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Hetero Male Master, 49,  Tampa, Florida
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Aggressivelyours

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 Aggressivelyours

 Dominant Male

 Tampa 

 Florida

 5' 10"

 150 lbs

 49

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 07/14/10

 06/05/15

Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Sub/Sub Couples

Femdom Couples

Friends Only

 Lives For:

 Breast Binding/Play (Expert)

 Hair Pulling

 Loves:

 Art Galleries

 Beachcombing

 Fishing

 Travel

 Bicycling

 Camping

 Rafting

 Scuba Diving

 Weightlifting

 Anal Play (Expert)

 Bondage

 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 Dilation

 Exhibitionism

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Massage (Giving)

 Orgasm Control

 Vibrators

 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows

 True Crime

 Gardening

 Photography

 Eighties Music

 Ice Hockey

 Paintball (Expert)

 Swimming (Expert)

 Volleyball

 Likes:

 Amusement Parks

 Antique Shows

 Clubbing

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales

 Movies

 Museums

 Renaissance Faires

 Climbing

 Horseback Riding

 Hunting

 Snorkeling

 Blindfolds

 Corner Time

 Enemas

 Fisting

 Humiliation

 Obedience Training

 Objectification

 Public Play

 Role Playing

 Sensory Deprivation

 Spanking

 Suspension

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Wax play

 Whips

 Board Games

 Chess

 Astrology

 Investing

 Online Auctions

 Pottery

 Archaeology

 History

 Intellectual Discourse

 Nutrition

 Paranormal

 Philosophy

 Psychology

 Writing

 Low Carb

 Old Guard

 Blues

 Classical Music

 Country Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Jazz

 Nineties Music

 Oldies

 Pop Music

 Rock Music

 Seventies Music

 Christianity

 Auto Racing

 Badminton

 Baseball

 Basketball

 Body Building

 Bowling

 Boxing

 Darts

 Football

 Golf

 Kick Boxing

 Skiing

 Snowboarding

 Soccer

 Tennis

 Tolerates:

 Musical Theater

 Shopping

 Skills:

 Construction Expert

 Woodworking Expert

The man I am is the perfect gentleman every where except my bedroom. I'm confidant, Smart and funny/witty, with personality and charm. {#} {#} My thinking is class, brains,open communication, loyalty, honesty and chemistry are {#}a vital ingredient's. {#} I'm Open minded and playful Seeking a playful sexual submissive,that enjoys their naughty side as much as I enjoy my Dom side , someone into mild to extremely wild and even taboo with the right chemistry... {#} I believe in hard nasty dripping wet sex as well as slow senual love {#}making either way passion has no limits. I also have the experience to make sure we have a great time, in or out of bed or your restraints should you deserve them. I'm here for fun and great times to include great conversa{#}tions and good laughs and hot passion.I'm selective and don't play with just anyone.{#} It takes chemistry and attraction. I"m looking for one, One who can serve my needs and desires as well as attract {#} my mind and spirt. .............. I'm well mannered and maintained sane completely single Man. I'm articulate charming and confident yet not egotistical or obnoxious.I have class brains and good looks. {#} I'm also friendly,fun,sexy in shape {#} nicely hung rock hard for fun with a very open mind I'm not shy in the least. {#} {#} You will find I'm open to a verity of options, from mild to taboo.{#} I have some great experience to share and some {#}things I certainly reqiure , I'm also open to play partner or more should it develop.

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11/28/2012 7:01:12 AM

Ok back home from 10 days in Florida and happy to be home..Looking forward to December


5/12/2012 6:22:35 PM

  Aword for the wise;

My hope would be that if you take anything away for my profile it is this.

 

 A dominant man ;

will not start off by with, 'Bow down on your knees upon receipt of my message!' There seems to be many complaints from women about this kind of ploy as first introduction, and this is reason alone to 'block n’ move on.' (I would advise ladies to use this tactic often and liberally rather than engage in argument or flame wars…life is too short.). Ignore the Insta-Dom.

- A dominant man will not seem ‘desperate’ for your attention. Getting dates or getting laid is not his problem; he can find women on kink sites, at work, or in the grocery store. He knows women, and women are drawn to him. Many women, kink or vanilla, prefer a man who is take-charge both in the bedroom and in life. If a 'Dom' becomes frantic, anxious, or despairing because you don’t write him back every other hour, chances are he has a hard time with the fairer sex. The good news is desperation is easy to spot.

- A dominant man most often will be successful, a maverick, or at least happy in his chosen profession. If he has had some bad luck in his past, it will be fleeting, for he will strive relentlessly to place his universe back into the order mandatory to his existence. If your suitor languishes in poverty, unemployment for years, or hates his job, most likely his dominance is merely a cover-up to appease his lack of success. Though he may not be the millionaire, look for the man who is happy, confident, unique, and/or successful in his chosen endeavor.

- A dominant man will be very interested in you, and not just your sexual needs (though they will certainly get his attention). He will see you as a puzzle, and desire to make sense of that puzzle. The dominant guy loves challenge and that in essence is why so many submissives find disillusion in the vanilla world; most men do not seek challenge in sensuality, they fear it. Submissive women are the most challenging of lovers for they have great fantasy. Their fantasies often require a man to move far outside normal gestures requiring both skill and creativity. How you think about a myriad of criterion will be of great interest to him.

- A dominant man is likely to be damn good in the sack. Most men have their hands full with straight-up vanilla sex. The dominant man has either mastered or has no interest in such elementary play, at least not all the time. Making a woman orgasm many times has left him bereft of sport, so he now seeks a woman who will challenge him on other levels. The dominant guy is going to have a good understanding of the female anatomy, and will persist in finding the keys to your body and mind. He will have done his homework and already experimented in real-time on many lovers. He will be a bit of the Don Juan, if not Don himself; not a womanizer per se, but certainly sexually advanced.

- A dominant man may have all the accoutrement of kink (the whips, chains, and whatnot), but he will not need them to be dominant. A whisper, a word, a look, a swagger, and a touch are the essence of his talent. Confidence is his weapon of choice, not bragging about his dungeon. Those who tout their toys too highly might well be lacking in other departments.

- A dominant man will be very cautious in selecting you because he knows you have great desires, hopes, and dreams, and it is he that has to live up to them. Above all things he will wish to be good for you. He attempts to choose wisely but may at first make many mistakes in his choices as he finds his way.

- A dominant man will make mistakes and have no fear admitting them. The dominant guy knows he is not All Knowing, for he is human. A guy who believes he never makes mistakes or does not admit to them with good cheer is most likely not dominant.

- A dominant man will never send you a cock shot at first greeting and it is highly unlikely that he’ll have one on his profile.

- A dominant man will not beg you for naked photographs. In fact, he won’t beg for anything. He will simply wait till you’re dying to send him your naughty pictures unsolicited and accept them with lordly composure (or a rock hard-on, depending on the photo).

- A dominant man will never lie about being married or already having a girlfriend. If he’s married to vanilla, he’ll simply say so. If he’s dating vanilla, he’ll break up with her before venturing in with another (less he’s doing a poly thing and brings her along, or in an open relationship). The dominant guy is straightforward, will wish to be plain about his true desires and needs, and if he is attached, will be forthcoming with that information. If he’s cheating on his vanilla wife, he will say so. He made his choice and is going for it.

- A dominant man won’t lie about much, though he surely will keep some of his thoughts from you. A Dom who feels swallowing golden showers to be right up your alley may well know telling you straight out might have you running for cover. This is not in itself lying, he’s just taking the appropriate steps first and at the speed he thinks you can absorb them (he may well discard such thoughts as he gets to know you; he will discard his thoughts often). The lying 'dom' will have an agenda that has no bearing on your needs. The real dominant guy wants no part of someone for whom he cannot be good. A man who attempts to get with a woman he cannot handle or vice versa is desperate.

- A dominant man will not be heavy handed in his approach. He will be skilled at drawing you in, opening you up, making you feel at ease or on edge (depending on his tastes). His efforts will seem effortless; even aloof at times. He will grow on you. Capture you. Enlighten you and make things seem clear that may have been once blurry. You will feel better about yourself when communicating with him (even if your desire is to live in debasement!). Only an impostor will try to tear you down in order to raise himself to higher ground. The dominate gets off by watching you soar, not fall.

In essence, taking on a submissive is both invigorating and empowering yet also a humbling experience. He may err constantly, particularly if he is new. Yet he will always, always strive to be better, and though he longs and seeks challenge, he will avoid that which he knows he cannot handle, or will in some near future be unable to handle. It may take time but he will understand his own limits as well as his woman’s.

A submissive is a truckload of challenge (ask their ex-vanilla lovers), and so the dominant man needs you like he needs air. He wants your worship not simply for worship sake but because he has gone beyond the call of the norm, ventured into the realm of risk, and passing across the dangerous abyss where footing is treacherous, hopefully breaks into the sunshine of success offering you something glorious. THAT alone is why he seeks your worship; because he has earned it and deserves it.

If a man does not seek risk and challenge in his life, if he wishes worship without venturing his ego, if he does not persist continually toward excellence in handling a woman as he does in many things, he is not a dominant man.


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