To explain where I am coming from. I am looking for a woman who needs both:

on one level to be cared for and loved by a strong successful sane and decent Man. I do not see this as inconsistent with:

a woman who also needs on another level to explore her capability as a slut/humiliation slave - in a deep and intense way.

Who am I? I am a tall 6'4 slim broad shouldered intelligent (Oxford educated) successful, high libido perverted sadistic and genuinely well endowed Dominant London man late 40s, who has always had a strong attraction to women with a depraved side.

I seek a woman who can be a real friend - who also needs to offer her Master the gift of her sexual degradation to prove her capacity for devotion and love, if that makes any sense to you...

I work as the Director of a Media Lab doing computer animation - working at the intersection of art and science. I am intelligent, and I am by character strong decent open and depraved.

In terms of my more intimate needs, I hava a high libido and I am strong demanding and dominating 'forcing' My slave to extend her capacity for use and degradation fills Me with an intense physical desire and love for her.

I am strong honest sane and honourable which I see as entirely compatible with being demanding, and deeply filthy in my personal needs...

In short, i seek a woman who needs a healthy loving relationship on one level, but in who also needs (again not to put too fine a point on it) to express the darker part of her personality in order to be fulfilled - indeed in order to express love in the deepest most intimate way, again if that resonates with you at all.

If this speaks to you at all, do contact me.