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AlfredKinsey

My temperament is somewhat unnerving for most. I am quite calm, and analytical. I do tend to get excited over certain things, usually music, or a correlated epiphany of some extravagant dilemma I've been meditating over. I've always been dominant, even as a child I was never accepting of directions that I didn't believe would benefit me in some facet of expanding my knowledge base. I'm thoughtful, caring, attentive, and stern. My thoughts are eccentrically random, and potently excessive. *** at no point is it okay to tell me "you're thinking to much into", or "you think too much" about anything! I cannot stress this approach enough... If I appear to be "thinking too much", or offering an analysis too deep for you, perhaps it isn't I who thinks too much. When given a gift, we should never squander it on the thoughts of others acceptance. No matter how lonely we may become, natural abilities should never be neglected for the randomness of people. We should always hope to be accepted as we are, loved for what we may become, and respected for however we get to/have gotten wherever we are going. There is a romantic chaos to our existence, and no matter if you approach it through spirituality, evolution, or just plain faithful curiousity... You're here, and that took some time (to put it lightly), to deny the natural course of your existence, or any things that make themselves prominent in who you are, is just unfortunate. My ability to understand, and educate others, on a social/psychological front, is something that has resulted in a very interesting life course. Before I realized that I was perhaps well mannered for BDSM, I had an intrinsic battle with myself. Relationships went well for quite some time, but ultimately, ended with the confidence of my lost love being vastly improved from the girl I had met, and my personality and approach left to question. I on most occasions, received the infamous line "you're just too pushy", or "why are you so demanding". My ability to be a sadist, for the masochist in need, should never be mistaken for a desire to be sadistic. I don't care how books or movies made BDSM look, Grey's approach is a poor one, and it merely represents a weak man, with a desire to beat a girl, who is too ignorant and awe struck, to realize he's just a coward with a temper. Please do not tell me your romanticism of "50 shades of bullshit". By the way, humans can only perceive (about) 30 shades on the greyscale, I don't know where the other 20 come from, but they certainly don't exist on any corporeal level of perception. That being said, you may not be a witness to all of the 30 perceivable, age, ability (eyesight), and anything from time of day (lighting), are factors that dramatically shift these perceptions. My thoughts, read some Descartes, not fictional romance novels, about nasty little boys. Moving on... I am sure that any female, who is submissive in nature, or curious about her desires, having adequate intellect, will find my message here to be inriguing. For those who reach this point, and feel any of the prior mentioned "***" areas to be confusing, or deniable... You've likely found someone you won't appreciate, and for that, I think I've helped save us both a bit of time. :) For those interested, I am very approachable, and love to talk with new and interesting people. Feel free to strike up a conversation, or ask for my advice/help with anything you think it's possible I can help you with. Chances are, if I have no experience, I will be grateful for the ability to learn and grow with you. I am nit against good conversation, nor do I put a gender bias on its source. That doesn't mean I am not heterosexual, I am about as straight as a laser, but don't let that detour you from asking for help, if you think I am able. You never know until you know, everything before that, is educational. Looking forward to meeting some new and interesting people... 100% Dominant 96% Bondage Giver 84% Master 78% Brat Tamer 63% Experimentalist 59% Sadist 47% Primal 41% Voyeur 19% Pervert 0% All-Rounder 0% Brat 0% Degradation Receiver 0% Masochist 0% Submissive 0% Switch
sexymonique
 
 Age: 49
  Connecticut