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Pan Female Dominant, 37,  Australia, Australia
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DahliaBlack Dragon61

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Fetish/BDSM - Live it, Breath it, Love it,

Lifestyler 24/7 and Professional Dominatrix

Originally from New Zealand I moved to Melbourne eight years ago to continue my training as a Professional Dominatrix.

I completed a traineeship at the Correction Centre, was mentored by some of Melbourne's best Mistresses and attended many detailed workshops run by local, national and international highly skilled and experienced presenters.

BDSM and Fetish is my only vocation and many of my interests revolve around it.

Latex, many forms of bondage and intense medical play are areas I mostly specialise in although I am open minded to many different styles of session. Role play, pure domination and discipline/corporal punishment sessions are also favourites. I very much enjoy meeting with a submissive/slave in person and forming an ongoing connection that becomes even more intense and enjoyable over time. I am continuously changing and evolving. If you wish to join me on my journey or just try something new, do contact me via here or my domination site.

I conduct most sessions in Collingwood, Melbourne.

Until recently I've been based only in Melbourne but as of mid 2012 I will be travelling interstate between Melbourne and Adelaide, throughout Australia and also to New Zealand on a semi-regular basis.

I'm easy to find and follow on Twitter, Fettle, Facebook and Instagram

I also love Shibari and have profiles under the name of Harumitsu (Fet) and Harumitsu_rope (Instagram)

Live it, Breathe it, Love it .... Alex Vicia

I am also a lifestyler and in a 24/7 D/s relationship. I have one full time personal slave who caters to my needs. If you are male and seeking a lifestyle relationship do not bother me as there is an abundance of mistresses out there if you look on the many websites available. I will only see you on a professional level.

I do have time for a part time female slave and rope models in my personal life. If you are interested in applying for this position then don't hesitate to contact me.











Last Online:


 Dominant Female



 5' 6"

 143 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Transgender

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Switch Women

Switch Men

Sub/Sub Couples

Femdom Couples

 Lives For:


 Bondage (Expert)

 Genital Punishment (Expert)

 Hoods (Expert)

 Medical Play (Expert)

 Rubber Fetish (Expert)

 Shibari  (Expert)

 Suspension Bondage (Expert)

 Uniforms (Expert)

 Role Playing Games (Expert)

 Female Supremacy



 Amusement Parks

 Fine Dining

 Going to the Opera

 Musical Theater



 Cane / Crop Discipline (Expert)

 Collars (Expert)

 Corsets (Expert)

 Diapers (Expert)

 Dilation (Expert)

 Electrical Play (Expert)

 Eye Contact Restrictions (Expert)

 Local BDSM Community

 Fisting (Expert)


 Gas Masks

 Masks (Wearing)

 Masks on Partner (Expert)

 Mental Bondage

 Needle Play (Expert)

 Obedience Training


 Orgasm Control

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Plastic Wrap Bondage (Expert)

 Role Playing (Expert)

 Sensory Deprivation

 Spanking (Expert)

 Stockings (Expert)

 Theatrical Scenes


 Wax Play


 TV News

 Meditation (Beginner)

 Tattoos (Expert)

 Lifestyle BDSM


 Classical Music

 Electronica / EDM

 Opera Music


 Art Galleries


 Flea Markets




 Pilates (Beginner)



 Anal Play (Expert)


 Crossdressing (Expert)

 Enemas (Expert)

 Being Massaged

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Fire Play (Beginner)

 Foot Worship (Expert)

 Hair Pulling

 Humiliation / Degradation

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Speech Restrictions

 Strap-Ons (Expert)

 Watersports (Expert)

 Online Chatrooms

 Old Guard (Beginner)

 Agnosticism (Beginner)


 Curious About:

 Outdoor Bondage (Beginner)

 Public Play  (Beginner)

 Vacuum Stimulation (Beginner)

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Journal Entries:
2/6/2018 7:28:03 PM
I'll Be back in Adelaide this weekend.

The Fetish Palace is where I'll be conducting sessions. 

5/7/2017 3:53:31 PM
I have a new website.

It's easy on the eye and simple to navigate.

We're still ironing out a few creases but it's ready for a look!



4/11/2016 4:37:55 PM
I'm heading back to Adelaide on the 9th of December 2016. I'll be available on Friday and Saturday for appointments at The Fetish Palace. is where to look for more information.

Alex Vicia 

7/20/2015 7:42:04 PM
Adelaide this week!

I'll be at The Fetish Palace and have some times available Thursday and Friday afternoon and Saturday between 2pm and 4pm.

Find my website if you wish to discuss meeting. 

Alex Vicia 

5/3/2014 3:35:29 PM
New flights are booked for Adelaide. Thursday 15th -Sunday 18th May. 2014 See you soon! Alex

7/15/2013 12:47:09 AM

Adelaide flights have been booked and I will be arriving on Friday the 6th of September and departing on Sunday the 8th. I will be happy to book in Friday and Saturday appointments from ten in the morning until eight in the evening.  Sunday appointments are possible if a non refundable pre-payment is deposited into an account. Please contact me if this appeals to you.

I prefer to take email confirmed bookings in advance but also happy to run session between booked appointments on a first in first served basis.

Alex Vicia

6/18/2013 4:42:08 PM
Flights are booked and I will be arriving in Adelaide on Saturday the 29th of June ... Next week. I've had plenty of calls and emails from Adelaide asking for a visit so don't miss out! Alex Vicia

11/8/2012 1:42:19 PM

I will be in Adelaide and available by appointment on the 15th and 16th of November.


10/29/2012 1:45:59 PM

I am back in Melbourne after a week home in New Zealand to catch up with family and friends.


I look forward to seeing both familiar and new faces.



7/7/2012 2:24:31 PM
A nice getaway to NZ is just what I needed. It's a little cool but I don't think much cooler than Melbourne from what I have been experiencing this winter. Fresh air, a nice warm hotel room and free range bacon and eggs for breakfast is whats going on this morning before slave and I head back to Christchurch. Good morning!

6/25/2012 9:52:56 PM

My next Adelaide trip has been dated and flights are booked!

I arrive on the evening of Thursday the 26th of July and will be available for

appointments From Friday the 27th and will be taking my last appointment on

Monday July 30th at 1pm.

I do prefer pre-organised session so feel free to contact me any time between now and then to discuss your needs.

Alex Vicia

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