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Seeking a submissive straight male who is proud to love and serve a beautiful Dominant Woman. I desire to be The Goddess in a long-term Female Led Relationship with one?absolute relationship rule:?She makes the rules and he obeys them. My hope?is that together we may gratify all of our emotional, intellectual, physical, spiritual, and sexual needs and become the best possible versions of ourselves.

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I markedly reduced the length of my Profile from prior. Alternatively, I published the additional information in my Journal -- 3 entries on March 15, 2016. Highly suggest you read my Journal?on?View?Full Profile?as this format best represents my submitted entries.

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Similar to all CS members, my Interests are no longer available on my Profile page. Please use the View Interests button and a new page will open with this information.

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Profile and associated 3 Journal entries updated April 13, 2016


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7/18/2016 1:02:32 AM

A Place to Call Home


From the beginning of 2016 to the present, I've been seeking a new place to call Home, both in a real-life pragmatic way and emotionally.


My beautiful house in Ada, Michigan, which I was fortunate to design and build, is for sale. I considered multiple cities, including San Diego where I served in the Navy and my boys were young. In SD my dream of living on the water was first fulfilled -- the bay lapped at my patio when the tide was high and I had two steps down to the sand when the tide was low. I grew up in a Lake Michigan coastal town and my dream had roots in the mansions built on the shore of the Big Lake.


On Friday I started the process of fulfilling my dream once again. I put an offer on a penthouse condo with a view of Lake Michigan. Once settled, my next dream is to spend the winter months traveling. Prefer to travel with a romantic partner so I'm back on CS seeking a sub male for a Female-Led Relationship.



4/19/2016 6:02:17 PM

AdaGoddess' Personal Relationship Philosophy
*originally published November 10, 2013*
*of note is that I wrote this before I discovered the five food groups on aboutflr.com*

Personal relationships are like a Venn diagram with part of two circles overlapping representing shared interests/time and part not overlapping representing different interests/time apart. Every couple needs to decide how much overlapping versus not overlapping meets their needs. Keep in mind that overlapping areas can represent compromise like scenarios below.

Scenario 1: You enjoy running while my pace is walking (my dogs). We go to a park and each exercise. When finished exercising we meet for a picnic lunch. Only thing not overlapping is the exercise time. Overlapping includes not only lunch, but also prep and travel time.

Scenario 2: Similar with Snowboarding and reading. You spend the day on the slopes while I sit by the fire with a book. Day ends with a shared meal and intimacy.



4/17/2016 9:45:36 PM


Female Led Relationships are not Kinky

Very telling that Female Led Relationships -and- Wife Led Marriage -and- Loving Female Authority -and- Female-Centric Relationships -and- Female Supremacy/Superiority are considered Kinks. Absurd to think of having to substitute the word male for female or husband for wife in these terms. So much for gender equality in The United States in 2016.

Result of this narrow-mindedness is that men and women wishing this relationship dynamic are unable to connect using vanilla dating sites so must meet here on CS. Good luck to us all.

*this post was previously published my first week on CS, November 2013*




4/13/2016 5:59:17 AM

Profile Interests

Take note that CS has changed the location of members' lists of Interests. They are no longer shown on the Profile page. One must select the View Interests button and a new page will open with this information.


3/15/2016 6:51:31 PM

My Journal

Recommend reading my Journal on
View Full Profile
as this format best represents my submitted entries.
If you are on the mobile app use
View Full Site.


3/15/2016 6:43:00 PM

Who is AdaGoddess? 

I am a 51 year old woman -- attractive, sensual, very intelligent, highly educated, financially secure, cultured and naturally authoritative divorcée with extremely high standards. I have shoulder length brunette hair, dark brown eyes and a Rubenesque body. My personality, temperament, education and life experiences are best suited for a Female Led Relationship. Please know that, contrary to images in BDSM porn, this Goddess is always a Lady. I do not wear fetish outfits. A well-wielded paddle hurts just the same if I'm dressed in a skirt, twin set and pearls.


3/15/2016 6:41:21 PM

Qualifications for My submissive

An attractive, in shape, intelligent, well-educated, cultured, down-to-earth, non-smoking mature single gentleman who is a prosperous professional. Prefer clean-shaven. Initially, he must have sufficient time and income to travel to meet Me. I am selling my house in Grand Rapids, Michigan. Now contemplating where to start a new chapter of my life.

Additional standards for my ideal submissive are listed in preceding Journal entry. This Goddess pledges complementary commitment and responsibility to everything listed. Prefer a man who has been in a successful Female Led Relationship in the past.


3/15/2016 6:39:18 PM

My ideal submissive is a man who…

...knows there is one absolute relationship rule which is She makes the rules and he obeys them
...remembers every day that having Me as his romantic partner is a privilege

...vows to be faithful emotionally and physically
...is capable of transparent honesty including all his fantasies
...is obeisant and addresses Me with the honorific of my choice, Goddess Dee or Mistress Dee.
...is exceptional as a follower so he boosts my self-confidence and improves my leadership abilities for our mutual benefit
...unconditionally accepts Me, flaws and all, yet supports my striving for self-improvement
...daily makes every effort toward his own self-improvement
...does not have an active substance abuse problem or STD's
...is committed to forevermore pampering Me and satisfying my sexual desires
...is proficient in oral pleasure
...will surrender all control of his sexuality
...will cease any personal sexual gratification including masturbation and viewing of pornography
...understands that it takes significant time and effort to cultivate the strong romantic bond necessary to add any kinks to our relationship
...completely trusts Me to assure both of our emotional, intellectual, physical, spiritual, and sexual needs are met
...realizes that assuring our needs are met is a huge responsibility for Me, therefore he must greatly contribute to handling domestic affairs
...ideally is a talented cook and an impressive handy man
...has a successful professional life, particularly one where he has a leadership role
...is a dog lover as my dachshunds are an important part of my life including taking them along when travel
...is able to distinguish between our private and public lives and vows to be discreet


1/30/2016 12:22:27 PM
 
Over One Hundred
Collarspace 
Admirers

Today, January 30th of 2016, I was honored to receive my one hundred and second Admirer on Collarspace.

Thank you to the 99 men, two women and one couple on Collarspace, representing 14 different countries, who gave me their approbation.

I very much appreciate all the compliments and encouragement I've been given. I remain optimistic that I will find the loving, long-term Female Led Relationship I'm seeking.

~ AdaGoddess


1/29/2016 11:20:30 AM

Poem
Fit For a
Goddess

There once was a Goddess from Ada

Whose sub boys were truly afraid a'
Her whip and her cane
But more so her brain
As she wrapped them tight round her finga!

~ by SpankedinIndy ~


1/24/2016 10:39:01 PM


Movie Maxim
*for rick*

“…I've always known I was born to dominate
[the male] sex and avenge my own.”

~ Marquise de Merteuil (Glenn Close) in Dangerous Liaisons


1/21/2016 5:38:05 AM


A New Year
with the
Same Old Resolutions
and One New
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Take Two

 I laughed at myself when I later thought about my Journal entry
on 16January.

I posted on Collarspace without including a resolution about
romantic relationships.


Long-Term Relationship
 Hand over my heart, I resolve to put more effort into finding a FLR

that fits my needs -- see the following journal entries.

Dating Fun
Hand over my heart again, I resolve to take advantage of the joy found in
just dating and D/s playtime (which I was denying myself while waiting for a LTR to develop).

~ AdaGoddess


1/16/2016 12:17:40 AM

A New Year
with the
Same Old Resolutions
and
One New

Eat Better and Exercise More
Great strides (pun intended) in 2015 and want to continue on the same positive path (yes, another pun intended) in 2016.

Downsize
 Made incredible progress in 2015 (after 26 years of consumerism, raising two kids, living in a McMansion plus a personal tendency to save everything). Now must be ready to move or store everything this spring as the McMansion to be sold

Time with Family
This resolution became more poignant with the recent deaths of my father and niece. It is the most difficult to achieve with one son in San Diego and the other in Italy while my mother divides her year between Michigan and Arizona. FaceTime is a great help.

Move
This is new for 2016... decide where to go that will bring me the most satisfaction. Believe going back to San Diego, the city with the best weather in the U.S., is the optimal choice. My older son there now and my younger son will likely be assigned there if he continues on the same career path in the Navy.


~ AdaGoddess


12/31/2015 11:49:52 AM


Out with the Old
and
In with the New

 I can only hope 2016 is brighter than 2015. In September my healthy father died from complications of a routine medical procedure. A few days later my brother-in-law’s dad died after an eight year battle with cancer. My niece and nephew lost both grandfathers.

 Last Sunday, after 20 years of driving north from Columbus, my youngest sister was to host our family Christmas party for the first time. A celebration was planned in the absence of my father and my son (overseas with the Navy). Instead of celebrating, we were together grieving the death of my 18 year-old niece after a lifelong battle with epilepsy. Her funeral is Monday. Only after that will 2016 truly begin for me.

 

 

11/25/2015 8:55:17 PM
 
Dictionary.com Word of the Day
November 25, 2015

uxorious
< uhk-SAWR-ee-uhs >
adjective meaning doting upon or affectionately submissive toward one's wife


8/19/2015 12:42:50 AM

Wednesday's Wish

Seeking a man who considers Women superior
rather than
a man who considers himself inferior.


7/26/2014 8:27:15 PM

Profile Picture 12
Venus in Furs

This artwork is one of ten full-page watercolors -- all women wearing furs -- in Venus in Furs, translated and illustrated by Sardax.  Information about Sardax in my prior Journal entry.

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Admire how Sardax drew Wanda holding the fur to cover her breasts and how the fur drapes between her legs just as the Venus de' Medici statue is holding her arms. The Venus de' Medici statue is known as "the goddess in the Tribuna" -- picture 11 shows the statue from two viewpoints. The Tribuna is a room in the Uffizi Museum in Florence where Venus de' Medici is on display.

Also appreciate Wanda’s glance over her shoulder to discreetly monitor her slave, Severin/Gregor, preparing her bath.

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Below is an Excerpt from Venus in Furs
"The bathroom was a broad, high rotunda. The pale light fell peacefully from above through the red glass dome. The broad leaves from two palms formed a canopy overarching a day bed with red velvet cushions, from which steps covered with Turkish carpets led down to the broad marble pool in the middle...
...I felt that all lust and lasciviousness lies in the arousal caused by half-undress and disrobing, and I felt it even more when the pool was filled and Wanda threw off her fur with one motion and stood before me like the goddess in the Tribuna…
…Our nihilist aesthetician is correct. A real apple is more beautiful than one depicted and a living woman more fair than a Venus of stone."


7/23/2014 11:08:45 PM

Profile Pictures
One, Two, Three, Eight, Nine and Twelve
Sardax Illustrations
 

My profile pictures numbers one, two, three, eight, nine and twelve are artwork by Sardax (pseudonym), a talented English Femdom artist. Sardax’s ink drawings and watercolours were a hobby that has now evolved into two published books, a magazine, limited prints and commissioned pieces. He’s also created book covers plus countless book and magazine illustrations in addition to graphic art for logos, on-line banners, flyers and posters. Sardax has a website, sardix.com, for devotees of female domination. There is some free content, but the majority is accessible by paid membership only. A search on the web will yield multiple sites with Sardax artwork.
 
Sardax’s first book, The Art of Sardax publis
hed in 2007, contains 75 classic Sardax images with accompanying erotic texts. The book is now out of print and an internet search found the most inexpensive copy selling for $350 (Amazon price is at least $1,100!). His second publication was a magazine entitled Fabulous Fem Dom Art also published in 2007. This magazine has over 80 drawings and sketches that were first produced for the Alice Kerr-Sutherland Society, a group promoting a Loving Domestic Discipline lifestyle.
 
The second book (third publication) by Sardax is Venus in Furs. It was released July 2013
. This is a new translation by Sardax himself from the original German of Leopold von Sacher-Masoch’s novella. Although first published in 1870 this book tells a timeless story of FemDom, the power dynamic that exists between men and women. Sardax worked on Venus in Furs for 10 years and describes this book as a “labour of love.” Of interest is that the sexual activities of this story led to the term ‘Masochism’ derived from Sacher-Masoch’s name.
 


12/11/2013 2:24:36 PM


Profile Photo 5 -- A Young Girl Reading

This artwork has great personal significance. A print, of unknown provenance, hung in my family home since I was a young Girl. A unique piece amongst the country charm décor. I always thought the girl in the painting was beautiful and wondered what she was reading. The print's oval oak frame was made by a family friend from a salvaged door. The door came from the elementary school where I attended kindergarten before the building was torn down. When my parents downsized my Mom gave the print to Me as She knew how much I loved it and it now hangs in my home.

The original painting entitled, A Young Girl Reading, or The Reader (French: La Liseuse), is an 18th-century oil by Jean-Honoré Fragonard. It features an unidentified girl wearing a yellow saffron dress from a series of paintings by Fragonard featuring young girls. This art is hanging in the National Gallery of Art. It’s interesting that x-rays have revealed that the canvas originally featured a different image which Fragonard painted over.


12/5/2013 12:50:27 AM


Who Knew?

While reading about symbolism behind my clenched fist photo learned that, according to Wikipedia, there are 42 different variants of Feminism!

Amazon, Analytical, Anarchist, Atheist, Black, Chicana, Christian, Conservative, Cultural, Cyber, Difference, Eco, Equality, Equity, Fat, French Feminism Theory, French Structuralist, Gender, Global, Individualist, Islamic, Jewish, Lesbian, Liberal, Lipstick, Marxist, Material, Neo, New, Postcolonial, Postmodern, Pro-life, Proto, Radical, Separatist, Sex-Positive, Socialist, Standpoint, Third World, Trans, Transnational and Womanism



12/5/2013 12:21:13 AM

 

Feminist Clenched Fist
* this Profile photo has been deleted and another photo uploaded into its spot *
 

Illustration in red of a clenched fist inside the universal emblem for Women, a circle on top of a cross.

A clenched fist signifies solidarity of and support for oppressed peoples. When a clenched fist is raised it’s a salute to express unity, strength and defiance. The image has been traced back to Assyrian depictions of Ishtar, goddess of love, war, sexuality and fertility. When combined with other graphic elements the clenched fist becomes a representation of multiple different oppressed peoples.

In my Profile, the clenched fist inside the universal emblem for Women symbolizes Feminism. Robin Morgan, a key Radical Feminist member of the American Women’s Movement used the image in red for the covers of her three anthologies of Feminist writings, Sisterhood is Powerful 1970, Sisterhood Is Global 1984 and Sisterhood Is Forever 2003. This symbol in different color(s) has been used for other Feminist Movements.


11/24/2013 12:01:34 AM


The Doctor is In
* this Profile photo has been deleted and another photo uploaded into its spot *

Comic strip of Lucy from Peanuts sitting with her feet up on her iconic desk 
which has advertisement offering “Psychiatric Help” for a nickel.


March 27, 1959 entrepreneur Lucy Van Pelt opened her Psychiatric practice, a parody of childhood lemonade stands. She said she could answer any question for five cents. Charlie Brown was her first patient. He told Lucy, “I have deep feelings of depression…” and asked her, “What can I do about this?” She replied, "Snap out of it, five cents please." So began a long history of Lucy giving Charlie Brown advise that varied from little practical value to insulting and belittling. Linus, Snoopy, Schroeder, Sally, Pig Pen, Frieda and 5 (yes, 5 was his name) also visited Lucy’s stand. Note that Peanuts ran from October 2, 1950, to February 14, 2000 and continues in reruns. In total 17,897 strips were published.


Lucy is certainly a Domme in the making. At eight years of age she considers herself to be perfect and the male characters to be anything but. In March 1976 she tells Schroeder, “Well, it’s a scientific fact that girls are smarter than boys. And you know who discovered it?” She answers herself, “Women Scientists!” (bold print in comic) In January 1964 in comics over several days, Lucy shows Charlie Brown a slide presentation of all his faults, and subsequently demands that he pay her a sum of $143 for her services. She knows what is best for her younger brother Linus, often taking away his security blanket. Lucy tells Schroeder that when (not if) they get married he can do all the cooking. He asks her, “What would you do?” She replies, I‘ll fold the napkins.”

Lucy is egocentric. Her things are hers and she takes what she wants from others. She forces her brother to shower her with lavish words of praise before she will even consider sharing anything with him. Once he had to say, "Thank you, dear sister, greatest of all sisters, without whom I'd never survive!" before she’d give him a piece of toast. She frequently kicks her brother off the TV then makes him bring her snacks or drinks while she watches her shows. 

In July 2011 Lucy was Ms Magazine’s Woman of the Year. The Executive Editor Katherine Spillar said that “From the very beginning of the Peanuts phenomenon Lucy has shown us women how to rise up against oppression by the phallocentric American patriarchy."



11/22/2013 11:40:07 AM


Statue in 
Primary Profile Photo



Received a few enquiries about the statue in my Profile photo. Ya’ll made me curious also.

The statue, entitled Nordic Thoughts, was carved in marble by Norwegian sculptor Gustav Vigeland. Vigeland (1869-1943) was a prolific artist known for his naked figures. 

In Oslo there is both a museum and an 80 acre park named after the sculptor. Nordic Thoughts is one of 192 Vigeland sculptures (comprised of over 600 figures) in the eponymous park. Of note is that the park is open day and night, year round.

Fun fact: Vigeland designed the Nobel Peace Prize medal.

Quite interested now in learning about the other artwork in my Photos.


11/11/2013 5:37:48 AM


Veterans Day 2013

Take the time to thank a Sailor or Soldier or Airman or Marine or Coast Guardsman or National Guardsman for his/her service. While I may not always agree with the political decisions made on when and where members of the Armed Forces deploy, I will always support the men and women carrying out these orders.

~ AdaGoddess, Lt USNR


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