There are two kinds of strengths:
the strength to lead, and the strength to follow;
the strength to control, and the strength yield.

There are two kinds of power:
the power to strip away another’s soul bare,
and the power to stand naked.”
~Yaldah Tovah

While pet is all about giving me pleasure, it doesn’t always mean literal pleasure. I also get pleasure from learning about her, exploring her body and understanding how she reacts.

I want to literally and metaphorically spread her open and examine her. I want to understand how she responds to each little touch in each different area. I want to learn the intricate details of how the different folds of her skin feel to my fingers, mouth, and tongue. I want to know how she feels both inside and out, every bump, crevice, and hole.

The exploration is slow and methodical, trying just one thing at a time to isolate the impact it has on her. Each different part of her is potentially a button that affects her differently; and I want to put a label on each one of those buttons…

That way I can control her in exactly the way I want. Just like a young punk in a muscle car waiting at the red traffic light will push the pedal to the floor and make the engine roar in response, I want to be able to press my pets’ buttons and make her howl.

This spot will give her pleasure, getting her closer and closer, but never enough to orgasm. Now I know I can use that safely without fear of her going too far. Rub thatspot, though, and it will send her over the edge. If she’s pleased me well enough I just might use it.

Rubbing that funny shaped lump inside her while simultaneously licking her outside there will make her so desperate that she loses all inhibitions, turning her into an animal that begs and begs and wants more. That’s a good one to use just before going out…

I can learn which of her pleasure spots are easily accessible so they can be used out in public, perhaps subtly in the open, or during brief moments of privacy when noone is watching. That way I can keep her on the boil until we get home, her all wanton and desperate for release.

Knowing her buttons I can make her beg, that most pleasurable of sounds to a Master. Or perhaps I just want her moans to be background ambient noise as I go about my work: I can order to her to rub one specific spot and nowhere else while I keep myself busy. Then when I want to escalate that the louder noises of her coming, I tell her where to pleasure herself.

Yes, I definitely want to take the time to learn all about my pet and her buttons. I want that control, I want to be the owner of what she feels, how, and how much. I want her pleasure to be a direct extension of me, taking the decisions and choices away from her so that she doesn’t have to think about it anymore.

That helps us meld together. That makes us more as one.

On A Dominant’s Touch.

One thumb.  One finger.  That is all a Dominant needs to take his girl to the deepest, darkest recesses of her erotic center and make her feel simultaneously owned, taken, ravished, and savored.  

But is this all a Dominant needs?  If so, then any man can clutch a nipple, take a girl, and make her his.  Clearly, there is more in a Dominant’s touch.

Indeed.  A Dominant’s touch is the last, physical manifestation of a deep erotic connection he has carefully forged over time.  With each interlude, he has centered her with specific instruction, language, or action.  And he has made her his, conditioning her to the sound of his voice, the look on his face, and all the ways in which he takes her.

It’s hard for an educated woman to turn her head off. That’s part of the joy of being a submissive. None of the decisions are yours. When you can’t refuse anything and can’t even move, those voices in your head go silent. All you can do, and all you are permitted to do, is feel.

Cherise Sinclair, Dark Citadel

What's it feel like to sink into submission?

Not sure if I would say “sink” rather to rise to it. It’s really hard. it seems so simple at first until you realize all the parts of you that fight you and your need and desire to surrender. I say rise because it’s not a thing you fall into but claw and climb too. A good Dom will make the battle worthwhile. steer his pet through the endless obstacles that she will be challenged by while assuring her he will see to it that she is safe and successful every step of the way.  ;) 

On Cocksucking:

 ... it is a key part of my enjoyment as a Dominant.

I train my girl to appreciate that cock sucking is one of the best ways for her to experience joy, fulfillment, and a place where she can feel comforted and free. Submissives often forget that sucking is one of the first comforts a human knows.

As for me - there is nothing quite so pleasurable as sitting back after a long day to feel my girl suck my cock and moan her pleasure in being allowed to please me in this way. A perfect submissive craves cock, but knows instinctively just how much of her talents and abilities to put against sucking.

Cock sucking is also an excellent way for my girl to ground herself. If I am spanking or flogging her - she can get stressed at times. All I need do is feed her my cock and I can watch the calm overcome her as she settles into her place. I especially enjoy feeling her vocalize while my cock is deep in her mouth. Nothing feels better than a girl pleasing her Dominant in every way.

from tumbler ...

Touch it. But be gentle.

Feel the skin on your finger tips. Every vein and every ridge. Pull your hand along the underside until you get to the head. Run your finger around it. Over it. Feel the texture.

Then over the slit. Don’t be firm and don’t rush. Take your time. Grip the shaft carefully, then slowly move your hand back. Then forward. Same speed and same tightness. Keep going until you see the first drop of precum oozing. Then stop.

I’ll be watching you closely. I’m curious to see if you can control yourself or if you will be tempted to grip tighter. To pull at it harder. To increase the speed of your hand. Don’t. If you do I will take it away from you. Do as I say if you want to keep it in your delicate hands and you will get what I know you want.

Now lean down and lick that one drop off the head. Taste it. Feel the consistency on your tongue. Take in the flavor. Lick the rest of the head. Slowly. Use only your tongue, not your lips. Keep your hand still. Move your tongue along the underside of the head. Then circle it. Go over every part of it until it is completely wet from your tongue. Then take it into your mouth and gently suck on it. Just the head. Gently. Once. Twice. Then stop.

I’ll continue to observe you, making sure you do as I say. That you don’t get carried away. I won’t touch you and I won’t touch myself. I will lean back and watch how you do it. To see if you can follow my instructions. If you deserve to get your final prize.

Now take the head out of your mouth and lick the shaft. Start at the tip and slowly lick down until you reach the base. Flick your tongue over the balls once you reach them. Feel them tighten. Lick around them, then come back up the shaft along the underside. Up, then down. Keep looking at me for guidance but don’t stop. If you do it well then your reward will be waiting at the top in the form of more precum.

I want you to be gentle and slow. Don’t hurry and wait for my sign. When I finally run my hands into your hair and push your head firmer onto my throbbing cock, that’s when you will know that instruction time is over. That’s when I want you to take my cock any way you like. But until then, you will do as I say. Be a good girl and your time will come.

Copyright © MyRedBike - Dirty thoughts of a clean mind

Something I read on tumblr today ...

I am not an equal-opportunity humiliator. I don’t do it because I’m a misogynist, or because I enjoy watching a woman degraded, devolved into a begging, whimpering wreck at my feet. I don’t want to objectify because I think you’re an object, just a fuck thing to enjoy, toss aside, and let wipe itself down on its own time. I don’t tear you down because I want to see you in pieces on the floor.

It’s not respect that drives it, but that’s in there somewhere, a throughline that holds the whole thing together. No, I want to marvel at your tenacity, watch this personality that I care about so much, that I’ve explored with, bounce back from whatever I can throw at it. I want to see how plucky you are, see how stubborn you can be, and I want to see you wallow in the muck then wash yourself off and walk among the princesses again.

I call you a whimpering, cock-hungry babyslut and you revel in it, your body twitching like each syllable is a jolt of electricity bringing the Frankenstienian patchwork of your subsconscious to life. It’s tugging at something deep inside you, and it’s a something you want to let breathe. I strip away the pieces of you so that you can finally know the truth inside, before putting your clothes back on and stepping away, armed with new knowledge.

Pride comes before a fall, but they forget to tell you of the wisdom that comes from picking yourself up and walking away in one piece. That’s why the depths of me are dredged to the surface, some deep pleasure that I can’t quite vocalise, when I push you off that cliff with terrible words and worse actions. The depravity of it is a fire, purging you clean.

Something I came across on Tumblr ...

Worshipping a man's cock ... becomes elevated in a BDSM relationship.  Many girls have previously considered this an obligation, often performed as an appeasement to a man who is willing to plead or otherwise manipulate his way into receiving “a blowjob”.  They also feel an imbalance between giving and receiving pleasure.

But in our world ...  on the fringe of darkness, cock worship ... is not an obligation in any sense of the word.  It is a joy, an expression of love, and a place of refuge for a girl. There are few pleasures more satisfying for a Dominant than to have his girl on her knees before him, or stretched out between his legs on the bed, worshipping his cock.

This does not happen by chance. A proper Dominant takes the time to know his girl and her body.  He explores her erogenous zones and will often reward good behavior with orgasms and sexual stimulation in ways she has never experienced.  I suspect there are many submissive heads nodding in agreement with my statement.

As Dominant learns his girl’s joys, he reaches deep within and draws our her sexual hunger.  He strips away her armor, peels back the layers that cover her underlying erotic essence, and frees her to her own desires.

This erotic emancipation is very powerful. Properly motivated, a girl hungers for her Dominant’s cock and salivates in anticipation.   She no longer feels obligated.  She feels driven.  She feels incomplete in service to him until she can take him into her mouth, show him how much she loves and appreciates his cares, and how much she yearns to please him.  

And she is the one who now begs.  

She is the one who implores her Dominant to feed her his cock.  

And she will spend hours in a blissful state, pleasing him, if she is allowed.

There is no more touching and intimate sight to behold than a girl worshipping her Dominant’s cock.  Thank you to my follower for allowing us to view your intimate dance on the fringe.

Some words ... from Atlas Shrugged

Would you to wish to hear what I think when I am with you?  To see you as mine … submitting to any infamous whim I may devise.

To see you submit to any depraved act I will perform for the sole purpose of watching your dishonor - and to which you will submit purely for the sake of unspeakable sensation.  To bring you down to things you can't conceive - and to know that it is I who have taken you there.                                                                     

To reduce you to a body ... To teach you an animal's pleasure ... To see you need it - to hear you begging me for it.  To see your wonderful spirit dependent upon the obscenity of your need.  To watch you as you are - as you face the world with your proud strength.

I want you … and may I be damned for it!

Some thoughts on Cock worship ... from a profile I read ...

Simplify things when you serve Your Master ...

Simplify it to his cock.

It is his cock she serves ...

And not even His cock ...

Just cock ... the pure object ...

Then you follow those thoughts into the response:

she is simply cunt.  she is Master's cunt.  She is cunt for cock ...

What is Cock Worship???

Quite simply it is way more then just a blow job. It is NOT about getting Daddy's cock hard..Or even making the cock release....(but is very much treasured and loved when it does). It is about Love & Devotion to the cock in a very admirable way. To love and worship a man’s cock & balls, though literally loving, tasting, smelling, to loving and needing to caress, lick, suck, nurse the cock look at the cock admirably and touch the cock in a way to show our love, respect and lust for the cock. It is something that not only gives us such pleasureto serve the cock but is clearly so important to our man who will allow us the pleasure of itand takes us where we need to be with it

"Cock worshipping is attaching your sluthood to your other. It is declaring your lust for them sexually by pointing out their cock and balls to be gloriously enjoyable for you to interact with. It is a strong statement of I am a complete slut for you and not what any old hard cock can do to my pussy."

You as the Master must understand what true complete cock worship is ... it is something I need to have and need my daddy to understand what it is about!! I need a Daddy willing and wanting to take me further and deeper into my love and devotion to the cock.. it is about worship.. it is NOT about a glorified blowjob..I can not love or worship a cock if they do not love the man it is attached too!!!

It has everything to do with a special unique bond between two unique beings. It is about being protective, nurturing, and providing unconditional love from him to me and to the one I love. It is about giving without expecting anything in return!!