "Agree to Disagree." Remember, "You can always get more with honey then you can with bitters."
The Journey to ANY Relationship:
First, there is always in any relationship the C.C.T. (Chemistry, Communication and TRUST). Without those three basics you have nothing. E.P.E. (Erotic POWER of Exchange) the chemistry, which is an extension of that C.C.T., then finally the T.P.E. (Total POWER Exchange) the mental and the physical aspects of surrendering one's POWER to another.
Should you be curiously intriged then write to me and express yourself honestly...
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