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Be my god, I will be your godess,
Be my lord, I will be your lady,
Be my master, I will be your slave,
Be my lover, I will adore you beyond limits,...

A bottle in the sea...
Drifting drifting to the horizon,
Across lands and oceans,
universes and multiverses,
Are you there ?
Are you there and real?

Message in the bottle

Disclaimer
I am NOT interested in random hookups (I quit on those), I am only interested in potential LTR with a serious kinky twist. Be aware however, kink alone is not enough in this context. Kink needs to be the chocolate chips in the cookies, the salt on the fries, or the frosting on the cake. Moreover, as I am heading for long term, please make sure the age difference stays reasonable as I dont want to push your wheelchair while I still want to travel the world. I am looking for crazy love, intimacy and unlimited kink.

I will start with the icing anyway, cause we are still on collarspace...

(Extremely) Kinky Vanilla
A kinky sex life with here and there some vanilla aromas. I am seeking long term, so I want to adore and fondle you as much as I want to be your dirty slut, therefore, every now and then I want us to make love.
An equality based relationship with some kinky flares. I want us to be equal, I want to be able to argue when we disagree, I cant be wrong when it comes to life because I am the submissive. But I also love how control can sometimes make me a better person, or how kink can jump out of simple life facts, so I might empower you to control on some extra-bedroom topics.
I want the best of both worlds, but we can figure out how to make that work.

Kinky
Kinky icing
A truly and deeply kinky person someone, who like me, can trace their first kinky fantasies back in time. There is no limit to the depth of the play and fantasies in theory, in practice hard limits always exist, and not everybody is attracted to anything. Also no judgement, we need to be able to share and discuss these fantasies without being judged. Also, looking for someone who did is research and knows there stuff, when it comes to safety and hygiene.

Slut by night, princess by day
I love that sentence. It portrays a deep kinky hidden side (not always that hidden). I am not looking for 247 slave or for TPE. I dont like the labels, but I have aspects of all of them, I am a slave in some way, as I dont like being given a choice, a sub as I dont want to be do 247, I am a brat, cause I like to tease, I am a pray because I like to run resist, and I am a rope bunny because I just like the sensations even without the sexual contest. Submission has to stay a bedroom thing but I love for it to occasional slip out of that context unexpectedly. Some days I want to be a fuck whore, others I want to be a good obedient girl, a good slave eager to serve, yet others, I might want to resist you as much as possible... Why limit the realm of possibles ?

Limits Kinks
It always comes down to the basics in my eyes power exchange, restraints, impact play, obedience training, wax play and simply put - domination and submission. I am also somewhat quite of a masochist. These are mainly the physical aspects, I am craving to get further in the mental aspects but thats only possible if you know me through and through and I allow you in my head. Definitely something to work towards. I can be into humiliation but that requires deep vulnerability, and so, trust and knowledge of each other that can be gained in time. Further, I can only accept it if I dont doubt you dont disrespect me in any way. Degradation is excluded.
I am also fantasizing about all kind off consensual non consent (resistance play, rape play, kidnapping play, etc.) and a couple of other things.
My hard limits include needles, scat, waterplay (in most cases), electro play, and globally anything unsafe or unsanitary. I have no problems adapting to your kinks, as long as they dont give me any prejudice or harm me in anyway. As already mentioned, all should be possible.

My kind off dom
When it comes to play, I like my dom to be strict and firm but fair. I love for them to adapt to my reactions and be attentive. Also, I am a playful person, I want to be able to tease and resist somewhat, so I dont want that to be cut off at once, but progressively. I like the kind off dom who tells me all is about their pleasure only, but silently thinks and acts as if my pleasure is part of theirs. I wanna give and receive pleasure, when I am being used. I also want someone who rather fucks a pussy than an ass, although both are welcome off course. Also, as far as I am concerned, oral sex goes both ways.
I also think its important that no sexual act is excluded because I am a dom or because I am a sub. I mean you may or may not like lots of things, but dont tell me you cant suck my pussy because thats not domly enough to do. If this is the case, please pass your way. Further I want a dom with high self control. I think a lot of the kink is about frustration, building tension and waiting sometimes. So, the dom, needs to be able to resist their own urges. And, well, how are you gonna control someone else if you cant handle yourself?

Our minds
I am looking for a partner in crime. I am looking for more than just a play partner, I am looking for a life partner, a partner in crime, an accomplice, a co-conspirator, someone to share joy and sadness with. Yes I know, I am looking for love, the one thing I always said you cant look for, I am not even sure it exists.. so this is just a bottle in the sea. I am sorry, it might seem a bit far stretched.
I want you to make me a better person, and I want to do the same for you (there are many ways for this, they dont have to go through BDSM, but they could). I want to know you through and through, in every nook and cranny.
Our adoration and fondness of each other to grow beyond limits of the realms of possibles.

Qualities I appreciate
Grit and perseverance would be the first to come to mind. A doer, not afraid of taking (somewhat) calculated risks. Adventure and success is never far away. Patience and self control, and somewhat stamina (thats just damn sexy). And a touch of gentlemen...

I dont really care how you look
I have to say I fall for people mainly, and work on fantasies more than on looks but we are all different and some things cant be changed.
My turn offs are falling eyes (talking about the shape here), thin lips, bad teeth and overly skinny.
Amongst the intangibles, I want to be able to read your eyes, decipher all your soul true them, and I must love your scent.

Me
I am a curvy Flemish girl. If you are looking for you skinny fragile slave without curves, thats certainly not me.
Like me or dont like me, I cant do much about it anyway.
I am an adventurous crazy traveler with many interests. Moreover I am very logic, although that doesnt prevent me from having crazy ideas of all kind.
I live on my own terms, and dont let anyone gain control over me from day to day. I slip away upon attempts.
Oh one last thing, I truly love teasing in any .

All summed up I am looking for all and everything, and a world of possibles...

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Fixed4Gear5
 
 Age: 23
  Minnesota