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AdamKessler

Hello. Welcome to my profile. I don't have a picture up because I keep this part of my life somewhat secret, but if you want a picture, ask and you shall recieve. I like being dominant and submissive, and to me, sexual relationships are made so much more exhilarating with a little pain, fear, and uncertainty. With that said I'm also a really compassionate guy. I just think life should be enjoyed in all its forms. I'm looking for a Domme or a Sub.

Here are my turn ons (either giving or receiving): Bondage, whips, canes, paddles, spankings, mild CBT, strap-on play, orgasm denial, nipple play, rough sex, collars, hoods, and obedience.

Here are my limits:

When I'm a sub: No permanent (or long lasting) injuries, no drawing blood, nothing involving needles or bodily waste, no sounding, and, most of all, no financial domination. I buy dinners for people and whatnot like a normal person but I won't be your bank account. Seems like so many Dommes just do it for the money and that's just sickening.

When I'm a dom: I would never do any of the above to a sub. It's just a little much for my tastes. Safe words are not only accepted but required. This is supposed to be an enjoyable thing, so if someone is seriously suffering or having a limit crossed, I respect that. I also want a sub that is more or less emotionally stable. Taking advantage of a genuinely wounded person is not what I am about.

More than anything, to me, BDSM is a temporary state of mind. It's not something I think about all the time, and it doesn't influence the way I treat everyone everyday. It's meant to be enjoyed in moderation. If you're a sub, I will treat you as an equal until the session starts, and I will resume immediately after it ends. If you're a domme, you should treat me the same or I am not interested. I live in Tampa, near Courtney Campbell Causeway. I can travel some ways and can host (though not regularly). Let me know if you're interested. I would like to at the very least talk on the phone if not meet in a public place first before anything happens. Thanks for reading all this, haha.

-Adam
kswiss75
 
 Age: 24
 Framingham, Massachusetts