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I can be shy and introverted at times, especially around people I don't know very well. I am a submissive, not a slave and if you don't know the difference please find out before contacting me. I tend to rebel on instinct though I am trying, I have a very curious nature. I do pride myself on being very honest, blunt even, with everyone though I do not set out to be hurtful the truth can be just that at times. I love to write, read and I am otherwise artistically inclined. I have also recently discovered a great love in myself for photography. Now I do not tolerate perverts, meaningless cruelty and people who force their beliefs on you. Respect is what I ask for and if you show me respect you will receive the same. You get what you give out, as they say. Anything else about me I'd love you to ask. I like to talk to people one on one to really get to know them instead of pouring myself out on a webpage, just seems so impersonal. Thanks for your time and I hope you find what your looking for.

10/25/2006 11:05:22 PM Well hello again all. I've been away for quite awhile working my way through lifes little unexpected twists and turns to find myself with you all again. I have wonderful news to share, I have been collared my a very loving and demanding Dom. Three months and running to be exact. We've known each other for years and have a very in-depth past and due to many a circumstance Fate has brought us back together again in perfect unison. I will be keeping my profile here, as well as updating and checking my messages but alas I will only be here for friends of the D/s community and those seeking guidance in their own journey. Thank you for your time everyone and good luck!

4/9/2006 2:30:51 PM I've been getting this question alot so after giving it due consideration I chose to share apart of myself with perhaps the few readers I have.. Adri, what has drawn you to the lifestyle? What personally drew me to the lifestyle at first was curiousity. I have an insatiable curiousity about all things and when I began to explore my sexuality and personal tastes I came upon the lifestyle very quickly. Now unlike some I chose for a few years to study BDSM, D/S (whichever you'd like to term it I've looked into most) through books, online references, and the scant amount of couple I knew. This off and on project for awhile before I decided to take an active role in my own desires. What draws me to the lifestyle the most in my opinion is my masochistic nature. Though very strong willed I greatly enjoy domination in many forms especially since it takes a very rare individual to accomplish what I crave. Now you may ask if I have ever found this man.. Unfortunately the answer to that is no. Though not truly an active seeker for this person I would hope to find him along the path of my life perhaps sooner.. or later.

3/7/2006 8:52:31 PM Hello again! I have to say to you all that I am as of right now being bombarded with messages which in turn has become somewhat overwhelming.   Not to say I do not appreciate the attention. :) But if you message me and do not hear a response from me immediately then know I am not in fact ignoring you but have my hands full with life and many other messages as well.   Now if your looking at my profile you are obviously interested in speaking with me. I've come to the realization that there are alot of people on this site looking for some type of pain slut or similar and I AM NOT THAT. So stop messaging me.   I AM NOT INTO- Golden Showers, Diapers, A Daddy Dom, Beastiality or Incest.   If you are married, engaged, or in a relationship with another women or man I am not interested. I am also NOT looking to join a poly group at this time or become part of a threesome. (No matter how you term it)   I AM LOOKING FOR A SINGLE DOM TO BE-  Disease free, Unattached, No children, Intelligent, Kind, Financially Secure, Firm in his ways (For I am an Alpha Sub and will push my limits so weak Dom's need not apply)   Before you message me consider all these things and if what you want matches any of things I Do Not Want, then please do not message me.   Also my age range maxes out at 49 years old, no questioning. If you are older then I'd love to talk with you about the lifestyle as well as vanilla activities and perhaps become friends.   Alright I'm done ranting folks. Good night! :)

2/27/2006 3:08:31 PM If you are looking for a picture and will only contact me if you see one then perhaps you should not contact me at all. I do not feel comfortable with posting/giving out my picture till I am secure in the knowledge that the receiving individual is mature and deserving of such a trusting act.