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Hetero Female Submissive, 60,  Michigan
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Adriftandlost - submissive

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Recently lost my Domboyfriend, love of my life. We met on this website just shy of 3 years ago. He absolutely refused to be called Daddy, but he was a Daddy Dom none the less.
At this point even holding a conversation is a struggle... breathing is as well. Obviously I am a mess and would value any insight dealing with my current situation.
In many ways this feels like a betrayal, but there is an element of catharsis as well. Not looking for romance, heart is shattered, and it will be a while before anything physical is appealing.
The only certainty is that life is too short, and can be gone in a blink.

Please, if you are just looking for someone to use or jerk around... leave me alone.

10162020 addendum
Important note Earlier this year I was diagnosed with CLL, Chronic Lymphocytic Leukemia. Am guessing I have 5-10 years, tops. I would like to fill my remaining time with affection and joy, as there can never be too much of those, and my life has lacked them in great quantities.










Last Online:


 Submissive Female


 5' 4"

 170 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

 Lives For:

 Liberal Politics


 Beachcombing (Expert)




 Hair Pulling

 Massage (Getting)


 Historical Shows

 Romance Novels

 Science Fiction




 Country Music


 Rock Music

 Show Tunes

 Auto Racing


 Horse Racing


 Art Galleries



 Local BDSM Community

 Board Games

 Card Games

 Comedy Shows

 Puzzle Games

 Intellectual Discourse




 Ice Hockey





 Curious About:

 Renaissance Faires

 Canes and Crops

 Electrical Play

 Fire Play

 Medical Play

 Wax play


 Eye Contact Restrictions


 Housework Service


 Role Playing



 Going to the Opera

 Foot Worship

 Gas Masks

 Orgasm Denial


 Horror Movies

 Conservative Politics

 Hard Limits:






 Domestic Service



 Knife Play

 Needle Play

 Obedience Training


 Serving as a Maid

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Plastic Wrap

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play


 Sensory Deprivation

 Speech Restrictions




 Opera Music

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