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| How lovely that you're on my profile.
My name is Alexander, I enjoy the extremities of life, exploring the deepest feelings, psychologically and physically, of being in connection with someone.
Infinite desires burn my heart, many of them sexually charged. I don't live for sex, but I do come alive in it.
Just recently I've moved from Amsterdam to London and I thought this would make for the perfect moment to put some more focus on the cultivation of my sexual tendencies. Although I have been experimenting for years and have several memories that still make me shiver, I have mostly suppressed my urges by fervent studying and working (in the arts and philosophy). But although this is an ardent part of my life, it's not all of it. And I want it all, I won't do for any less. That's why I now want to embrace what my body keeps telling me each day.
What I'm looking for here is to meet people, different kinds of people, for different purposes, but all in the light of my pursuit. I'm looking for someone to have a coffee or a beer with and talk, but also for someone who can show me (or go together to) fetish clubs in the area, or even further if the inclination arises.
What makes it more difficult though, is that I'm on neither side, but on both. I've experienced that many people don't know how to place and handle that and hence say they don't believe or want it, but I can only sincerely say that I am most truly one of either, depending on my mood and our common spirit in the moment.
It'd be lovely if you send me a message. Don't keep me online for hundreds of emails though, I'm not a fan of that, I prefer living and connecting up and close in person.
Alexander
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They say life is meaningful by shaping it,
but when this is my daily natural doing,
who could meaningfully give shape to me.
Life is just lovely, but ...
Philosophical talking, romantic reading, fine dining and drinking, and beautiful arts. So many things to enjoy, and I do very much enjoy them, but still it's 'just not all'.
My collar isn't a locked iron, it's a buttoned-up-high shirt. And subsequently, it's not a sign of submission, but of elegance and dominance and keeps people at safe distance and actually makes it possible for me to lay my law upon the world around me. All so simple. But slowly I'm discovering I want someone to break through those boundaries. Someone who's bright enough to get close.
Next to that I'd like to get to know more people who share an bdsm interest who I can talk with and maybe visit nice places together with - I'm looking for a dominant girl/woman, who is able to psychologically and emotionally (the physical will follow) be dominant over me. A woman who is smart and spontaneous, cultured and raved, strong and cute, sweet and rough, kinky and elegant. What an inhumanly ideal I have in mind, I know, but why should I do for less? Because, I would love to learn to submit, serve and please, but I think that only with a woman who is truly dominant is spirit I can be submissive, give in and let go. For now I can just dream about that wonderful prospect of tranquility and peacefulness, when someone else lays down the law for me. But maybe you're that one who can make this reality? If so, I would heartily have the honor to be with you.
I'm a young man, 25 years of age, from Amsterdam. I'm quite inexperienced as a sub still. I've done some experimenting which were already lovely, but haven't met the right woman to go further. Also I've explored my dominant side, which does and will always exist, but I found that this can express itself satisfactory in my professional life (or play), but in a relationship my submissiveness is just natural (though I'm very lively and will also gladly take you by the hand outdoors).
I'm looking to meet people here, to talk with about experiences and fantasies, maybe people to get to know to combine this with some fun times (a drink, concert, or visit a fetish party), maybe someone to explore with, or maybe someone for a more serious relation.
Who ever you are, I'm always honored to get to know you. And possibly any of these things, fun or intimate, could be. |
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| Age: 29 |
| Honolulu,
Hawaii |
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