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| I'm a Domme and a sadist--I've always been this way, for as long as I can remember. In terms of the actual London scene I'm still fairly new, my first munch being in July 2010, so I'm looking forward to exploring it a little more.
I adore sweet, respectful male subs (preferably under 30) who I can talk to and hang out with as friends, not simply bodies waiting to be beaten. Speaking of bodies though, I like subs that are muscular and lean; I love living healthily and keeping fit, and want someone who matches that image. I'm very much into giving pain, savouring the reactions of the sub as he struggles to deal with it. So a warning to all you experienced subs out there who have a ridiculously high pain threshold: if a couple of strokes of the cane gets no genuine reaction, I might get bored. ;)
Ultimately, I crave power and control in a relationship, but that doesn't mean that I want someone who wouldn't know how to keep his heart beating unless I told him to. I don't want to live anyone else's life for them, or change anyone's personality. I want to be the sun and compass of that life, not a puppet master pulling the strings.
In a vanilla context, I'm happy and friendly, with a love for martial arts, dancing and reading. I am most intelligent (not to mention modest) and enjoy intellectual discourse around literature, philosophy and psychology; unfortunately if you attempt to engage me in a discussion about politics and current affairs I will be sadly clueless.
What am I looking for? Exactly what I'm seeking in real life: friends, playmates, lovers, 'The One', long-lost cousins... let's see where you fit in.
And guys, please don't grovel in your message, or offer yourself to me. You hardly know me, and all that tells me is that you simply want to feed your sexual fantasies, and that any Domme will serve your purpose just as well.
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