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Agares85

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Hi

I am a Master from Finland with about 4 years of experience in BDSM and right now I`m just lurking around. I have been into BDSM since my teens and being dominant feels natural to me. I love to inflict pain and I am quite the sadist, however I feel that the most important aspect in BDSM is trust and a safeword that the slave can use whenever things get too rough. Though you can drop the safeword once you get to know a slave. I also quite like the psychological aspect of dominating another and controlling someone else without even a slightest touch. Actually the psychological aspect of BDSM is the most attractive part because in a D/s relationship one has to be dominant and the other submissive. If you can only be a dom with the help of a whip you are not a dominant. How you do things is much more important than what you do. People on this site seem to want the extreme. I see plenty of profiles that seem to seek someone who will beat them into a bloody pulp. Now there is nothing wrong with that, hard whippings, needle play and knifeplay are some serious fun. But still, you cannot just have the extreme and nothing else, a human body cannot stand that in the long run. Proper pain and torture is amongst my favorite things but there is so much more in bdsm so why not explore it all? And I also have to say that even in BDSM the most attractive aspect of a person is intelligence. Even if you are a submissive and desire to become a 24/7 TPE slave I still expect a proper slave to have an IQ higher than my shoe size. Sure some might enjoy the idea of a masochistic fuck toy who does not think, but not me. Even if someone is my slave I would kick her out the door if I could not talk and have fun with her. A person is always a person to me. Even if I do enjoy to chain lovely ladies to a table and whip them till they scream, I still want a person to be a human being with whom I can banter and enjoy being with. Plus, it is quite hard to humiliate someone who does not understand that she is being humiliated... And as a last note, I am fluent in English, Finnish and Swedish. -Agares
10/5/2013 1:05:03 PM

Ah how I love simpleminded people. Just talked with a girl from Romania. Wanted me to send a gift to her so that she knew that I could be trusted. She was also quite keen to travel here and become my longterm slave without knowing anything about me or saying anything about her. Naturally I had to have some fun with her and see how long I could try to get her to say something about herself or to ask me something. But no, she just said a few things and asked again for a gift so that I could prove my trust. Well, in the end she blocked me when I said that I want something more deep than a painslut, someone with who I can talk about more serious stuff. Hard worker though, had to say it straight before she stopped trying to scam me. And failed miserably at trying to make me feel like I lost something when I didn´t want to meet her. 

 

So remember girls, if you try to scam me put some serious effort in it. I´m not stupid nor am I an easy scam, but I love it when you try <3

7/2/2013 2:54:53 PM

I have spotted a few people who say in their profiles that they would like to see how far a potential Master is prepared to go when it comes to pain. Most likely several of these are actually men hoping to score some homemade bdsm pictures but just for the fun of it I added two pictures that show my handywork. 

MistressFlames
 
 Age: 26
 Portland, Oregon