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Hetero Male Master, 56,  Salem, Oregon
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Aivehn

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Life is an adventure!

It should be lived as such.





I am the Captain of the ship of my life! Whether I chart a course to a specific destination, or let the winds and tides carry me wherever they will, the choice is mine. Or, in this case, the choice to run with this metaphor... )



As Captain of this ship, I am the dominant figure aboard. This does not mean I rule with an iron fist. I am generally considerate of others, though I do not submit to others. I have, however, occasionally met those whom I respect and trust enough to follow their lead for a mission or two. I have self-identified as a switch on occasion, but have realized that I tend toward dominant without the sadistic connotations. I am not a cruel man, though I do not spare the lash or strap when needed. For those who enjoy any sensual pursuit, I can dish it out and serve it up to them. Pain or pleasure, hard steel or soft leather, bindings of rope and leather might be softened with silk or fur, all this and more is available aboard.



The ship of my life includes a First Mate My Wife. We are both open and honest in all our communications, and in all our relationships.She gives me good council in all things, knows she is my submissive in our intimate times (at the least), and is happy knowing that I take charge when needed. Yet, she happily takes charge when she is working in her comfort zone.We are laid back and drama free by nature, and choose to avoid those who have excessive drama in their lives.



On the good ship HMS Dramafree, there is much fun to be had. There is room for at least one more crew member, somebody to help us keep everything ship shaped and Bristol fashion as we head out for our next adventure. My crew is my family, and my family is my crew, and all are my friends as well.



My wife and I are polyamorously inclined, with connections to a few other couples, and select singles, whom we cherish. Thus we share an open minded consideration of all possibilities in our relationships. While our spicy friends are not (yet?) permanent crew, they are often guests aboard our ship. Yet we are neither indiscriminate nor indiscreet. We strive to becomes friends first and foremost, and then let the relationships develop naturally.





Seeking Potential Cabin Girl for Ship of Life



What brings me here is a search for a special addition a cabin girl to join our crew. Not just any cabin girl will do. Whether this would be full time or part time is an open question, depending on the needs and desires of the prospective cabin girl as well as myself and the existing crew. It may include anything from occasional time spent together, to a full time live in care giver for an ill family member living aboard. As with most things, there are many possibilities and many options.



My wife supports the goal of me finding a cabin girl, knowing that I always have the question, is this good for us? as my top priority. She also knows that such a question expands as more people come aboard our ship. When our friends cum aboard, they are family. Should we find a prospective cabin girl, she would be considered family, regardless of the role within the family. Thus, is this good for her? will be implicit within the top priority.



Whether or not the cabin girl will wear a collar or not is also an open question. The nature of each Ms and Ds relationship is unique. I am certain that an accord can be reached as we discover our mutual commonalities.



If any of this sounds good to you, if you think this is something you might be interested in, send me a message. If you have questions, ask them. If you feel a desire to comment, do it.




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 Aivehn

 Dominant Male

 Salem 

 Oregon

 5' 11"

 56

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 11/16/11

 02/28/21

Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Sub/Sub Couples

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 History (Expert)

 Intellectual Discourse (Expert)

 Polyamory (Expert)

 Atheism (Expert)

 Loves:

 Beachcombing

 Fine Dining

 Renaissance Faires

 Travel

 Camping

 Climbing

 Hiking

 Martial Arts

 Rafting (Beginner)

 Tai-Chi

 Walking

 Weightlifting

 Blindfolds

 Bondage

 Breast Play (Expert)

 Massage (Getting) (Expert)

 Board Games

 Cartoons

 Historical Shows (Expert)

 Role Playing Games (Expert)

 Science Fiction (Expert)

 Web Surfing (Expert)

 Drawing

 Photography

 Archaeology

 Astronomy (Expert)

 Libertarian Politics  (Expert)

 Philosophy (Expert)

 Blues

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Rock Music

 Reiki

 Taoism

 Likes:

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 Art Galleries (Beginner)

 Flea Markets

 Movies (Expert)

 Museums

 Musical Theater

 SCA

 Bicycling

 Dancing

 Horseback Riding (Beginner)

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 Yoga

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 Local BDSM Community (Beginner)

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 Sculpting (Beginner)

 Singing

 Biology

 Nutrition

 Physics

 Poetry (Beginner)

 Psychology

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 Lifestyle BDSM (Beginner)

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 Swinging

 Alternative Music

 Blue Grass

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 Heavy Metal Music

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 New Age Music

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 Gambling

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 Chess

 Cybering

 Horror Movies

 Online Chatrooms

 Conservative Politics

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 Folk Music

 Hip Hop Music

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 Bird Watching

 Sailing

 Scuba Diving

 Wind Surfing

 Body Worship

 Cages

 Collars

 Electrical Play (Beginner)

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Fire Play

 Gags

 Hypnosis

 Knife Play

 Masks (On Partner)

 Masks (Wearing)

 Medical Play

 Mental Bondage

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 Orgasm Denial

 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play

 Suspension

 Pottery

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 Blogging

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 Mathematics

 Nanotechnology

 Occultism

 Paranormal

 Political Activism

 Female Supremacy

 Gorean Lifestyle

 Feng Shui

 Kabbalah

 Dislikes:

 Going to the Opera

 Running

 Enemas

 Humiliation

 TV News

 TV Sports

 Nihilism

 Opera Music

 Catholicism

 Christianity

 Islam

 Mormonism

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 Genital Punishment

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