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So... Having been off of this site for a long time, and having found a sexy, little submissive pet of my own, I can really only be back for one reason, right? Yep, looking for extras to add to the mix. We are not poly, but definitely non-monogamous, and we're actively looking to see what sorts of adventures we can get into together. D/s doesn't necessarily have to be a part of that, but it would be great if anyone we played with at least understood our dynamic and where they would or would not fit into it. Anyway, I'm sure we'll have more to say here later, but for now, just think of us as a two-person team looking to walk the Earth, meet people, and get in adventures...

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4/17/2014 11:06:18 AM
Male half traveling to DFW area for business next week. Debating looking for trouble while I'm there...

6/9/2012 9:06:18 AM

From too much time on my hands to insanely busy! 

 

It would seem that I wasn't meant to wait long to get back into the swing of things.  While I do have at least one past playmate with whom I looking forward to reconnecting (but not having much luck), collarme has once again provided me with an eager, new pet. 

 

Actually, eager doesn't even cover it.  Her thirst for training and knowledge is truly insatiable!  I find myself having to think a little faster to stay ahead of her and keep my lesson plans exciting, which is a very good education for me, as well.

 

So far, we've explored and learned quite a bit about her body and the capabilities thereof.  It's useful for me to know what does and does not work for her, in the sense of punishment/reward, but it has given me a great deal of pleasure to help her discover aspects of her sexuality that even she wasn't aware of.  For example, there is nothing quite like being the first lover to discover that a woman is multi-orgasmic, especially when inducing the female orgasm at will is a big part of your kink! If I could team her with my other favorite pet, I could manage dozens of orgasms per session between the two.  (Mental note: plan a multi-pet orgasmfest.)   

 

Also, with her having spent so much time with obviously selfish lovers, I get the added bonus of a playmate that already has a great deal of experience in working solely for her partner's pleasure.  Sometimes it's nice to just sit back and let your pet show her appreciation by using all of her skills to please you.  It's even nicer if you don't have to teach her how!  She is one of very few women to have finished me with her mouth/throat, and since that tends to take a very long time, she deserved every drop of the reward.  

 

Her intellect is a pleasant bonus, too.  As much fun as any woman may be in bed, I have trouble spending time with people who can't think on their feet.  Actually, she tends to keep me on mine, remembering exactly what I tell her, even if I don't.  On one occasion she even brought me a tool she thought I would need for that day's lesson.  (And she was right!) 

 

And such a pretty girl, too!  Very much my type, with fair skin and features and very womanly curves.  Even her pussy is pretty!  Whether kneeling with her eyes down or on all fours to show me her ass, she is a vision of submissive loveliness that would be the envy of any dom.  And to think people are always complaining about never finding anything worthwhile on collarme...

   


4/30/2012 7:19:54 PM

As life levels out and I find myself with more time on my hands, I also find myself drawn back to this site once again.  It has been a long time since my last entry, and in the meantime I have learned quite a bit about myself and about the lifestyle.  I've made (and played with) some new friends, and lost contact with a few.  (Alas, their profiles are gone.  I can only hope they found good homes!) 

Through all of it I've come to realize that my attraction to this lifestyle was not a passing one, and what started as mere curiosity has grown to become an understanding of myself as a dominant personality.  Some of the lessons I've learned about myself have been shocking, while others gave me answers that should have been obvious all along.  In short, joining this site started something that I am not even close to finishing, even after learning more than I ever expected...

Having established for myself that I am listed under the correct heading on this site, I think I am going to waste less time on those that think a 'true Dom' must be somehow harsh or rude in their first (or any) messages, and focus more on those from whom I can learn.   Or perhaps seek out those few to whom I actually have something to teach.  I have had tremendous luck finding amicable playmates on this site so far (and I think they know who they are!), let's hope that luck holds!   


4/8/2011 10:09:38 PM

A Play Day.

  Thanks to a little schedule maneuvering, I was able to spend an entire day with my sub this week.  It was a very educational day for me, and very satisfying.  In between several rounds of good, hard sex (She originally noted the exact number in her journal, but I had her take it out. No sense in bragging!) we talked a bit about pain, endorphins and after-care, and I got to poke around in her head a bit to understand more of the sub mentality.

  There was a pretty good round of spanking, and she's starting to learn some of my likes and dislikes, but my initial attempts at rope play were lame at best.  I plan to eventually buy/fabricate a much more solid and secure restraint system, so I can forgive myself for learning the ropes slowly, pun intended.  She's a bit of a squirmer, but I'll find a way to keep her ass where I want it until it's nice and purple. 

  Her body is still a pleasure to explore, and as I touch and learn more about it, I am ever more excited about pushing it to its limits.  Our first real spanking session resulted in some pretty decent bruises, and some exquisite, if slightly stifled yelps, but she escaped my clutches a few times, and I may have let her off a bit easy.  I will definitely make up for it once I have her firmly strapped down... 

  Her past doms have been much stricter and more extreme than I am prepared to be just yet, but it is my eventual goal to be the one to have taken her farther into her submissive fantasies than she knew she wanted to go.  For now, I see no reason not to let her be her playful, silly self when we're not actively engaging in our disparate roles (we even had a lovely breakfast out after the first couple of rounds), and I expect that I will continue to enjoy her company during the times that I don't have my cock in her. 

  When I do have my cock in her, though, she truly shines.  Having spent so much quality time with and in it, I've gained a true appreciation for her pussy, in particular.  Between her big, red vibrator and my hand, I stretched her as far as I could (almost to the third row of knuckles with all four fingers) and she snapped back to almost-too-tight-for-my-cock within moments. She's very, very responsive to g-spot stimulation, resulting in many, many orgasms for her, even when I had her in tears and stretched to the limit.  I have always enjoyed the female orgasm, and practicing on a subject who is so sensitive that she just can't stop herself is immensely satisfying for me. 

  I think making her cum again and again with my hand while she cried and begged for more flipped a bdsm switch in my brain, and fucking her hard with tears streaming down her face and having her thank me for it jammed that switch in the 'on' position.  I have been permanently turned-on since I left her house, and I am immediately hard at just the thought of that lovely pussy, all wet and shiny, presented in exactly the position I prefer when I walk through her door again.  And I know it will be...   


3/28/2011 9:58:18 PM

Good News! 

  Having roamed the site for a while, continually being told that I was 'not Dom enough' for one person after another, I think I've finally found someone who isn't just looking for an asshole to rough them up before fucking them.  It's a nice change!  I'll get back to her after a short rant...

  I hate to take up space in my own journal defending my Dom-ness, but I feel I have to say that, if you think you can tell the depth and force of someone's personality from one or two emails, I am probably 'not Dom enough for you.'  I would, however, also say that you are not looking for a dominant, but simply seeking someone who expresses their own insecurities in a manner opposite yours.  There's nothing wrong with that!  I'm sure there are plenty of very fulfilling relationships out there that allow two (or more) people to hide their fears and worries behind the fantasy role of their chosen label, and I am very happy for all of them.  That's just not what I'm looking for, and not who I am.   

  I am very new to the lifestyle, yes, but I am not new to being dominant.  I am a natural alpha male, and carry a dominant personality as a natural extension of that.  I do not have to wear leather, carry a whip, yell, scream or threaten people into doing what I want.  Nor do I feel compelled to furrow my brow and scowl every time there's a camera nearby (seriously, what is with that?).  I never have, and never want to.  I am here to explore the possibilities of drawing on this power to experience a different aspect of human sexuality as an exercise in pure self-knowledge, nothing more.  I'm not here to find someone who will put up with my abusive nature, because I don't have one.  I'm polite, respectful, well-spoken, slightly silly and curious about the world around me, and I will either find someone with the same qualities or find someone worth teaching and molding into a suitable partner. 

  Which brings me back to the original reason for this post, the good news.  She's actually more ideal than I was hoping to find on this site, and I almost feel like I found her too soon.  She's a little taller than my usual 'type', but is shaped just right, with a pleasant countenance and perfect, almost ethereally smooth, alabaster skin.  She's just shy enough to bring out my predatory side, but comfortable enough with her sexuality that I don't worry about shocking her with my own desires, and I know that I will always find her an eager playmate.

  In fact, though she's a full decade younger than I am, she has a great deal more experience in the lifestyle, and is therefore an almost perfect plaything.  Her limits and comfort levels already far exceed mine, so I am in the unique position of being able to explore almost every aspect of my role as Dom without any intial restrictions or resistance from my sub.  In fact, taking my time to get to some of her more advanced fantasies just serves to reinforce my control as I expand my own experience.  It's a win-win!     

  So, while this unexpected windfall will draw most of my focus away from finding suitable subs to play with, I still plan to continue to roam the site and learn what I can from whoever wishes to teach.  Well, whoever wishes to teach without being an asshole, anyway...        


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chantryamy
 
 Age: 24
 United Kingdom