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Important (Non-BDSM related) details:
Ages:
19-32, with anyone aged 33-39 being aware that there is only a miniscule chance of anything growing beyond casual play. This is simply enforced due to the fact that I've no intentions of developing a relationship with someone that will be "old" far sooner than I. Nevertheless I still welcome conversation from those with more experience, as I'm only 23 and have been in the lifestyle for near 5 years now.
Appearance:
I'll be blunt here: I'm shallow; I take care of my body to the greatest extent (outside of the ring that is) I can with constant exercise, and although I know most people won't push themselves to do what I do (albeit usually it's not required of them for their job), I still prefer people that take great pride in their appearance and presentation.
Location:
I tend to travel occasionally, thus if you're overseas and think (I imagine this should apply to you more than anybody else) that you really have found what you want, then we can talk about it for a while. This isn't a likely situation but with the possible premise of it, it was worth adding.
Personality and lifestyle:
Kickboxing. Big topic here for me. I live for the sport, quite literally without fighting I'd feel considerably dead inside. The majority of my time is spent at the gym almost every day (4-7 hours, generally 5 days a week), and whilst I'm there I can't be bothered by anything or anyone else aside from those I'm training with.
Outside of training (and scheduled fights) I'm home for the rest of the time with the occasional nightclubs on weekends. The time I'm not at the gym is the time I have available to spend with you (it is a lot more than it sounds).
I have an extremely dry and twisted sense of humor, with very little care or protective instinct for anyone except those extremely close to me. I'm more likely to smirk at the stupidity that caused a car accident (regardless of how fatal it is) before considering running over to help or calling authorities to assist. I'm also very callous for the most part and bluntly honest, I'll say what's on my mind immediately, disregarding anyone's feelings on the matters; I can still retain a conservative manner when need be of course.
Aside from the entire psycho-fitness-fanatical-zealot ideals, I do play games sometimes on the computer (I grew up playing games, guess it just stuck with me even with age), mostly just RPGs and shooters. I did play MMOs quite a bit in the past but due to the amount of time usually consumed by them I can only casually play them now at best and thus I seldom bother.
I believe that should suffice for a basic idea of what I'm like, any questions are welcome.
One sidenote: It's been pointed out from friends in the past "You work out so much but you're still thin!", the simple answer relates to the kickboxing weight brackets. I began at 63kg several years ago and I only get two months out of the year without fights which gives me enough time to gain about 2-3kg of muscle before my next fight. Weight brackets in kickboxing are fickle (generally a 2.5kg difference between brackets) and at present I'm in the middleweight bracket. It's far too easy to gain or lose weight in a short span of time if you're trying to, and because of this, when you reach the weigh-in date and you're even half a kilo over the limit or under it, you get a DQ from the fight because it's no longer the bracket you're meant to be fighting in.
BDSM Lifestyle:
My experience:
I've spent most of the past five years involved in the lifestyle, I've lived with two separate subs, one of which was for two years (from 19-21) in Australia and the other was for just over a year while I resided in Canada (and I took her with me to the Netherlands for Qlimax[Wiki or youtube it if you're not sure]) whom was aware that it wouldn't be permanent as I'd be returning to Australia at some point or another.
The BDSM lifestyle was mostly enforced in-home only, with the exception of simple mannerisms like "Master" in public and habitually asking for permission to act without demand, although this was -never- around family.
The latter relationship was far more strict in regards of what to wear at all times whilst at home and while we were out (Money is never an issue for me and thus the wardrobe was extensive with a myriad of latex[and a near endless supply of baby powder to go with that], corsets, maid outfits and whatnot, let your imagination run wild here) and her routine to follow whilst I wasn't at home, as well as how to "greet" me when I got home.
The time outside of these relationships was with casual partners which lasted weeks to a month at most but was kept without strings attached, met at munches (actually not a fan of going to these but they're entertaining sometimes).
Your experience:
I expect you to have some experience with another Dom if you're into your late 20s or early 30s, whilst those younger than me without experience, if you think you're truly a submissive, then in your first message to me I'd like you to explain what you feel originally brought that "status" unto you. (Even if it's something simple such as having your boyfriend choke you whilst fucking you senseless.) If it seems honest enough, then I may end up breaking you into submission.
Tastes:
Rather simple one here, the majority of my tastes/fetishes are listed in the profile, all of which listed I've had experience with in one way or another.
My two hard limits aren't there, one of which is blatantly obvious for most people: No children or anything related to children. This also relates to you having a child that isn't old enough to understand what's happening around them or to manage a coherent opinion of the lifestyle (for the most part this would apply to those in the 28-32 range that had children at a young age).
This doesn't mean I'm not willing to have a child sometime in the future (long way off but it's plausible) but I've had -very- limited casual experiences where discretion was heavily necessary and it's not something I found enjoyable.
The other hard limit is scat: Really, poo? Heh, doesn't appeal to me even remotely, and nothing would ever change this limit.
Anyhow, just because you might see something in my list of likes and whatnot that you may not enjoy, doesn't mean it's something I'd do to you.
What I'm looking for:
Each woman varies in form, frailty, endurance, pain thresholds and because of this my tastes are considerably varied and not as exclusive as you may think from the rest of this profile.
One woman can be pushed to tears by being fisted so furiously that her legs become numb and can't stop trembling for another hour after she's cum numerous times and yet she'll crave more. Another woman may despise being fisted and enjoy every last breath from her body being squeezed out of her throat while I crush it with a single hand, letting my fingers dig down against the jugular to deprive the brain of most of it's blood and cause her to become light-headed while my teeth sink down against one of her nipples.
Both are completely appealing to me yet unrelated from each other aside some semblance of pain in both.
As a Dom, I'm looking for the submissive that is able to trust in everything I do to them (mind and body) and know that I would never push them beyond the limits of safety, and that everything I do is to satiate them, in my own way. Of course this trust isn't just given, it's earnt gradually.
As a man, I'm looking for the woman that knows where and when everything is appropriate and I'm capable of introducing to others I know without any particularly awkward moments.
I don't want a doormat. If I tell you to hold your breath (for some reason) and I go take a shower and come back to a dead sub, I won't be happy. (Possibly amused, but still not happy.) I want you to be able to think for yourself, were I to tell you to dress in a corset and latex stockings for me before I get home, I imagine you can pick out which corset for yourself unless I specifically stated one.
That covers a reasonable amount of me, keep in mind that rules are meant to be bent and occasionally broken, but discipline follows. ;)
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Updated my age, that's about it. Not looking for anyone at present as I'm taken. |
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Had far too much time on my hands today (rain ruined my run) so I completely overhauled my profile here to be completely up to date.
If anyone manages to read the whole thing I'd be impressed. |
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Back in Australia after the year in Canada and 3 months in the Netherlands (For the 2010 Qlimax and to visit friends).
Not looking for anyone currently, just back here to flick through any interesting subs here in Queensland or nearby. |
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Cutest message I've received since I arrived in Canada. "You can marry me to become a resident if you need it." Albeit there was more to it than that, it's an adorable quote.
I'm still not looking, mostly because I'm not working here in Canada yet as I'm not a resident nor do I have a work visa (for another month, ugh). If I'm unemployed, how would you people expect me to take care of you? ;)
Found a reasonably well paying fighting circuit here in Calgary finally, cash ofcourse and no visa required obviously because the legality of said circuit is questionable, but fuck it's good to get into the ring again.
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I'll have to edit my profile within the next few days, the company I've had here in Canada is far more open to things than what I'd found in Australia, and so my tastes have broadened considerably. - Might aswell add a new picture too.
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If you don't belong to me, don't call me 'Sir'.. I'm well aware that it's respectful to some people, but it just makes me feel old.
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| Age: 24 |
| Los Angeles,
California |
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