1. Goals

a. Relationship goals

I would like to have a relationship with no limits. That is, I would say to you "I was thinking of fucking a goat." And you would say "Really? A goat? Why a goat?" And you would say "I am a really big fan of Sarah Palin." And I would say "Really? Sarah Palin? Why Sarah Palin?"

The point being that I could tell you anything I was thinking, and you would accept it. Perhaps not agree, but accept it, and respect me. You could tell me anything you were thinking, and I would accept it. Perhaps not agree, but accept it.

I want us to have intimacy of a kind I have not seen. I want to create something new. I want to know you completely, and think well of you completely. And you me.

b. Other goals

Also, I would like to subvert American society. Nothing violent. Start a business, start a school, start a church.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eqVdXrSRubI

I'm getting "the woman piece" in order before I go on to "the business piece."

c. Means (relationship goals only)

Oh, yeah, this is a sex site, isn't it? I'm constantly amazed how people focus on the mechanics, and not the relationship. To me, mechanics is just the support for the relationship.

I want to be in charge. Period. You will be subordinate. There are reasons for that, that we can discuss, but that is the deal.

Once a week, I will hang you up by your wrists in my basement and whip you. Not because I am angry, but because it reminds us both of what our relationship is. I expect to find it deeply satisfying.

I would like you to live with me. Here, in my house. I would like you to take care of the home, while I take care of the money. All these items are negotiable. But this would be my preference.

My Ideal Person: 1. Your goals

a. Relationship goals

I would hope and expect that you are hungry for intimacy. I would hope and expect that you would like to be thought well of, without limits. None of the sly digs, the manuevering for primacy. The disparaging eye-roll, the sneering voice. Sigh.

b. Other goals

I have a long, looong and successful history of supporting my significant other's goal. I am changing that focus slightly. Me, first. I only have a few decades to accomplish my goals, and I'm not going to let anything distract me.

If your goal is compatible with my goal, I will do everything possible to support you. If you are a poet, a paints artist, a singer, you will find no more interested and helpful friend.

c. Means (relationship goals only)

You would need a working mind and a working mouth.

I'm pretty patient. If you don't know what you mean, or are afraid to say what you mean, I'll wait, suggest possibilities, smile reassuringly. But some people, regardless of how much time you give them, hate to have an original idea for fear they'll be exposed. No go.

I would like you to be reliable and polite. I'm surprised how many people lately have not shown up, and not called. If you do that, I'll stop communicating.