Collarspace.com

Right now, I'd like to make some friends--just to write/talk. I figure that first line will probably stop 99% of men right there, but maybe someone will continue reading and be kind enough to lend his thoughts and listen to mine. I have submissive fantasies that I've never acted upon. (Well, there was one time--but it went badly quickly and that was that. Should have been sufficient to cure my curiosity. Wasn't.) There's a lot I don't know, however... whether I'm normal, whether the things I fantasize about actually exist in this context, etc. It's hard to find answers, and it's not the sort of thing you just bring up in random conversation with your friends over lunch. About Me: I'm not submissive at all in daily life; in fact, I'm actually quite independent and confidant, and have no desire to clean anyone's house but my own. :) (Unfortunately, my demeanor seems to attract rather submissive men to me, and this presents a bit of a problem.) I'm bright, emotionally healthy, and in general rather happy with my life. In other words, things look very "normal," and for the most part, they are. I don't really want to change that. But still.. there's a party of me that remains entirely undefined and unexplored, and I suppose writing this profile is my first actual attempt at following my curiosity. I'm hoping to find someone on here who's a good communicator, intelligent and articulate, and who's put some thought into why he is who he is, and why he does what he does. I've noticed that submissives on here tend to write with a lot of deference, but I can't do that just yet. I don't know you. I'm feeling pretty timid about all of this right now and am not willing to release a photo right away. I realize that in the online world, that's asking a great deal--desiring a meaningful communication with someone while withholding the usual exchanges. But perhaps if you've read this far and are looking for a friend (or are just bored?) you might consider dropping a line.
12/20/2008 10:15:50 PM
Well, this has been interesting.  I don't think I was quite prepared for the diversity of response on a site like this, never having tried one before.  A couple people have been very thoughtful/kind in offering their insight.  A few words to maybe save others some time:
1) "You will call me Master."  No, I won't.  I don't know anything about you, you don't know anything about me.  I can't imagine that people enter into relationships, even friendships, like that.  But if some women do, well--I'm not one of them. 
2) --Insert Random Threatening Phrases Here--  There's no point to that, and I've stopped reading them.  The delete key is my friend.

V/R
Ali
MDsslavekaren
 
 Age: 31
 Escanaba, Michigan