Let me tell you what one of the most difficult things a Male dominant does when it comes to meeting a female submissive.
First contact. (via electronic media at least)
This is always hard, but it's especially nerve wracking here. If you're too polite? You're afraid you're being looked at as spineless. Being too direct makes you seems like a stalker or just outright delusional. Being complimentary can be easily seen as being a creeper or as a wet noodle...or both. However if you're none of those things? You worry that you're not interesting enough to grab a woman's attention. |