Do you know me in passing but want to be better friends? Do you have a crush on me? Want to know how to get my attention?

Just follow these easy steps:

-- use my name
-- use my correct pronouns -- don't misgender me -- don't call me babe/hun/beautiful etc
-- message or text me things that remind you of me
-- bring me gifts (anything small/shiny I'm basically a magpie)
-- buy me cool fox things
-- bring me sacrifices (esp. if they are the souls of mine enemies)
-- cheese
-- rinse and repeat ☆♥•.¸¸.•♥☆
if you're unable to engage in conversation without attempting to steer it to a sexual direction, please.. just don't bother messaging me ☆♥•.¸¸.•♥☆
Oh hai!

I'm Absynthe - most people call me Aby.

I'm 41 years old - I don't do well with time as a linear concept, so I tend to ignore this fact.

I'm queer - I think that the best deor of my sexual identity would be "pansexual".

I'm gender-squishy (agender) - I'm not female or male, I don't fit in with the gender binary. My pronouns are kit/kits/kitself, but other gender neutral pronouns (they/their/them) are ok.

Because I'm agender, please don't use gendered terms for me - like 'girl'. Aby, or kitten works well.

I'm submissive - I have been involved in D/s, kink and BDSM for my entire adult life.

I'm a relationship anarchist - it's closer to poly than monogamy most of the time. I'm single at the moment. I have literally zero interest in a monogamous relationship, so please don't message if you think that I'll be changing my mind about this once I talk with you.

If you don't know what some of the terms are I've used here, feel free to google them.

If you want to know more about me, please just ask.

If you have any questions or comments, please feel free to say something.. or if you just want to say hi.

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I'm looking for someone who is interested in talking, who is definitely left leaning, who is interested in being critical about themselves, about the world around them, and about their interactions with that world (on an individual and a systemic level).
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~miau~ perfer et obdura; dolor hic tibi proderit olim