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*Update: I've found a possible match, and am no longer looking, so skip down to the paragraphs under the horizontal line if you would like to get to know me better.
Hello! If you came here in search of an intimate relationship with me, start with the following; if you just came here looking to get to know me better, you can skip down to the paragraphs below the lists.
Absolutes:
1) I'm not in the market for a primarily or solely dominant partner at all, under any circumstances, no matter what, etc. etc.
2) I'm not looking for Monos (those who hold the 'one partner per person' viewpoint).
3) I aspire to be a 'heartless bitch.' (probably not the 'heartless bitch' you're thinking of; see: http://www.heartlessbitches.com/rants/brutal.shtml)
4) If you can't deal with the fact that I have a child (one month and a week old as of 12/19/2011, and cute as a button), then see-ya!
5) Straight up and point blank, my last relationship was a complete failure in every manner except length. He was abusive and I quite simply lost all respect for him in any way, shape, or form - put that together with the sometimes volatile emotions on my end and I'm sure you can imagine how it went.
I'm looking for someone who is...
1) A switch, or at least submissive male (preferably bisexual, and must be free of STD's).
1) Intelligent (I'm semi-sapiosexual).
2) Gentle.
3) Independent (I.E., someone who does not need me to hold their hand, give them my undivided attention, dote on them, and so on and so forth).
4) Easygoing.
I am NOT looking for someone who is...
1) Interested in a hardcore, 24/7, or online lifestyle (you should be located within an hour-and-a-half of Columbus, Ohio).
2) Abrasive, rude, insulting, yada yada yada.
3) Self-centered.
4) Emotional/a drama queen.
5) Irresponsible.
One thing: I do not and will not call you (or anyone else) 'Sir' or 'Ma'am' based on what you think I should call you. Unless I actively choose to submit to or be submissive towards you, I am your equal. Along the same vein, you will never hear me call you 'Master' or 'Mistress,' even if I choose to be submissive towards you. This isn't meant to be an insult; it's just not who I am.
Still reading? Sweet! Let's get down to the good stuff.
I don't have much experience in the BDSM arena - just one boyfriend a long time ago, sadly. Definitely looking to learn, though! Oh, and looking for meets too, if you know of any in the Columbus, Ohio area. I'm up for trying out most of the sexual things (on either side of the line - dominant or submissive), but especially looking for someone who is into humiliation... possibly a masochist as well, but I haven't decided on that bit. I adore feminine-looking guys... mmm, they're so delicious-looking.
I love to read, although I'm just getting back in the habit (you'd be surprised how much you can read while you're feeding an infant). Pen-and-paper/tabletop DnD is a favorite hobby of mine, although I've only been a part of about 4 campaigns (none of them finished). I love philosophy (ah, if only it was a useful major for college...), am heavily interested in psychology, and used to be quite into theology, though not so much nowadays. I have dabbled in the occult/paranormal, with mixed results. Cats are my friends; dogs... not so much.
Personality traits: impatient, stubborn, fun-loving, creative, emotional, a little smarter than your average bear in some aspects, imaginative, impulsive, self-centered (yes, I am the sun the earth revolves around... but at least I'm not the center of the universe!), very open-minded, somewhat thoughtful, and a little romantic.
Ta-da, it's me in a nutshell!
Oh, one last thing: unfortunately, Collarme doesn't let me specify whether my opinions on the sex play items come from the dominant or submissive end (a prime example of where it would be useful is with face slapping... I dislike (border on hate) it when done to me, but am curious about doing it to someone else). The 'hard limits' and 'live for its' listed are mine, and all non-sexual interests are mine as well. Most other entries are coming from the 'doing it to you' point of view. If you have any questions about any of them or are not sure which point of view I listed it under, feel free to ask.
-Aesthon
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