Collarspace.com

Friends:
Bits
I am a lifestyle dominant woman, not a professional. I am submissive to one man, who is my primary partner. I am not looking for a live in relationship.

I will state up front that I am NOT into crossdressers or sissies. I'm not condemning, just not at all interested, so please don't contact me, I won't answer.

A bit about me: I'm lighthearted, romantic, don't take myself very seriously. I'm also sadistic and creative in my expression. My loves and limits are clearly listed. I do like learning new types of play, but my "hates" are not negotiable.

I have been involved with BDSM for 25 years, and have a wide area of interests. I believe in mutual pleasure, mine first, naturally.

I expect my male submissive to develop an emotional relationship with me. I like to be romanced, which does NOT mean "tribute". You must be highly affectionate and sexual in order to be a good match for me. Being a good kisser is essential.

The physical type I prefer: men as tall as me or taller, built on the average to slender side. Average or slightly larger than average "endowment". Extra bonus points for uncut guys. Strong arms and smooth skin are major turns ons. I tend to prefer men close to my age, though younger and older men are not automatically excluded. I like a man with some experience over a total newbie.

I am a nonsmoker and light social drinker, and prefer you be the same.

When you contact me, please don't address me as Mistress. I'm old fashioned that way and reserve that title for one who is collared to me.

Finally, I expect a submissive to make himself available to me for frequent use, which will include sexual activity. Please don't contact me if you live so far away we cannot get together at least a couple times a month. That being said, I do expect to get to know you a bit before deciding whether to play. There has to be chemistry between us for it to work.

Thank you for reading this carefully. All thoughtful replies will be answered. No one liners, please!

11/7/2010 7:53:29 AM

I find it rather odd how little response my profile gets. Perhaps it sounds too real? Or my demands, such as they are, are too much for the submissive men on this site?

 

One thing I can point to perhaps, is that I am not looking for 24/7 with a submissive, since I'm in a live in situation myself. That doesn't mean that any man who serves me would be shortchanged in any manner. My Master, knowing me quite well, is amazed that my search has been this difficult.

 

Over the years I've heard a great deal of complaining that there are SO many submissive me, and so few dominant women... it doesn't seem that way from my perspective.

 

I don't aggressively pursue men. I leave that tactic to the pros and those with something to sell. I'm actually active in the Philadelphia/South Jersey scene, people know who I am, and I'm often approached for play.

 

So where are all the men who would enjoy serving a loving, yet sadistic lady? One who approaches BDSM in a lighthearted way, is low protocol, and loves to have fun? Where is the man who would adore me, and be adored by me in return?

 

Who knows?

10/8/2009 7:07:49 PM
Please be aware that well written responses are important to me. I don't like messages full of text speak. It's just one of my old fashioned quirks.  If you are of an age close enough to mine to be interested, please don't write like a high schooler posting on MySpace.

Your cooperation is appreciated.

AK
BattyGirl
 
 Age: 32
 Lakeland, Florida