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| I'm a SWF, tall, thick and curvy. I'm fairly new to all of this. I'm inquisitive, creative, driven by emotions and always love to serve since I was a child. I'm looking for patient man that is head of the household, very attentive and involved in his sub/slave's life and one that is into domestic discipline. I'd like to be able to do vanilla things with him and have a very intimate relationship.
I'm drawn toward tall & muscular men, BBC, Alpha men; intelligent, in control of their emotions, leaders, guides, and kind spirits. The mental aspect is a huge piece of this dynamic. Grab my mind and my body will follow. I realize the huge responsibility a Dom carries and therefore am very selective with whom I choose. I will test you in the beginning to see if you're a man of your word.
**The attraction and chemistry have to be there so please be able to exchange face and body pics. **
I don't host, drink or smoke.
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I borrowed this:
1).Good Girl spankings are used to reward the woman’s good behavior. He may verbally call his woman a “good girl” whilst spanking her. Such verbal affirmation, allows the woman to surrender her femininity during the interplay of their masculine and feminine energies. Since the woman has been good and deserving of such attentions, she will experience her man’s authority whilst she is in a highly positive, loving and submissive frame of mind. By verbally telling his woman that she is a “good girl” during her spanking, its honoring the woman’s natural submission.
2).Erotic Spankings are usually used as sexual foreplay. They can also be used during sex to heighten the intensity of the woman’s orgasm.
3) Stress Relief spankings are implemented when the woman is stressed. The woman need not have done anything wrong but may be on the edge of misbehaving by losing her temper. The spanking not only alleviates her stress, but it also prevents her from receiving a Punishment Spanking caused by argumentative behavior or other negative moods from building up.
4) Introductory Discipline is usually a spanking which is administered only once or twice at the very beginning of a DD relationship. It is the first spanking a man gives his woman. Introductory Discipline is very important since it allows the man to see how her bottom responds to the various implements and degrees of severity. It's to see if her bottom will easily bruise, welt, or if the skin breaks easily. It's an ideal time for the man to iron out any kinks, so that when the woman is spanked for punishment, the process should go smoothly. She will be able to practice at submissively maintaining her position without clenching, twisting, blocking or kicking.
5) Pre-emptive Discipline is given as a preventative measure to ensure that the woman does not misbehave in a given situation. Such a method is usually reserved for occasions where the woman has a repeated history of committing the same offense. If we take the example of overspending at the mall, he gives her a pre-emptive spanking before she embarks on her shopping spree. This is to help and remind her to keep within her household budget and expenditure. They are very beneficial to the woman, since it takes the woman out of a neutral situation (she has committed no offense) into a highly positive one. Such spankings positively reinforce the message for the woman to continually behave in an appropriate way by not repeating the same negative pattern of behavior.
6) Submission Spankings are also known as “just because” spankings. The woman will receive a spanking for no particular reason. This will leave her with no doubt that she is subject to his authority.
7) Maintenance Discipline is the second most important disciplinary method - second only to Punishment Spanking. Maintenance Disciplinary spankings help to “maintain” a good behavior and attitude. For Maintenance Discipline to be effective it is important for the him to establish a regular Maintenance Discipline session. Maintenance Discipline is highly beneficial since it is conducted when the woman has committed no punishable offense. Thereby, the woman is in a neutral frame of mind and from this neutral frame of mind the woman is elevated to a more positive and loving frame of mind and heart. The regular use of Maintenance spankings is extremely effective at reducing the need for Punishment Spankings. If the he finds that he has to frequently administer Punishment Spankings, then by increasing the administration of Maintenance Discipline, the need for punishing his woman will drop considerably. Some women have Maintenance Discipline once a week, whilst others have it applied daily (or even every morning and night). If a woman’s behavior or attitude gets progressively better, then Maintenance Discipline could be applied less frequently. If her behavior or attitude gets progressively worse then more Maintenance Discipline is required. Reducing the use of regular Maintenance Discipline requires a dramatic improvement in both the woman’s behavior and attitude. Even if the woman has not committed any punishable offenses but has a negative attitude, then the frequent use of Maintenance Discipline will help keep her in a more feminine, gentle and submissive frame of mind. The two most important things for him to remember are to try and set aside a regular time, so that the woman is routinely disciplined at the same time and day. If he is lax in his routine of applying Maintenance Discipline then the woman’s behavior will probably worsen. A woman needs to feel secure through his consistency and determination. Without the consistency of a regular set time for her Maintenance Discipline, the woman may start to doubt his resolve and may feel emotionally abandoned by him.
8) Punishment Spankings are implemented for the purpose of modifying a woman’s misbehavior. The three most common areas of misbehavior are “Disobedience” “Dishonesty” and “Disrespect.” Punishment Spankings are quite different to the other spankings mentioned above, since here the woman is taken from a negative situation and brought back into a neutral one. He will bring down to his level. The main purpose of a Punishment Spanking is for the woman to reach remorse and contrition by means of a “Tearful Discipline.” This is generally achieved by both humiliation and a severe spanking which will leave her crying very hard. She will feel in no doubt that she is subjected to her man’s authority where she will feel completely protected, loved and safe. The emotional intensity and profound reconnection AFTER the Punishment Spanking results in a deeper bonding and closeness.
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Off today. Looking for room shares & apartments. |
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