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| I am looking for something very specific, with extremely exacting standards. I doubt that I am going to find it, but if you don’t try, you’re absolutely never going to find it. So here it goes.
I am looking for a mate, someone that I have a deep, unrelenting connection with. Someone that just gets me for who I am and doesn’t want to make me fit into some perfect little mold of what they want me to be or what they think I should be. You have to like me for me.
The things that really matter to me in a mate: 1) A desire to better oneself and not thinking that this was the lot you were given in life so I’m just going to stick to it. 2) An ability to communicate honestly and openly. 3) A desire to want to spend time with me, however also wanting time apart as well. 4) Ideally I’d like you to be somewhere in the metro Detroit/Ann Arbor Area.
What I think makes me a good match: 1) I have a Bachelor’s Degree in Electronic Media and Film studies, and hold a full time job. I am also currently taking classes towards a second degree. 2) A kind and loving heart that is wanting to be friends with you and also wanting to fall in love with you. 3) An extremely fun loving and adventurous spirit.
I am looking for someone who is not intimidated by the fact that I am poly, and that I currently have a mommy, daddy and play partner. I want them to accept these facts for what they are and possibly meet the other people that I am with.
I need someone who I can introduce to my Vanilla Family, My Vanilla Friends, and my vanilla life in general. Preferably someone who shares my vanilla interests like gaming, reading, and writing.
I don’t want someone that wants to be my Dom right off the bat. I’m sorry I already have that base covered for the time being and it takes a certain level of trust for me to be at the point where I am that comfortable with you. Don’t get me wrong, I am all down with exploring my kinky side with you and doing fun stuff in the bedroom. However there would be no TPE, at this point in my life I have dedicated that side of me to someone else. I just want you to know this ahead of time. I don’t want to get 10 minutes into a conversation with you and then have to let you down because that is what you want. It is not something I am ready for yet. I just need you know that the Bedroom is the bedroom, what happens in there stays in there.
In summery I am looking for someone that can be my lover. Someone that I can stand with and be by through all times, and that is supportive of the lifestyle. Someone who is not afraid to tie me up in the bedroom, and also not afraid to just have a good time. I really want someone who I can live my life with and in all honesty EVENTUALLY have children with. I don’t want you for sex, I want you for an emotional connection and commitment. Although Sex doesn’t hurt in the least. I truly want someone to be with. If I just wanted sex with you there are about 100 different avenues I could go down.
If you have any questions, or would like to apply for the position please let me know.
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