I am looking to explore the deepest places of passion and forbidden desires. My experience is on the dominant side, but enjoy all sides of the psychological spectrum. How can we know what we really want if we don't taste all of it for ourselves? I am mostly into the psychological aspects of d/s. Control, humiliation, the mindgasms that occur from having choice removed, from being made to do things that you don't want to do (but secretly really do, lol). Searching for your deepest needs and giving fulfillment. Being pushed because its so damn hot. Taking small things that vanilla folk take for granted as a simple stepping stone to sex, and making them into something oozing magnificence. And who knew caring humiliation could be so breathe taking? lol To me this is about passion, out of control,crazy intimacy with little to no rules. Incredible affection, lovingness, closeness, and intimacy, as we go to places we've only dreamed of. True caring and friendship. If we play, it is simply with the intention that neither of us will ever forget. There are no ordinary days, and thus ordinary passion is not for us. It is not about abuse, coldness, indifference, or anything inside becoming broken. It is about love and not hate. An untouched closeness we share. A bond that is significant and long lasting, perhaps forevermore.