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I’ll start off with who I am as a person, and then move on to what I’m craving in a partner.
First off, I am looking for something deep and long-term, something that lasts and is fulfilling. Something where marriage could be a possibility. I’ve been an extensive traveler; I’ve met and dated all kinds of women. I’m a confident believer in myself, my abilities in life, and in the direction I’ve chosen for my career. I’ve been married once before, a long time ago when I was pretty young. I’ve been in long-term relationships since.
I’ve grown as an individual in terms of maturity and understanding what it takes to really make a relationship work. I’ve also discovered that life is too short not to go for what excites you. I’ve learned that it’s torture to be in a relationship where emotional, mental, spiritual, and physical needs are not met. I’ve found out that I want more than I’ve ever actually experienced…and I’ve experienced a lot. I’ve realized, finally, what sort of intense connection I want to slide into. I now know what I’m looking for in terms of sex, and so much more. I can be in a vanilla relationship, but I find I am wanting something deeper, and with more spice.
I won’t go on and on and bore you with tons of details. Suffice to say that, I want passion, fire, and romance that don’t end. They say people lose the “I’m so in love with this other person” feeling after about 3 years together. I am of the mindset that two people can choose to build a relationship that is constantly growing, constantly evolving, constantly moving forward…constantly naked to one another, melting and plunging into each and every aspect of the other’s being.
That’s a hint of who I am. I’m perfectly willing to discuss more…but I feel that discovering each other is more exciting, more tantalizing through a conversation (Email or otherwise) than by reading a profile.
So, now what am I looking for?
I’m looking for Fire. Commitment.
I am looking for a woman I can allow inside. I’m looking for THE woman. The one I can trust above all others, who will take control as I open up for her. The one to whom I can give myself fully. The one that will take ME…and will understand that what I’ve given her isn’t just a toy, isn’t something to be taken lightly, isn’t something to just throw away.
I’m worth a lot. I’m looking for someone that can recognize that, and relishes the understanding that to me…she’s worth everything. I am looking for someone that is like an aggressive lioness, but someone who also understands tenderness, soft kisses, and real passion.
I am dying to fall in love with the right person for the rest of my life. With the person who will hold me when I feel sad, who will not make me feel like a fool, or like I am less of a man if I need her to be strong for me. And at the same time, who will let me be a man. (Someone who does not hate men, who is not dominant sexually because she has an innate desire to just cause men pain, who does not want to emasculate her man.)
A woman who is utterly feminine. A woman who is a true lady with class, but with me, in private can be sexually free and powerful. I want someone that expects to take me…body, mind, and soul…ramming herself into me and overpowering all that I am, and loving me for it. Someone who can capture me with a look…and strip me bare. Someone that, when I’m caught by her gaze, I know that she’s looking at me with excitement, desire, and with real, passionate love.
We can talk all about the details when we converse…I’ll just make a few notes about deal breakers immediately below so I won’t waste your time:
1. I’m not into chastity (it’s not for me. At least, not long term)
2. I’m not into blood, branding, or any kind of permanent scarring.
3. Not into kids, or animals
4. I’m into making love (If being dominant means you no longer enjoy vanilla sex of any kind…or that you cannot incorporate sex into your D’s…we won’t be a match.)
5. I have a tremendously high sex drive. You should too. I'm not a "do me sub" but I do love sex...and if you are a domme because you don't really like men or sex...we won't be a match.
6. I am in good physical shape. You should be too. (10 extra pounds or so doesn't bother me…but you should make an effort to keep in shape.)
7. You should be smart. Intelligence is a huge turn on.
8. I prefer women that are active Jews or Christians. I have a strong faith although I am not completely traditional, and I prefer that you do too, or that you at least respect mine. (I don’t see a moral or ethical contradiction in my sexual tastes and my faith, and neither should you.)
9. Finally, I am very discrete and I don’t publicize my thoughts or behavior when it comes to sex. I prefer to have my relationship remain private. To the public, family and friends, we are a regular couple. Behind closed doors, you and I know the difference.
10. Most of the photos, obviously, are not of me. I have no problem sending photos of myself if/when we begin a conversation.
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