I am a gentle Dominant; I am quick to listen, learn and digest slowly that which I see. My Dominance resides within My heart and is reflected through the language of My soul. Dominance is Trust, Honesty, Devotion, Commitment and Values... Dominance is what we are... How we feel ... Dominance is what we do and what we say, not how we say it ... that part comes naturally. Submission is not about sex, it is about sensuality. It is about trust, communication, vulnerability, caring, and honesty. It is about being the graceful, sensual, beautiful woman that resides within. the biggest thing that can hurt a Dominant (and a submissive) is the ego. If you have the mistaken impression that you know it all you are dead wrong. There is too much in this lifestyle to learn to know it all. The best Dominants, the ones that are held in the highest regard, speak with out ego, and are very, very approachable. This openness that you have when you lack in ego, makes you more ready to learn from all areas, and makes the flow.B