Ok, today's thought, does anyone on here believe in dating? You know, getting to know each other by going to dinner, enjoying a movie, spending time together? As I get to know new people, I love to hear about their kink and what turns them on. It helps us decide if we might be a good match. However, there is so much more to learn about each other than that. So, if you think our first "date" should be in the back of your car at a rest stop, it's probably not going to be a good match. My submission is so much more powerful if I know who you are and what pleases you, and that takes time.

I wrote to a very nice dom and said, "I promise not trying to be a wise guy, but you ask, "Is there such a thing as a real and honest submissive / slave here on Collar Me? " Well, yes there are. I am one. I don't lie about who I am or what I need. I am heavy (always working on it), disorganized at times, and alternate between confidence and feeling I am somehow falling short of all of the things I have to do everyday. There are real people here.

However, lots of guys want perfect. Your profile is a great example. You don't seem to mind saying you want perfection....someone who can turn heads, someone who can dress to the t, or be sexy in sweats..on and on and on. Never in your profile do you say, I want real submissive, its ok if she has flaws. So..many women on here try to pretend to be what so many of you guys seem to want. Perfect....and that in itself is not honest. None of us are perfect.

She will live up to that as long as she can, always wondering what is wrong with her, why she is not good enough, and then finally falling apart and the drama starts. So...are there any real women? Why yes, we are here.  :) Just saying.