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I am currently looking for someone who is confident, caring, calm, and sane but also strict and demanding that I can grow with. I am not looking for online, couples, or play.
I want marriage.
Ive had several play partners and 2 serious Dom throughout the years, but Ive had vanilla also, which didnt work out much.
Please dont send me pictures of toy collections or you genitals, I know what toys and genitals look like.
Be respectful when you message me. We are not in a relationship, we have not conducted negotiations, and really when you start out trying to degrade me you just show how green you really are.
Third, no I am not just looking for sex or play. This lifestyle is more than that.
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After a year of being with a great Master I am back again due to situations out of our control. But I am not losing hope. I know it is possible to find happiness and an actual relationship here. Might have to dig through a lot of fakes and time wasters but, I've got my shovel and ready to dug. |
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Sitting at Victor's in down town Florence enjoying a lovely Crème brûlée |
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Happiness can come in many forms. Sometimes it's a nice fuck or a good book. Today it comes in the form of a good pot of tea and a quiche. |
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Right now looking for like minded people in SA to hang out with while my vanilla friends are at work. |
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Off to San Antonio Texas to thaw out for a bit lol be back to Alaska in April. |
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Thinking of doing a pin up calender for 2015, any thoughts? |
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Back to the Land of the Midnight sun again. Catch you all latter. |
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One of my top questions that I absolutely hate is,' So, tell me about yourself. ' I mean really, come on. I'm 25 years old there are a lot of things that make up 'myself '. So what you're really asking with your little 5 word question is. "So sum up your experiences and phylogeny in a few sentences or paragraphs." Why not ask more specific question? Like, what do you like to do when you're out at a club? Have you been to the local dungeon/BDSM club? What are some of your favorite bands? These questions are more simple to answer and a lot more fair. |
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Looking to buy cheap Batman comic books. They don't have to be in the best shape(I.e. they can have missing or torn pages) just not have any water, smoke, fire, or anything else that would affect a large amount of the pictures. |
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Don't get mad if you give me your contact info (without me asking) and I don't feel obligated to give you mine. You're the one that jumped the gun not me. I don't just give out my info like that unless I either a. Know you in real life, or b. We have been talking on here for a while. I shouldn't have to explain this but resent evens have compelled me to. Use common sense people! |
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So, it's official I will be in Florida March 23rd threw March 29th. If, I have talked to you about meeting massage me and we can figure out something. |
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Okay,I don't wan to make a habit of this but, I just had to say something about this one. First I must say that this is the first time this "dom' has ever contacted me, EVER. I wish I could say who this was but, CM doesn't allow this . Though is you your curious hes 48 years old, lives in Sarasota,FL , and has no picture. His first and as of yet only message to me is a horribly written 'your fat bitch'. No punctuation, capitalization, and the misuse of the word 'your' (the proper term would be you're, as in you are). I mean come on, what was he hopping to accomplish by sending me this? Was I supposed to say something like 'You're right, I'm fat. Please, bless me with the opportunity to suck your cock.' ( note: I would NEVER say something like that to a twat like him). The most hiliarious thing is that his profile states 'My Ideal Women: My ideal friend would be a lady who is happy and comfortable with her self. Who desires to be applauded and appreciated for the gifts that she givesand gets.' apparently he doesn't. He just wants to bully women on the internet , how sad. Well, that's the end of my rant for now. Will write again soon.
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As I read some of these profiles and all that comes to mind is a line from game of thrones. Any man who must say, "I am the king" is no true king. You may ask " Alice, how does that pertain to this site, are guys on here saying their kings?" My dear inquisitor, it's simple. If you have to put things in your profile stating that you're "a 100% Alfa male", "dom to the core", " always in charge" etc. 2 or more times (one guy felt the need to use such phrases 12 times in his profile) then you are no dom. Now I do understand if you have a disclaimer stating that you are dominant and have no interest in subbing at all. That's okay, since some people don't care what you're looking for or what orientation you give (both sexuality and role). With that said if you have to keep repeating the supposed fact that you're dominant, probably means your not or just like Joffery you're prone to fits of rage, tantrums, and/or homicidal thoughts/ actions. In the end they're probably not the man for me and I too intelligent for them. |
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This is an article I think many subs/slaves on here need to read.
For a submissive female, finding an appropriate dominant partner is something that should be approached with a great deal of thought. Just because a man is dominant does not mean he will make a good dominant for every submissive. Just as in a vanilla relationship, there are many different kinds of relationships within a power relationship. There are several things a submissive needs to look for in a potential dominant.. But before doing that, she needs to first look inside of herself and decide what she wants and needs from such a relationship. Is being in love with her dominant an important part of the relationship she seeks? Does she want to be a submissive to a dominant or a slave to a master? These are only a couple of the questions a submissive must ask herself before entering into a relationship with a dominant.
After asking herself these questions, a submissive needs to then ask her potential dominant the following questions to see if they would make a good pair. Doing this can make the difference in life and death in some cases. Safety should always be foremost in a submissive's mind when seeking a dominant partner.
Is he looking for a short term or a long term relationship? D/s relationships can be anything from occasional play partners to committed lifetime partnerships. It is very important that a submissive is looking for the same kind of relationship as her potential dom.
Is he looking for a mono or poly relationship? If he is looking for a poly relationship, will it be one in which he expects his submissives to be intimate with one another? This is important to know before committing, because it will save a submissive a lot of heartache down the road.
Casey was thrilled when she agreed to be a slave to Master Jay. But she made the mistake of not asking enough questions during the intial session with him. She was swept away by his charm, his confidence, and the control which she so desperately sought. After several months of happily serving him, Master Jay told Casey that he was bringing another slave into the relationship. Casey was devastated, and even more devastated to learn that this had been his intention all along. A lack of communication between Casey and Master Jay had placed her in this horrible situation. By now, she felt totally his, and the thought of leaving him was not even a thought in her mind. So she stayed and endured the poly relationship that she had no desire for...crying herself to sleep each night.
What aspects of the scene is a potential dominant into? Again, this is very important to know, because there are so many aspects to the lifestyle. There is bondage, spanking, whipping, nipple torture, golden showers, anal play, sharing, performing, humiliation, objectification, wax play, knife play, mental/emotional control. There are some dominants who are into very taboo areas such as incest and bestiality, and this is why it is very important to set boundaries and ask questions before committing to a dominant. Otherwise, a submissive may find herself in a very difficult position down the road in which she is made to compromise her values or say goodbye to a Master she has grown to love.
Is the potential dominant sadistic? This is an important question to ask because if a submissive ends up with a sadistic dominant and she is not masochistic, it is going to be a very difficult road. The submissive will only fear her Master, and the trust will not develop as it should.
Another important reason for finding out if a dominant is sadistic is so that the submissive can explore the reasons why he is into giving pain to his submissives. There are some dominants who only play at being dominants. They wear the mask, but are only abusers searching for easy prey. They use their submissives as punching bags and they give pain because they are cruel, administered when they are angry and out of control. They prey on submissives who have very low self esteem, thinking they deserve no better.
There are other dominants, though, who are into sadism, but they are able to administer the pain showing the utmost control. Their reasons are of a different nature. They enjoy administering the pain, but do it as a means of helping the submissive release her inner pain that she holds onto. The dominant takes the pain only as far as the submissive will allow, encouraging her to use a safe word.A safe word is a word that has been predetermined by the submissive and her dom. It is a word that she will use if a scene gets too intense for her and she wishes to stop. It is usually a neutral word (such as apple or car)...nothing that could be mistaken as a part of the scene itself. The dominant will immediately stop the scene when the submissive uses her safe word. Very often when the pain threshold is reached, the submissive will be in tears. A true, loving dominant will embrace these tears and tenderly hold his submissive, encouraging her to let them flow.
Will the dominant require the submissive to sign a contract? A contract is a document that is drawn up by the dominant, stating the terms and conditions of the relationship. It may include such things as responsibilities of both dom and submissive, rules, infractions, punishments for infractions, reasons for dismissal, duties, expectations, and length of time the submissive will serve. Not all dominants desire contracts, believing that they serve little purpose in a true D/s relationship. Other dominants do want contracts, believing it will make the submissive feel safe to know exactly what her boundaries and limitations are...and also to know that the dominant has responsibilities he must adhere to as well.
Regardless of whether there is a written contract or not, it is important for the submissive to discuss these things with the dominant. That way she is entering into the relationship with her eyes wide open to all of the possibilities.
Is the dominant looking for a slave or a submissive? Although the two terms are sometimes interchanged, they have very different meanings. A slave is submissive, but a submissive is not necessarily a slave.
A submissive gives up control, but has more of a say in when she does. She has more of a voice in the relationship. When the dominant tells her to do something and she isn't comfortable, she has the choice to opt out.
A slave has no control. A slave is owned property who obeys...period. She may respectfully discuss and share her feelings with her Master,but he makes the final decision, and she must abide by it. If she doesn't ,then she is dealt with harshly.
There is much a submissive must consider in choosing a dominant. It is very easy for a submissive to get swept away under a dom's control without asking the important questions first. But by asking the questions, she will be saving herself a lot of heartache down the road. She will also increase the odds that she will be entering into a relationship that is safe and consensual in every aspect.
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Woot! Finally coming back to Florida for Thanksgiving week! |
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I'm in Alaska at my job. Union and new company are fighting out new terms of employment. So, I'm kinda a hostage right now at work. I don't know when I'll be back to Florida until the union and company agrees on a rotation. |
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I am planning on starting to induce lactation (breast milk). Now before anyone gets any ideas I'm not doing this for play (or kink). This originally started as a experiment just to see if I can do it. Mostly because I've had some "Doms" on here say they wanted to make me into a "milk maid"(the most PG of the terms I've herd) but, they insist that I have to get pregnant to do this (some have out right said I'd have to give up the
child because they don't want children) . So I did abit of research and provided links to programs I could do WITHOUT getting pregnant ( some got pissed and some where grateful) . I decided after reading a few stories that I wanted to see if I could do it. Then my sister told me she was pregnant again. Her first child she was.not able to produce enough milk to feed my niece. I am now doing this to hopefully help my sister. I will be posting updates in my progress about ounce a week. |
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Okay this one guy's pissing me off hes saying that I stole my pictures from some chick with a web cam. I do no steal at all let alone pictures. I have the originals showing more background. I just don't want to everyone to see my bathroom (that's where I took both pictures and my bathroom is decorated for my niece. Think princess, cute for a 3 year old not that sexy though. |
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Currently in Alaska now. Will be back in November. |
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Okay finally joined but I am totally lost on there. So if any one could give help and advice on how to find "munchies" or groups please feel free to send a message. |
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I don't know why but I've been getting alot of blank messages. Is that normal? |
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| Age: 21 |
| Dundee,
United Kingdom |
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