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Alltiedup86

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We are a couple looking to learn more about the lifestyle.

She is new to lifestyle and is exploring her Dominant side.


He has some experience as a submissive.


We have been together for awhile and are exploring some new things.
See our interests for more of what we are into, the list may change as we go...

Feel free to leave us a message we would love to chat. Always looking for new friends.

1/14/2010 3:32:25 PM
Since "R" got me involved into this lifestyle - he experimented some before we got involved- we have looked into different toys to use, mainly for me to use on him. He did, oh so nicely, buy me a vibrator and blindfold for Christmas (occasionally we like to switch up who's in control... we are not 24/7 in our role) and also used different materials all over my body to create different sensations while I was blindfolded (you'd be shocked how nylons rubbed gently against you feel just like Barbie hair...weird.) I decided, however, to embrace my role as Domme a bit more and pick out different toys to help me feel more comfortable. The first of the two- a Silver Ball tickler. The description on this item says it could be used just as so, or you could use it harder to inflict some pain, which I did. This, it seems has to be used with caution. While it felt really nice on him (I'll let him tell you later in his blog), when I flipped it around to use the rubber end, I left wonderful welts along the back of his legs and across his ass. Beautiful red welts that stung. As for his other toy, I felt the 7 Gates of Hell would do the trick to chastise him a bit and get him riled up. This one only he can describe how it feels, but its hard to put on if he's, well, hard. It's nice to see through his pants when he had to wear it at dinner that his cock was under lock and key just for me.
pakisaima
 
 Age: 37
 Santa Barbara, California