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Quick note
Just because I am a sub, does not mean I am *your* sub. So if you send me a message detailing your power over me (ie how you intend to use me, what kind of whore I am, how my * looks, etc), I will immediately block you. Thats just bad manners, plain and simple. You do not have my consent to treat me like you own me until I explicitly give that to you. At that point, you will have all the latitude you could want. Until then, please treat me like a whole human being, equal in status. Thank you )


I am a service submissive, and really just here to look around. I have been in a serious long-term power exchange relationship that recently turned vanilla, but it is polyamorous, so I am free to get my kinky needs met elsewhere. It takes me awhile to trust someone enough to submit to them, and I am more often simply a service bottom (or top, if requested) rather than actually submissive with someone. But I am in the market again for play partners, so if you think theres potential, drop me a line and well see how things go! Now to some specifics

Im sure you noted the Ace in my username, and yes, it stands for asexual. Strange how often I tell people I am kinky and they go but, youre asexual! How does that work? as if sex and bdsm are inextricably linked. Yes, sex is a great way to exert power over someone. It also happens to be a pretty fun activity with the right folks! So yeah, just because someone is asexual, doesnt mean they dont have or enjoy sex. In fact, until recently, I had quite a lot of sex. All on-demand, made-to-order, and at the drop of a text. I am a service submissive, and I also happen to be quite a sponge. My empathic sense is fairly porous, so I soak up my partner s lustful urges and they may as well be my own. They genuinely feel as though they originated within me. The only way I know they came from without is because it will fluctuate in sync with theirs. Rising, falling, or disappearing entirely when I am single. Oh, I get the occasional itch on my own, but it is really no more than that. A small, localized, irritated sensation, that goes away after a satisfying few moments of scratching, haha...

Ill try to get some photos up soon, though it has been quite some time since I partook in a scene. I have a genuine desire to serve, but I also quite shy and have only known two people so far in my life who I trusted enough to submit to. Heres hoping to meeting that third!
xyrelle
 
 Age: 40
  Tennessee