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	submissive male. We see here the things the way we desire to see them. Our mind produces and edits its own version of what will happen. No matter what we are told. We will see it as we want to see it. Hear it only the way we want to hear it. One of the things I've learned over the years. It is not possible for me to submit to another just because they say I will.There has to be something there/chemistry.And the person has to be able to cause that feeling to rush over me.The feeling that appears as if I'm in a trance that makes me want to be trained by that person and serve all of their desires. Forget the lingo and all the other words,phrases,and even insults you think you should say. And just be human. And adult. Treat me as you would if you met me in a public place. If you saw me and heard my voice as I talked to others. Whatever it might have been that caused you to pause and look my way. I will do the same. I have experience that is true.That means nothing more than I may have lived in areas where I could be more apart of the local scene. I have been in this lifestyle since my early 20's. Someone introduced me to it and I never looked back. So that is all it means. Nothing more. All of this should be more than the fetish clothes and the games some play. Can it be? Yes, it can. I'm not sure the one I seek is here. A LTR with "ONE" is what I seek.

9/8/2013 8:50:08 PM

I understand the desire of some women wanting an alpha male to own.

I also understand the mindset of a woman looking for a cuckold.

Being a cuckold is not a desire or fantasy for me.

However,I would embrace being a cuckold if that is what she desired.