There  just isn't enough hours in the day, so here is an update currently with out submissive and I am now looking, applications go via my web site which is free.

I now organise the local Central Coast NSW Munches and soon Kink Club which is a book club based around kink books and films with an online forum on .

I am starting to become quite proactive with in the comunity. And hopefully it will wash off on others and we may get a central coast scene fingers crossed now.

I hate time waster's infact if you are hear to waste my time please move on. Now I am off to Melbourne in mid January 2011 for two weeks. I am looking forward to catch up with new and old friends.

I do not wish for Submissives to throw themselves at me. I find it quite repulsive, and disrepectful not to me but to themselves. D/s relationships are built on trust and have to be earned by both parties.


As for me I am extremely picky due to my practices in BDSM. It is quite personal and intence. For not just me but for those who serve me.

I have stated in my profile that I have been practising Witch for a number of year.

When practising BDSM I tend to do it on a higher level it can be extremely dangerous not only for the submissive but also for myself.

This is why I do NOT EVER take some one into my service with out establishing the true intesions.

I am not on here looking for a lover. I am a Traditional Mistress.

I am looking for submissive who would like to open their minds and explore a deeper understanding of BDSM

This friday I am off to my beloved Melbourne... for a spot of shopping and a little BDSM play... So for those of you I have spoken too from my beloved Melbourne are interested in meeting me in the flesh please let me know so I may arrange something.

Just a thought: Society looks at this life style as a residential evil satanic worshiping, and other's a away to forget their troubles. Very few people know the true meaning of what this lifestyle is about. I am drawn to it energy the way it mixes the past and the future. Helps us over come fears so that we may imbrace it and have it pass through us. Not allow it to dictate us. Pain a concept so many submissives embrace, so many others fear; it is something that should not be feared but embraced. For it is the essence of life for pain allows us to suffer and suffering humbles us and allows us to grow spirtually, emotionally, and physically. We who are true to our selves and this lifestyle know the beauty in a single look. We are all interconnected like lego but not everyone chooses to embrace and feel the connection.

I am finding it hard here on collar me; to find a suitable boi or girl. I scan through these profiles when I am online and it saddens me. I and many like me have worked hard to gain certain skills in the art of Domination. BDSM is not a game, it’s a lifestyle. Yet I scan through so many profiles of such young people stating to be Dominant and not knowing the true meaning of BDSM it is so displeasing. I do not want boi’s or girls who have no idea what BDSM is and are not prepared to give 100%. BDSM IS NOT PURELY ABOUT SEX. I have had professional training I am not going to boast about my talents and skills as a Mistress. I have worked hard to get where I am in the scene and do not want to be messed around by AMATEURS  and people who have issues and want them sorted out.