It has reached a point here on dear old CollarMe that I just don't want to log in any more.  It's worse than Craig's List.  Does anyone have manners any more?  Just because we're kinky doesn't mean we're excluded from the same general introductory behaviors that are expected in the 'nilla universe.

If you want to call your girl bitch/whore/cunt/slut/fuckmeat/GeorgeWBUSH after you've established a name-calling dynamic, knock yourself out.  I'm all for you following your bliss, but for Cthulu's sake, act like you grew up somewhere other than a barn when you write introductory messages.

I'm a human being. You're a human being (at least I hope so, but some days I have my doubts).   Why is it that D-types on here see the word "sub" and then suddenly turn into strutting bantam roosters?  I'm not YOUR sub until we form a D/s relationship.

If I ever meet an intelligent, well-spoken, polite D-type on this site, I may well go into full cardiac arrest.  Neanderthals need not apply, as they do not inspire submission in me.