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I know what I want, and there are some things I won't compromise on. I'm independent, strong willed and fun and sassy. And no, that is not an invitation or any indication that I want you to break me down and rebuild me. Nor is that indicative of bratty behavior that's just asking for a spanking.

I order off the menu of life and I will send my plate back to the kitchen if its not what I asked for.

I want a tall, decisive man in my life. Someone who knows what he wants, and takes action to get it. Someone who's yearning for partner to explore and grow and laugh with. Someone who cuddles puppies, takes responsibility for his actions, and isn't afraid to step out of his comfort zone.

And please, I appreciate input however, I do not need to read notes pontificating on how I'm not a "true submissive" because I have standards and I expect awesomeness from myself and from those I seek to have in my life. Let me be very clear here. I'm not looking for fuck buddies or play partners (I have those). I am looking for someone who wants to build a life together, someone to wake up next to, adventure with, choose vacation spots, build business with, fall madly crazy in love with. I would prefer he be kinky, as I am. But I'm thinking I might need to separate the heavy d/s out of my romantic life.
11/17/2009 8:55:15 PM
I'm ready for an adventure. Are you?

I'm learning that possibilities are endless and all sorts of adventures are waiting, you just have to ask.

Come with me, take the lead, let's find those hidden paths where life really happens.

I am always up for friendly conversation. When there's trust, there'll be treats.
6/29/2009 12:48:17 AM
That's right, my rock star mojo is back. And no, you probably can't keep up but show a good effort.

4/9/2009 7:50:28 AM
I do check email here from time to time, but I have moved on to more meaningful venues for conversation. 
4/7/2009 2:00:11 PM
Pet peeve - don't call me a "subbie" unless you want me to call you a "dommie".
3/18/2009 11:07:05 AM
Things I have learned:

-I have yet to meet a 22-year-old who deserves to wear the title "Master". Not saying it's not possible, but, well, just sayin'

-Let it go. Organic beats forced any day.

-I refuse to be apologetic about my past, or present, and the things I did not want and cannot change.

-I don't "need" you. I might "want" you but I have what I "need".

-Yes, you were wrong. And that's ok.
5/11/2008 7:35:38 PM
Pain is inevitable .
Suffering is optional.

I have heard variations on this concept three times in the past two days.

Interesting.
9/9/2007 6:20:06 PM

And a woman spoke, saying, "Tell us of Pain."

And he said:

Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding.

Even as the stone of the fruit must break, that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain.

Gibran

9/9/2007 5:59:49 PM
"Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac."  Kissinger
9/9/2007 5:44:13 PM
Judas

Is simplicity the best
Or simply the easiest
The narrowest path
Is always the holiest
So walk on barefoot for me
Suffer some misery
If you want my love

Man will survive
The harshest conditions
And stay alive
Through difficult decisions
So make up your mind for me
Walk the line for me
If you want my love

Idle talk
And hollow promises
Cheating Judases
Doubting Thomases
Don't just stand there and shout it
Do something about it

You can fulfil
Your wildest ambitions
And I'm sure you will
Lose your inhibitions
So open yourself for me
Risk your health for me
If you want my love